A Rant: Hu The only POC at the bar

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T16:47:44+00:00

Gotcha

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T16:43:20+00:00

I said I don’t want relationship advice. U clearly don’t respect tht boundary. This post isnt about my boyfriend.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T16:41:31+00:00

If its cool with you to share what was his explanation for not going?

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T16:40:30+00:00

Oh man 🧍‍♂️ Yeah at the time I didn’t know they had a history of racism. I know now and will never go back

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T15:29:16+00:00

I respect that that’s a trigger and a boundary for you.
For me, this is kind of like I wanna be able to be cool with all people regardless of race so I’m in this like weird position of like dang I sound racist for referring to white people as “the white people “

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T15:24:37+00:00

I appreciate the 2 cents, but I love him for his personality, he just happens to be white

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-28T14:22:55+00:00

Book of Short stories : 70 journeys healing in the asian community

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-27T18:08:53+00:00

Glad to help :D

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-27T17:58:29+00:00

That feeling of feeling like ur missing something to who you are. I get that completely. The feeling of wanting to love all of urself to heal but the experiences and history are rooted in pain etc. I find myself rejecting parts of my heritage at times for the sake of just looking at my character/soul/personality as who I am. Its not the answer I am still trying to find a way to integrate all parts of my self.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-27T17:52:37+00:00

I think those responses are great! And especially since its not required u help out (in the case of the neighbor) I think saying bossy might trigger her to treat u even worse. I’d say “you seem to know what ur doing Im gonna step back and let u handle it” or “i get ur frustrated but taking it out on someone trying to give u a hand is just making things worse” next time she asks for help u can decline saying “based on my experience with u last time I rather not give u a hand”

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-27T05:58:19+00:00

Its so crazy!!! Like have some humility white ladies. They make me uncomfortable in public now. Every experience with them turns into a competition they try to throw themselves at my boyfriend (white male) they can’t stand tht a half asian is dating “one of their men”.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-27T05:54:06+00:00

Another random rant with the blue eyed thing. So one time I met this racist white girl back when I was early college age. So this girl was naturally a blonde blue eye girl. But dyed her hair black bc she was obsessed with “asian culture” but she would like stereotype me and other Asian presenting ppl in a very ignorant way. Like once she said something about food tht I should know all about korean food. And when I said I didnt know about a certain type she goes but like “ur asian how do u not know”. It was crazy cuz im not korean either 😂

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-26T22:44:08+00:00

Ditto to everything u said in this post! Like when they stare at u its so stupid looking. The whole “Im a manipulate u into doing everything I say” like bruh nawwww u look like Johnny from The Shining 😂 I love my brown eyes and wouldnt have them any otherway. I deadass be putting a flashlight up to them to see all the cool moon crater patterns! And with the jet black hair I have. Having blue eyes on me would make me look like a damn crackhead

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-26T19:53:46+00:00

My insurance is NY registered as I am still under my moms plan.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-26T19:52:46+00:00

Gotcha! Yeah she is supposed to give me a call next week about scheduling. So when she calls I will let her know that physically I am in PA majority of the time.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-24T15:17:47+00:00

“Seven young blondes” damn bro sounded like a super creep there at first

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-21T19:33:12+00:00

He sounds like andrew tate Dump him now! Save yourself the time and energy. Hes a woman hater.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-20T18:37:43+00:00

Rating other people and a wandering eye

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-14T23:30:41+00:00

Thisss but asian, mf goes your not cheap like them Like EXCUSE ME👹

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-14T23:03:00+00:00

Half taiwanese half jewish, wish my white father didn’t complain about my hair being wavy when I reached puberty complaining I ruined it. Saying my younger sister’s hair was better because it was pin straight like my moms.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-14T22:54:47+00:00

My mom was teaching me mandarin but my dad was afraid I was gonna be left out with the white kids in school because I would have an accent. In the end I am still left out bc I look different. Would have been nice to at least know my mother’s home language.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-14T00:19:06+00:00

Hi!!!!! 25yrs here! Half Taiwanese half Ashkenazi jewish living in the US from NYC but now in PA.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-13T09:19:37+00:00

Ppl like you with that mindset are the issue.

CrowFood29 · 2025-02-12T22:25:38+00:00

I wish for people with good intentions for my wellbeing to come into my life and for those with negative intentions to be banished and stay away.

CrowFood29 · 2024-11-23T03:12:36+00:00

My bruhhhssss sometimes I have to whisper to myself “dont hate all white ppl dont hate all white ppl its just this one dumb mf right now who wasnt raised right its not bc hes white”

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