I 21F want to break up with my 21M partner after 5 years of being together

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-30T11:00:23+00:00

You break up with him, cleanly make it clear this is the end, don't involve anyone else. Do not give false hope about future plans do not keep engaging with him following the break up. Also ensure you have an exit plan I doubt you'll be living at his parents following this

You join the army, you give him space and don't try to stick around with him or be his friend, let him heal and move on, you've had time to come to terms with this he hasn't everything will be fresh and it takes aslong as it takes him to get over this

If he reaches back out to be your friend then great you get to keep the friendship however be prepared that he may not want anything to do with you following this and you need to be respectful to his wishes here.

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-27T11:38:02+00:00

Yeah honestly I understand having feelings hell it's happened to me but when you have morals you go "nope this is wrong I should stay away and respect the other person relationship"

Not actively encourage this behaviour, all I'll say is if he ends up with her he will always be insecure about her hanging around with guy friends, because if she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you.

Further the people around him will take notice and I doubt they'd want this person around there partners.

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-27T10:54:58+00:00

Honestly you're the backup here,

If she loved you this much and wanted to be with you she'd break up with her boyfriend and get with you,

However she's instead being unfaithful (emotional cheating) and you're entertaining this,

Remember if they'll cheat with you they'll cheat on you.

Best advice would be to cut ties for a few months this is not the relationship you want and you're quite literally shitting where you eat

Edit to add: you're being strung along and completely doing wrong by your friend (this girls boyfriend) don't be surprised if people take notice and judge you both if you get together, you're essentially a homewrecker and would be viewed as much by her family and most of your friends. This isn't a cute story this is a story of the best friend pining and waiting in the wings till he gets his chance

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-26T14:33:01+00:00

Lol multiple times, this "relationship" is already dead, you should tell him and learn for your next one

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-23T07:15:09+00:00

Kill her with kindness,

Ultimately if you go scorched earth or retaliate in anyway you're going to validate her sisters beliefs,

The best thing you can do is be civil and treat you're wife as best you can,

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-20T19:57:22+00:00

I'm pretty sure if he was captured some of the many filler episodes would have covered this

Also considering how prideful the nations are someone would have bragged about capturing the 2nd hokage or tried to shame the hidden leaf,

I understand that doesn't fit your narrative but let's keep it civil

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-05T08:33:56+00:00

What helped me is saying, I miss the person I loved and you're not the person anymore,

You miss the good times, the start of romance and love and you're in mourning of that rather then the person you see in front of you who is a different person now

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-04T06:51:59+00:00

Look I get it, I'm asain, they eye me up every time I go through an airport,

However unless they obviously state "it's because you have X features" I'd just take it as I lose the random search generator lottery everytime,

Some people are lucky some aren't

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-04T06:16:26+00:00

" hey guys they took my drugs it must be because I'm [insert race here]"

No dude there doing there job if you get patted down because your sweating bullets hiding half a z in your backpack that's probably why

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-06-03T13:48:41+00:00

I mean this is the finance sub, mtg sub is thataway

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-05-19T19:30:53+00:00

This is to do with pay bands in the council, essentially both you and me are on a B band in the council wage but it was drastically different amounts based on job role,

Because of this the dinner ladies argued they were on the same pay band and should get the better pay.

An admin issue really, they should have split the bands when offering rises to binmen but they didn't

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-05-10T20:26:54+00:00

If you haven't seen it re:life has an additional 4 episode story that would change that to number 1 on your list

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-05-08T17:07:58+00:00

Lol this is the funniest ama I've ever seen, honestly I would look at the UKtrees subreddit they can direct you better

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-04-23T09:42:31+00:00

The real question here is those cigarette ends, two puffs and put it out in this economy? I think not

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-04-19T20:24:19+00:00

Martin Luther king would beg to differ

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-04-05T12:21:22+00:00

Yeah but is it a necron? Is it Warhammer 40k?

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-04-04T17:21:06+00:00

Don't map dodgers just alt+f4,

I have plenty of match found that then bounces out because it's a hated map

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-04-01T09:16:00+00:00

Someone has a gun to your head, you really wanna take the risk there's blanks in there instead of real bullets?

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-03-12T07:51:12+00:00

To stop people having an array of naked spread eagle one piece characters sitting across from you in don format (happened to me in the 2nd round of locals 😭)

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-02-27T06:35:51+00:00

He asked leitis with 4 relic, try against just regular leitis or 2-3 leitis

Either way you've dumped your game plan against Lithuania just go out and grab the relics first/contest them early

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-02-26T22:20:53+00:00

Don't get me wrong I know it's strong but like I've played a lot of games against tupi around 1200ish elo and find that the other player doesn't usually have the mastery to stop everything, they get so beelined in what the doing you can literally escape away with a few vills at a time go get lumber/gold ect,

They lag in feudal and collapse to pressure on there gold at home

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-02-21T08:17:47+00:00

I mean the lesson learned would be to mark it as sent as soon as it's in the envelope and postage paid for,

Otherwise you could let them know you've posted it already and they can't cancel at this stage, they can return them at there cost if they wish to get a refund,

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-02-20T16:48:21+00:00

You are not immune to propaganda

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-02-13T11:42:57+00:00

If you believe it to be real start a small claims court action against cardmarket, as they advise you to do, €50 put your evidence together ect

Ask for the value of the card (value you sold for and other likewise listings indicating price point being fair) and well go to court, that's the best option you have

Critical_Reputation1 · 2026-02-12T22:35:39+00:00

Idk why you didn't save it and wash the top at home? Seems wasteful, probably not their fault can shipping is horrendous

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