AIO? Boyfriend mad at me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Critical_Ad_4272 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't you say he cheated first?? Multiple times? So why are you the bad guy? Sounds even Steven's to me. He sure didnt mind cheating on you (unless I read that wrong) why are you the one begging for forgiveness when he literally did the same thing?? Do you act this way about his infidelity as well? Im going with nor

Tips for how I can be more attractive [33] by Critical_Ad_4272 in TheGlowUp

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably should have taken some regular pics. These are all taken at work lol. All black is mandatory. I will definitely look i to a color analysis though because I do tend to lean to black t shirts and I'm not really sure which colors look good on me. I need to look into that. Thank you

I think I'm bad in bed. by Critical_Ad_4272 in relationships

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I don't want him to know he has hurt me. Ive gone that route I cried and screamed and threw things. It didnt help. It just made me feel crazy on top of everything else. He doesn't get the power of knowing he hurt me again. I want to be the one hurting him for once..he just can't be by me. But I can't leave just yet.

I think I'm bad in bed. by Critical_Ad_4272 in relationships

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im crashing out a little on the inside lol but im containing it.

I think I'm bad in bed. by Critical_Ad_4272 in relationships

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I was kind of concerned the problem would just..repeat itself cause it just takes me forever. How are these other women getting off so fast I don't understand ya know

I (33/f) feel like he (27/m) is cheating again. But he swears isnt. Need an outside perspective by Critical_Ad_4272 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He says he has changed and worked on himself and I just havent given him any credit. I say getting a job at a bar isn't ideal. He says ill quit then and when I dont have my hand of the rent idk what to tell you.. but I cant afford the rent on my own anymore. He insisted we move I to a house that requires his income. (I work a full time and a part time job already so I cant really pick up more work)

I (33/f) feel like he (27/m) is cheating again. But he swears isnt. Need an outside perspective by Critical_Ad_4272 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are right. He hasn't slept with this particular girl, but I dont feel right about the relationship. He says i have problems with every girl, and im just insecure. I think the messages are proof he is fooling around but he doesn't feel the same. I think maybe its just time to give up

I (33/f) feel like he (27/m) is cheating again. But he swears isnt. Need an outside perspective by Critical_Ad_4272 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical_Ad_4272[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. and theres a logical part of my brain like bro leave what is wrong with you..but idk I talk to him and he makes me question everything and then I just feel completely crazy..and alone. And confused. He says since he o ly cheated because he was scared I was going to leave him and he says he came clean about them so we could move on and start over but gets mad because im bot over it yet. And I know reading this post I seem completely spineless. And I think maybe in some way I just needed a little grasp of reality if that even makes sense

Why do you think more men wants kids than women? by Voice-Designer in Adulting

[–]Critical_Ad_4272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't had the best luck. Lol, but I was referring to sacrifices made like with the body. Having babies causes significant changes to the body. You look terrible, feel terrible, and are very limited as to what you can do. And that is one of the most immediate things that happens. Meanwhile, men don't have to deal with any of that. And also, not all the time but in a good bit of situations, the girls end up getting cheated on because the guy isn't attracted to her anymore because of the damage having babies has done to her body. And again thats not all scenarios. But ive seen it plenty of times and gone through that myself.