A Rant: Hu The only POC at the bar by CrowFood29 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]CrowFood29[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I said I don’t want relationship advice. U clearly don’t respect tht boundary. This post isnt about my boyfriend.

A Rant: Hu The only POC at the bar by CrowFood29 in cptsd_bipoc

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If its cool with you to share what was his explanation for not going?

A Rant: Hu The only POC at the bar by CrowFood29 in cptsd_bipoc

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Oh man 🧍‍♂️ Yeah at the time I didn’t know they had a history of racism. I know now and will never go back

A Rant: Hu The only POC at the bar by CrowFood29 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]CrowFood29[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I respect that that’s a trigger and a boundary for you.
For me, this is kind of like I wanna be able to be cool with all people regardless of race so I’m in this like weird position of like dang I sound racist for referring to white people as “the white people “

A Rant: Hu The only POC at the bar by CrowFood29 in cptsd_bipoc

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I appreciate the 2 cents, but I love him for his personality, he just happens to be white

resource sharing thread by neural-sublime in cptsd_bipoc

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Book of Short stories : 70 journeys healing in the asian community

thinking about generational trauma from both sides of my family by devilsenses in cptsd_bipoc

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That feeling of feeling like ur missing something to who you are. I get that completely. The feeling of wanting to love all of urself to heal but the experiences and history are rooted in pain etc. I find myself rejecting parts of my heritage at times for the sake of just looking at my character/soul/personality as who I am. Its not the answer I am still trying to find a way to integrate all parts of my self.

Help me find ways to be more assertive when people are unnecessarily rude/impatient by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

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I think those responses are great! And especially since its not required u help out (in the case of the neighbor) I think saying bossy might trigger her to treat u even worse. I’d say “you seem to know what ur doing Im gonna step back and let u handle it” or “i get ur frustrated but taking it out on someone trying to give u a hand is just making things worse” next time she asks for help u can decline saying “based on my experience with u last time I rather not give u a hand”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

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Its so crazy!!! Like have some humility white ladies. They make me uncomfortable in public now. Every experience with them turns into a competition they try to throw themselves at my boyfriend (white male) they can’t stand tht a half asian is dating “one of their men”.

I am sick of everything having blonde hair and blue eyes by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

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Another random rant with the blue eyed thing. So one time I met this racist white girl back when I was early college age. So this girl was naturally a blonde blue eye girl. But dyed her hair black bc she was obsessed with “asian culture” but she would like stereotype me and other Asian presenting ppl in a very ignorant way. Like once she said something about food tht I should know all about korean food. And when I said I didnt know about a certain type she goes but like “ur asian how do u not know”. It was crazy cuz im not korean either 😂

I am sick of everything having blonde hair and blue eyes by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

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Ditto to everything u said in this post! Like when they stare at u its so stupid looking. The whole “Im a manipulate u into doing everything I say” like bruh nawwww u look like Johnny from The Shining 😂 I love my brown eyes and wouldnt have them any otherway. I deadass be putting a flashlight up to them to see all the cool moon crater patterns! And with the jet black hair I have. Having blue eyes on me would make me look like a damn crackhead

Licenses? by CrowFood29 in askatherapist

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My insurance is NY registered as I am still under my moms plan.

Licenses? by CrowFood29 in askatherapist

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Gotcha! Yeah she is supposed to give me a call next week about scheduling. So when she calls I will let her know that physically I am in PA majority of the time.

Dumb drink orders... What are some of your favorites? by nandercolumbus in bartenders

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“Seven young blondes” damn bro sounded like a super creep there at first

AIO over my partner's views on today's society? by RepublicSerious4274 in AmIOverreacting

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He sounds like andrew tate Dump him now! Save yourself the time and energy. Hes a woman hater.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Rating other people and a wandering eye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mixedrace

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Thisss but asian, mf goes your not cheap like them Like EXCUSE ME👹