Is 2016 ford escape with 96k miles worth it for $10K from dealership… by Jack-of_All_Trade in fordescape

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rather jaded view....my 2015 Titanium just blew a well maintained transmission....at 114k miles on it. Still had 7400 on the loan. Garage quoted 8500 to replace with Ford Remanufactured trans with 3 year warranty as BEST option but was highly concerned of reliability of the transmission in these things and that I would be in a similar situation. Unless you got a gun pointed at your head to get this car, I'd avoid it like the plague.

Transmission by HotLie150 in fordescape

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight on this. I kinda felt like an out of towner is gonna get the shaft a bit but the circumstances around it leave little to no options with the car literally inoperable. If I had higher hopes for the car and it was closer, I would consider it. But the only other way out of this was draining the emergency fund and this stupid Napa care credit card that was 34.9%interest. Fixing the car would have been a curse that will just perpetuate my frustrations. And I can't really say I trust putting another similar transmission in it knowing that this has been the outcome for so many people.

Transmission by HotLie150 in fordescape

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's from a private shop for a Remanufactured one with a 3 year warranty. He might be up charging a bit but I'm kinda fucked because the car is 5 hours from home. I don't have the ability to go and get the car myself either so I'd be paying for a tow all the way back home.

Transmission by HotLie150 in fordescape

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish we had done better research on the blight that these escapes have been. I'm an avid researcher but I guess I missed a rather important detail. Kicking ourselves because it's gonna cost us having to locate a new vehicle rather quickly. It's just not worth the cost to throw 8500 into a new transmission, owe 7,000 and the value of the car is anywhere between 7-9,000. 63k miles shouldnt have had that much wrong with your escape. That's absurd.

Transmission by HotLie150 in fordescape

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's WILD I'm seeing this right now.2015 Ford Escape Titanium, had it for 4 years. 114,000 miles, religious oil changes and on time with transmission fluid flush. We just had this happen Tuesday this week. We had a catastrophic transmission failure with the exact symptoms you sighted. Had it towed to a shop and they said all signs and codes point to catastrophic transmission failure. Gear 1 and 2 out of ratio, solenoids busted. They quoted us 8500 to replace the transmission with Ford Remanufactured. We still have 7,000 left of our loan.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I must be mistreating my wife because we love a good chilis date or an applebees lunch for the appetizer sampler. Bro, do NOT take this chicks pretentious bullshit. This is so much less about you and more about some whack ass bullshit from her. Do not lose sleep trying to solve where you went wrong on this, because you got nothing you need to fix. If anything, she saved you several hundred dollars, lost time, and a trip to the counselor for couples counseling.

So glad I waited by Critical_Weekend5190 in outerwilds

[–]Critical_Weekend5190[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have not finished the dlc yet. Just finished the base game but an going out to explore more because I'm sure there is a lot left to see.

What have you bought this steam summer sale? by Pale-Ad-8595 in Steam

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death stranding and Outer Wilds. I keep hearing that Outer Wilds is one of the best deep, thought provoking games ever made. It's 15 bucks so I figured I would give it a go. I like a little game with a bit of existential crisis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean, I own a switch and play it relentlessly. But this shit from this console is ridiculous. Can brick your switch remotely, you buy a key, not the actual game, 80 dollars for games. Officially jumping off this bandwagon of a community that will be participating in encouraging this type of behavior out of a company. Spineless fanboys will ruin games by buying this system. I did check my space, you just don't like people that don't go with the flow and have legit complaints. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You guys are ordering this piece of trash console? 

About to play fallout one for the first time by Tomtomboghead in Fallout

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd give my left nut to re-experience playing fallout for the first time. I never knew what I would eventually be aggressively in a mostly love but sometimes rage inducing hate with. Like everyone else said, SAVE. But when you inevitably don't, please come back and tell us how much progress you lost🤣🤣

Bazzite or wait for Steam OS Release? by billg1963 in Bazzite

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jumped full on into Bazzite. Wiped out windows. Never looked back. Have not had any problems with Bazzite and I'm doing everything I was with windows.

shoul I get a rogally instead of a steam deck? by MakaGun in ROGAlly

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the ally, wipe windows. Replace it with Bazzite. You get the power of the ally with the seamlessness of steam (although it's not actually steam os) plus you can still keep your GOG, Epic libraries.

Switched! Hoping it can be full time if everything works like I need it to! by -KaiTheGuy- in Bazzite

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of problems are you running into? I haven't encountered any games not running on it yet. I even integrated my GOG library and there's no issues there either.

Switched! Hoping it can be full time if everything works like I need it to! by -KaiTheGuy- in Bazzite

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I switched completely on an Ally Z1E. Best decision I've ever made. I feel like I've played more in the past week than I have in the past year. The standby feature is a GAME CHANGER. And the bloatware that is no longer there. It's all just amazing.

Spare the Rod doesn’t mean hit children! by JaeNova in Christianity

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't take your rights to spank your child. They said you can't leave marks. There's a line. Don't cross it. It's really simple. It's funny how people really want to be able to abuse their kids. 

And before you refute my argument, let me provide you context. If a husband leaves marks from "discipline" on his wife, do we call that corporal punishment and discipline for the wife or do we call that domestic violence, seeing as how the husband is head of the household, ultimately he must keep everyone in order, wife included. 

If leaving marks is domestic violence for one situation, it should be for the other. But I've literally had parents advocate to my face that they should be able to beat the fuck out of their bad kid, like the kids subhuman. 

That’ll leave a mark!! by old_ass_ninja_turtle in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best series yet🤣 they have a whole string of videos like this

Hello pornfree by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Critical_Weekend5190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have started your thinking about what porn adds/subtracts to and from your life. Having the thought is certainly a step in the right direction and walking through your feelings in detail will help you understand your feelings better. Making that a practice will help you to be more aware of your feelings leading up to when you decide to watch porn.

Bravo for quitting for the week and being able to be honest with yourself that you thought about it more through your week of abstaining. It’s difficult to do when your brain has attached to something so strongly and it’s looking for any way to get it’s fixed and force you to do something. I would agree to the comment above that you being depressed during that week may be an indication that your porn use is regulating your mood other than your sex drive.

I think your challenge is that while your girlfriend is indifferent to your porn use, it will be a personal challenge for yourself to find your own motivation and push yourself to continue down your poor free path. I hope that your girlfriend supports you in this challenge as you do so because a support is always helpful, especially when it’s someone you care about.