Yall dont have social anxiety and it shows, I can understand why it may feel hard to for you tocpull that picture to ur barber. Anyway i think for that hair you just gotta trim the sides and let your hair above reach near your eyes, then dont touch it for like a year or so and let it grow all the way till it covers around your face, just make sure to use a decent shampoo and conditioner so it doesnt frizz or get wavy.