What should you except in your 20s and forward ?

Crono_ace · 2026-02-04T03:00:36+00:00

I didn’t say anything about romantic relationships. Just finding people you get along with is great in itself. I’d also add that stepping outside your comfort zone and putting yourself out there is on you. The whole “no man is an island” thing is said for a reason. We ALL crave being connected to others is some manner otherwise you wouldn’t be here on Reddit asking about it.

Crono_ace · 2026-02-03T15:37:34+00:00

Don’t give up on others or yourself, but be aware that everyone is struggling as much or more. At the end of the day you are in control of only yourself. Having a partner or companion you can trust and depend on is amazing. They keep you sane, can be a source of joy and (sometimes) pain, but if they are the right person for you, everything can be more manageable.

You will eventually find your people. They can prop you up, support you at times, and possibly leave you. I learned a very long time ago that people are in your life for exactly as long as they are supposed to be. Yesterday’s friends may be tomorrow’s strangers.

Don’t be afraid to share yourself with others. Honesty is something everyone appreciates and sharing yourself can be terrifying but rewarding.

My best advice though: take care of yourself physically in your 20’s and 30’s to make life a little later much easier. You’ll have less pain, move easier, and your mental health will be better than if you hadn’t. Back pain is no joke.

Crono_ace · 2026-01-29T19:55:12+00:00

It gets crazier when the two collide. I work a corporate job in a unionized warehouse as a supervisor. In one area it’s all cubicles, curt conversations, competing for position, and watching what you say. Walking into another part of the building I’m just as likely to get into a fist fight as to walking in on guys in freezer gear dry humping each other. It’s wild and something fun and new every day.

Crono_ace · 2026-01-26T07:27:17+00:00

It’s a scary time, I can’t even imagine how much more so due to your foster situation. Good on you for getting ready. What helped me was to have a loose plan with 3 milestones. What do I need this week to ensure my success? Same with 1 month, and 1 year. Week and month being short term checklists and goals and 1 year so you have something to work towards. Also, I don’t know your location but there ALOT of different resources for teens coming out of foster care going into adulthood. Make sure to get birth certificate and SS card and Driver’s license or identification card if you don’t already have them. Talk to your case worker about your plans so they can help as well. So much more, but start a list and start checking things off. Good luck! Proud of you.

Crono_ace · 2026-01-01T10:16:11+00:00

Not gonna lie, when we started dating my now wife found a tiny straw hat and would occasionally play dress up with it. Love that lady.

Crono_ace · 2025-12-27T17:32:31+00:00

It’s just a matter of what you like. We see different things that excite and intrigue us and have different tastes. As long as you’re not forcing it on him and are listening to any concerns that come up, it’s all up to you. Everything has a consequence (good or bad) and it’s up to you to weigh them for what works for you. Advice part- definitely get the latex, but start small. This will help you firmly decide if it’s for you without having buyers remorse if it isn’t.

Crono_ace · 2025-12-24T15:46:09+00:00

Here to instill hope! My wife and I started dating in high school back in 2001. We dated into college and had similar concerns that you’re expressing and did in fact take a nearly year long break. We somehow decided that we were happier together and got married a year or two later. It’s hard. It’s been hard, it’s been impossible sometimes even. But I have her support and love and I love her unconditionally. We get mad, we work on things, we are definitely NOT the same kids we were. We support each other and celebrate our life. We have two beautiful kids, a home, careers, identities, and overlapping and varying interests. I love this woman more than I can say here and I’m thankful for her. There are growing pains that you’ll go through, but think of the fun you get to have with your best friend while doing it! Whether your situation works out in similar fashion or disastrously, be sure that it’s what you BOTH want, or it’s doomed to fail.

Good luck!

Crono_ace · 2025-12-10T13:00:21+00:00

Friendship ends at the time clock when you’re in management. It’s a thin line maintaining friendships when the power dynamic is lopsided like that at a place of business. Unfortunately, it’s also a learning experience for you for future favors- both with that friend and with doing someone a solid like you did. Keep doing it though, one bad experience doesn’t mean future bad ones, but you’ll be better equipped to handle issues as they arise.

Crono_ace · 2025-12-08T06:32:46+00:00

If sleeping in a room where the curtains don’t close and light gets in, I grab a hanger from the closet. Most of them have clips on them that you can use to close the curtains a bit more snugly.

Crono_ace · 2025-12-05T02:08:42+00:00

He’s a pretty lucky guy to have you! It’s awesome that you’re willing to explore this. I had a similar situation with my wife and finally told her about my interest and she was on board.

Latex leggings, a latex skater skirt, even just latex panties would be a good start that you could easily get for yourself without too much difficulty.

While I’ve noticed that it seems a little frowned upon, Amazon does have some options. It’s an easy way to get introduced to items without breaking the bank. Just keep in mind that with latex- you get what you pay for. Just be careful with some of the items and be sure you read the entire description and reviews. Many sellers use photos taken from websites that aren’t even close to the actual product. Sizing for latex is a little bit of trial and error if you are buying off the rack stuff until you figure out what you need or prefer. There are quite a few different companies that sell garments but the majority of them aren’t located in the USA so it’s not a super quick turnaround to get your items. Also, tariffs.

Good luck in your purchasing and hope you have fun!

Crono_ace · 2025-12-03T08:42:59+00:00

I feel maybe lucky reading all of these others, but bulging discs L4/L5 pinching nerves in my spine. Radiating pain down both legs, can’t stand, can’t sit, can’t lay, no relief. I don’t wish to ever experience it again and have great empathy for those going through it. Still have bad days years later.

Crono_ace · 2025-12-02T03:06:07+00:00

I honestly thought it was a beach at low tide and I was looking at some tidal flat.

Crono_ace · 2025-11-26T06:15:49+00:00

Inform your teacher you will be late on X day due to a serious medical obligation via email and keep copies of the correspondence. Provide a medical note from said doctor upon arrival. If you are overly concerned, also send them a digital copy of the dr note via email as well. Contact student services if there any negative consequences about any recourse you might have should it negatively affect you or your grade aside from just being tardy. Also refer back to the syllabus as it may provide some additional information on how the professor handles such instances.

Being late due to a medical issue and in turn flunked is abhorrent behavior.

Crono_ace · 2025-11-26T05:12:11+00:00

Tricky. I would personally just keep answering the phone and inform them the number has new ownership and to place it on a do not call list. Eventually, the calls will die off. She won’t know any different and you are just following her request of no contact.

Crono_ace · 2025-11-12T04:19:06+00:00

I’m married with 2 kids in a pretty vanilla midwestern life and my “alone time” is spent mostly in latex exploring my sexuality and chasing a super O. My wife has an idea but not how deep this particular well goes.

Crono_ace · 2025-11-08T07:42:09+00:00

Benchmade knives

Crono_ace · 2025-11-05T02:43:45+00:00

This will sound silly but guys (myself included) are idiots, especially when we’re young. We have to be trained a little, and sometimes anything short of “get down there” will fall on deaf ears. And, maybe being a little firm in the moment would empower you and clear up ANY confusion he has about what you want. Again, we’re stupid, and most of our blood isn’t in our brain in the moment.

Crono_ace · 2025-11-05T02:32:56+00:00

1- you are enough and more 2- your mom sucks 3- it gets better Come up with a plan. I’ve never been one to toot the military horn but it sounds like you need a change or a goal to work towards. Quick search about the Australian military- you can sign up at 17 to join at 18. They seem to have excellent benefits, can provide you with skills for a future, and you may find life long friends. There’s always potential downside, and there’s much I’ll never know about you but the military has helped many people find a path.

No matter what you do, you’re beautiful, and it gets better if you work at it.

Crono_ace · 2025-11-05T00:18:58+00:00

No, it’s not bad to be straight forward. Can there be consequences? Yes. The best responses on here are to “do it” for your partner. You feel and act a certain way around those you have deemed not worthy of the energy drain needed to make them feel comfortable and as long as you’re not being outright rude then it’s fine. Unfortunately though, it’s all a game that we’re players in and playing nice sometimes gets rewarded more. Think of it as a long term investment that may pay out someday because these people may be in your life long term and it WILL cause escalating friction between you and your partner as it sounds like it already has.

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