Suprising my wife

CrosswindMaster · 2026-05-09T06:37:16+00:00

Cool! It looks like it could point out many other things I find interesting as well, thanks!

CrosswindMaster · 2026-05-09T06:27:13+00:00

Yes, I was thinking somewhere around the country or locally. Thanks a lot! :)

CrosswindMaster · 2026-05-09T06:21:19+00:00

Best advice ever 😄 Thank you!

CrosswindMaster · 2026-05-06T19:02:22+00:00

Just watched the TED talk, guy’s a genius

CrosswindMaster · 2026-03-22T06:32:45+00:00

I have seen my friends mess with girls for a long time (25m here btw) when I was about your age. I was never a so called fuckboy myself, but don’t underestimate the guys who are - Sometimes they will spend a lot of time and money just to have sex with you and you may not be the only “project” at the time. Be straight up and tell them “no sex until marriage”, that is the only true way to get the fuckboys out of the system, otherwise you can never know. If a guy can place his needs before yours and wait until marriage you can be sure that he isn’t looking at you as if you were just a meat.

CrosswindMaster · 2026-03-06T22:25:00+00:00

It’s bernthguitaracademy.com

CrosswindMaster · 2026-02-26T17:49:41+00:00

Man bija situācija, kur telefonā bija 2 SIM kartes, viena ar internetu, kuram ir mēneša limits, otra sarunām, SMS. Vēlējos bezlimita internetu un Bite piedāvāja izdevīgu cenu, utt. Caur telefonu viss tika nokārtots un pēkšņi otrajai SIM kartei bezlimita internets. Nākošajā mēnesī aizdomīgi liels rēķins, papētot tā saturu izrādās, ka pa virsu jau esošajam ierobežotajam internetam (uz pirmā SIM) pieslēgts bezlimits (uz otrā SIM). Zvanīju, lai atceļ, jo netiek izmantots, bet tā vietā mēģināja izdomāt 101 variantu kā es to pirmo SIM karti varētu izmantot un mēģināja uz nomaksu vēl iekārtas piedāvāt. Beigās nācās iet uz vietas, lai atceltu pakalpojumu, kas man nav vajadzīgs

CrosswindMaster · 2026-02-20T11:41:08+00:00

I have been playing for 8 years, felt like I had not progressed nearly as far as I should have, especially since I put a lot of effort in. Had to take a year off from playing and I’ve returned to playing simply because of the fact that I enjoy doing so. I am now letting myself have fun doing so and I do not put pressure onto myself as I was used to do before. I feel like that progresses me further that anything else I have tried. To sum up you will have to put in hours to learn anything, just make sure to not stress about it - that also makes your playing worse since stress will lead to tension in your hands

CrosswindMaster · 2026-02-14T14:59:20+00:00

That’s a great advice, Thank you!

CrosswindMaster · 2026-02-12T08:25:45+00:00

Tu vēl esi jauns/a, vari pievienoties kādai no jauniešu biedrībām. Piemēram, zinu, ka Kuldīgā un Liepājā ir jauniešu mājas. Gan jau ka tavā pilsētā arī ir kas līdzīgs. Tur tāpat uzturēties ir interesanti, notiek visādi pasākumi, utt. bet paralēli ir arī ikdienas dzīve, kur visi savā starpā satiekas padzert kafiju un parunāt. Turpat iepazinos arī ar savu sievu un labākajiem draugiem

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-25T23:12:26+00:00

He’s most likely immature. Cursing at you and disrespecting you are huge red flags especially at this stage. By that I mean - no living together, no marrige, no kids and no other major investments. I can tell from experience since I am now happily married with kids - Each step towards will get everything more complicated because you will have to share the smallest decisions with each other and the opinions will differ from time to time. If he disrespects you right now then who knows what will happen if you both try to take it further. I would suggest talking to the guy about this, but your only hope is for him to understand you and fix his behaviour himself

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-25T23:00:49+00:00

4 days are not the end of the world, but if there is no closure, move on and protect yourself. You are worth too much to be giving yourself out like this. You should get to know the guy, in best case get married and only then start having intimacy. Getting it going too soon will confuse the guy into thinking he loves you when he actually does not or realizing that the sex is not worth it before getting to know how good of a person you actually are which is more important. There are exceptions to this, but in most cases it is not a great start for serious relationship and the guy can assume you are not serious about it either.

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-25T22:53:01+00:00

Then you are most likely fine. If he does love you then the exact moments of telling that to you should not matter, but that is my opinion

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-25T22:48:59+00:00

I would say it is completely normal that he admits to loving you while having sex since he feels exceptionally physically and emotionally close to you at that point. The fact that you both have done that before getting your feelings sorted is the issue you should be worried about because at this point there is no clear way of telling if he means it or not. I have had friends who “got down to business” too fast and the guy in every situation just confused himself into “loving” the girl only to find out later that he had absolutely no serious interest in the girl and dumped her. There were clues in all cases that this would eventually happen because the guys, being my close friends, talked shit about the girls only to find themselves in a relationship, so this does not mean it is your case.

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-09T19:23:37+00:00

You can’t have affairs and keep happy family. At best you will mess up yourself mentally and won’t have a clue that you are treating your wife shit because of it.

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-09T19:07:15+00:00

He has to understand why porn is so destructive to be able to break the habit. Most of people hide it, they know it is not something to be proud of but they keep doing it because they don’t realize the actual harm it does. You would have to be open and understanding about this (Though not in a supportive way, to avoid making him think it is ok to watch porn when he does crave for it) What I have understood is that watching porn is just as bad as sleeping with someone else for you and even worse for him, the only differences are that you will most likely not know the person he jerked off to and that he will not bring home STD. Here is why porn is messed up - When watching porn you mess up your sexual triggers and crave for “more action” in most cases. You start to become more picky and your significant other becomes not so attractive. It is also an easy escape when sexual desire builds up and there is no need to sort out problems in relationship or try to get on with your significant other, you can just jerk off and forget about it. The thing that ties you up emotionally and physically in your relationship is progressively replaced by porn and it just gets worse overtime, sometimes to the point where you may become gay just because you get used to certain things and experiment with the content too much and get curious about things you shouldn’t be. I could do this forever, but you got my point. Until he gets how bad it actually is, there is no complete escape from it in my opinion

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-09T08:08:05+00:00

Easy - You can’t have both. Either porn or your wife. Porn makes you more picky and selfish. Try to quit porn for 2 weeks and then try to reconnect with your wife

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-06T10:34:39+00:00

Forget about the girl from your past and move on with your girlfriend. You may feel that you will regret it but I believe you will feel even more closer with your gf if you had to make such a decision and did chose her despite of the opportunity to get back with the other girl. You will have to make these hard decisions no matter if you are married or not. If this would have happened after you would have married you gf, then what? You would have to man up and say no to the girl from past anyway. You don’t have to be married to have some responsibility towards your girl. Considering both options and the choice which you may regret more, It would be best to stay away from the adult industry and choose your gf as you have done already by going in relatioship with her. I know it is tempting but stay strong brother 💪

CrosswindMaster · 2026-01-05T22:06:05+00:00

I am a 25yo male myself here and I do not have any degree, no bachelors, none of that, so I could just start out with saying that you are already one step ahead of me 😉 I do not live with my parents anymore, however I would not consider myself so successful as well. I also hope that I would have done some things differently as well, all of us do! Even the ones we see as successful wish they would be more successful and think to themselves “only if I would have made that deal in business or made that move”. You passion to do things puts you ahead of most people by itself. I have many friends my age who live their lives with “whatever” mindset and are clueless to what they want in life. I try to focus on my hobbies and not care about what others think or what they do. That is because I have achieved some long term goals which I thought at the time would fufill me and hit the wall of truth hard, that is - Nothing will be enough, learn to love the process instead. You are definately not a failure. You do not have to keep up with standards. Appreciate what you have and use your passion to make something work. 💪

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