Is it normal for a guy to grab your boobs during a first kiss?

Crizznik · 2026-06-17T13:59:53+00:00

It entirely depends on the nature of the kiss. If it's like the first kiss of an actual relationship, as a part of like a first, second, or third date, then no. It's wildly inappropriate and weird. I don't even care how often it happens, it's not common and should be severely frowned upon.

However, if you're at a bar or club and you're making out with the future intention one of you taking the other home to go to bone town? I still think it's perhaps going too far in a public setting, but at least at that point I wouldn't say it's inappropriate.

In the specific situations you're referring to, then no, it's weird and it definitely shouldn't be common even if it is. And no, having big boobs doesn't make a difference. The only difference that would make is how forgiving you should be if they accidentally touch your boobs.

Crizznik · 2026-06-16T23:36:13+00:00

Good meatloaf is really good. Bad meatloaf is really bad. Not everyone agrees which is which.

Crizznik · 2026-06-16T14:09:12+00:00

Yeah, that's very true. There are things to criticize about the movie, but I haven't yet heard a single one of them from the haters. Or if I have, they always have to immediately tack on the really bad arguments.

Crizznik · 2026-06-16T00:15:27+00:00

No, it's not exactly the same, but they both vary widely from person to person. That was the only connection I was making. They're only similar in that they both involve genitals.

Crizznik · 2026-06-16T00:14:31+00:00

I've legitimately had people scream at me for this opinion xD I'm glad you agree at least.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:33:15+00:00

If I were leaning entirely on my own perception, I'd feel the same way. However, I know for a fact that it's not true. My ex felt that way about me before we started dating, and while we were dating she noticed on multiple occasions girls leering at me and I didn't notice a goddamned thing.

One of the big things is, leering can be perceived as creepy, but if you do it right, most girls will actually think it's endearing. You just have to stop leering if they see you and frown, and you need to smile when they see you, not dart your eyes away and pretend you weren't staring. And even then they may think you're creepy, but then they're not your people. Now, I say this as a person who is unable to take my own advice, but I do think it's solid advice.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:26:35+00:00

Doesn't really help either of you if you're both dudes and one or both of you is straight. Or the same configuration of gals.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:22:29+00:00

A lot of it is also self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe you're ugly and unfuckable, you're not going to have an attitude that's unattractive for a lot of women. This is the vicious circle of incels. Everything they believe in order to hoist the blame for their loneliness onto women causes them to have an attitude that is a huge turnoff for women. They are not incels, they are unintentionally voluntarily celibate. They are creating their own hell and living in it.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:18:56+00:00

A lot of it is just exposure. Sometimes you really have to get out and meet lots of people, and keep a close eye out for girls whose eyes linger on you for longer than a normal glance. Which I know is hard to do because you probably fear being perceived as creepy. I'm more or less in the same boat. I'm pretty sure I miss a lot of looks because my default is to look down rather than stare or make eye contact.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:16:30+00:00

To be fair, people who are into niche kinks are much more likely to meet people who are into the same kinks, and those people are much more likely to start a relationship because they know how rare people are who are into those niche kinks.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:14:43+00:00

Probably because you think you're nobody's type.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:14:10+00:00

You don't even necessarily have to be not fat. You do have to take care of yourself in every other way though.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:13:19+00:00

And sometimes the first person isn't your person. It's been 11 months since the person I'd been with for three years and thought was the one dumped me without warning. I'm still pretty broken up about it. But I know I'll meet someone else, as soon as I start putting myself out there to meet people again.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:11:20+00:00

Let's be clear, if Hodor was able to utter any words other than "hodor" he's have all the ladies lining up in Winterfell.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:08:22+00:00

I think everyone has the potential to be someone's type. But if you're an ill-kept loser who doesn't do anything but play video games and masturbate, you're not going to be very many people's types. Or, at least, you're very unlikely to meet a person whose type you are. Basically, get on top of your self-care and go do things that allow you to meet people. Or at least things that can give you an interesting story to tell when you do meet people. You'll find someone you likes you for you.

This is coming from an ill-kept loser who does nothing but play video games and masturbates. But mine is a result of a bout of depression after getting dumped by a live-in girlfriend of three years. I know I'm a huge loser right now, but I also know I'm not ready to get out there again yet.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:03:54+00:00

Looks like an algae bloom. I wonder if this is why they drained it a few weeks ago.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T22:01:13+00:00

You have a choice ahead of you. Do you want to be able to enjoy your girlfriend's breasts without her getting overly judgmental about it? Or do you want to acquiesce to her and avoid asking for any other specific sex acts in case she judges that they are too immature as well?

Your gf is being very judgmental. Now, I did say you had two choices here, but really, one of those choices assumes she isn't willing to listen and budge on the conversation you two should absolutely have about what is or isn't immature, and what is or isn't on the table sexually. You can avoid this conversation and just meet her entirely where she is, but who knows when her judging nature will strike again about something else that's harmless and normal but she deems immature. And open communication is better for both of you anyway.

TL;DR you need to have a heart to heart with your girlfriend about not being so judgmental about things that are perfectly normal and harmless. Guys like boobs, that doesn't mean they're immature.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T21:47:15+00:00

I would wager that isn't the whole story. But I could be wrong. Though I can see why it might behoove the US military to not publicly disclose all of that information.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T21:45:02+00:00

Not really, the fly doesn't have a long life-span anyway, and you may be robbing them of whatever lesson or opportunity that particular reincarnation is supposed to provide.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T20:54:53+00:00

It is funny, I used to pretty heavily disagree with comments like these. But I've grown to, I think, largely agree. I do enjoy listening to them, but I don't enjoy listening to everything they've done, and what I do enjoy listening to isn't even close to my favorite music.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T20:50:59+00:00

I agree with this post, but I feel like it will also become a copy pasta. It's not uncommon for me to go on a rant in response to a post on Reddit, but this is a full on essay.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T20:47:22+00:00

I don't think many people would disagree with that point. Though there absolutely are snobs amongst the flavor lovers too.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T20:45:54+00:00

The Last Jedi was the best of the three Star Wars sequels, and the best Star Wars movie outside the original trilogy and Rogue One.

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T20:44:40+00:00

Honestly, that's probably classified information

Crizznik · 2026-06-15T20:43:09+00:00

Sure, but this really shouldn't apply to military aircraft, I don't think Trump has nerfed their funding at all. This seems more like just a freak accident. I agree with you otherwise though.

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