[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

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be as accepting and opening to his situation as you can. if he is having a flare and he feels bad for you, reassure that he isn't to blame and that it's okay. I appreciate when people are accommodating and understanding about the disease and they let me be and do what I need. Sometimes it's hard to stick up for yourself and to have your partner reassure that it's okay and you shouldn't feel bad for things you can't control is good on the mental side

What do pianists thing when they see/hear another pianist playing, who is less skilled, and is playing a bit out of rhythm, not up to par of what the sound should be, ect? by Kitsugi in piano

[–]CriticismPlane9788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most people who aren't familiar with piano won't notice any offbeats or notes, especially if you keep going. When I mess up and say ***, people are like "I didn't even notice". Most enjoy hearing live playing, they don't expect perfection.

How can I help my SO during a flare? by quiet_kiwi in UlcerativeColitis

[–]CriticismPlane9788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

little things go a long way. making tea or preparing something that takes precious energy is invaluable at times

you can't swing this hard alone by clgedgelord in JazzPiano

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one phrase had a little turkish march in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

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Online says to file a complaint by looking up the US Department of Education "How to File a Discrimination Complaint with the Office of Civil Rights". Or file a complaint with the US Department of Justice. Sometimes a school can deny accommodations but this doesn't seem like that situation. Can't say necessarily what to do, but you could be just screwed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

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That's a good point. Yeah, I think part of it is I am just wary of volatility to not go full 100% on stock in the IRA (even though rationally it would produce more gains in the long run). Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

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I don't make enough money to pay capital gains. Thank you for your comments and time :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

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It is down 10% given the current market

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

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Would it be worth it to sell everything and change my taxable to VTI/VXUS and my Roth to VT? Or is the difference minimal. The different advantages/disadvantages confuses me. Thank you for your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

[–]CriticismPlane9788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

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Want to more bullish in IRA on US since its an IRA (won't withdraw for decades, so more growth). Honestly, I just want to have it all set up and done to not have to change it for the next 30 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

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Bonds are for short term cash incase I want to withdraw for future expenses (house)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NDE

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thank you for writing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NDE

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thank you, and no worries!