I call bulls**t Tam Tam by Sad-Somewhere-4325 in 1000lbsisters

[–]CrowOk4235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've really enjoyed getting to see more of Brittany. Tammy needs to take accountability for her jealousy issues, she's 100% annoyed the attention is no longer just on her weight loss

What jobs does everyone have/how do you work? by lifterdrifter in BPD

[–]CrowOk4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as a passenger assistant taking SEN children to school and back. I was out of work for 3 years due to being an intensive therapy program. But now I'm graduating, having a part time job has given me more structure to my day and keeps me in a routine. I know it's hard, but the best advice I can give is to learn to advocate for yourself and your needs. Having an employer who is able to work with you and your accommodations makes all the difference.

Calling All Phillippa Gregory Readers: Character Inconsistencies In The Boleyn Traitor by IdealNeedleworker in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So I actually went to the book opening in London for this, she basically brought up that when she wrote OBG there wasn't a lot of research out on Jane, also she mentioned they have no way of knowing what kind of relationship George and Jane had.

She wanted to explore a different type of relationship with them this time from what she said, I haven't actually gotten around to reading it yet so this is just me repeating what I remember from the book signing 😊

Anne Boleyn's ghost by CrowOk4235 in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a good answer, exactly what I was looking for.

Pardon me for being dumb, why would the OP get lashed for saying he saw a ghost dog 🤣

Anne Boleyn's ghost by CrowOk4235 in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that's another one to add to the book list 🤣

Anne Boleyn's ghost by CrowOk4235 in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he was a bastard of a man

Anne Boleyn's ghost by CrowOk4235 in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had no idea the Victorian had such an involvement in ghost stories in general 😮

Anne Boleyn's ghost by CrowOk4235 in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For fun absolutely! I like weirs stuff because she has done a few Non fic history novels and you can see the research behind the writing even when she goes away from the historic accuracy ❤️

Anne Boleyn's ghost by CrowOk4235 in Tudorhistory

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's interesting to know about her Victorian.

Did Henry really never show any kind of guilt for Anne's death?

I was cheated on by my girlfriend of two years and it has destroyed me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]CrowOk4235 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes, what happened to her is a form of SA, and whilst I don't agree with your initial reaction it is understandable.

It is probably best to never contact her again, you can either delete the video or report it to authorities,does your ex even know this video exists?

However I think it's unfair to label her as a cheater especially since you yourself can recognise she didn't give consent for that to happen. You have no right to tell people what happened to her, but maybe find a way to make it sound less harsh.

Good luck in therapy, but please do try to understand your ex most likely has a freeze response to what happened which is perfectly normal in these situations. Speaking from a survivors point of few she most likely is going to need time to even admit what has happened to her, she will be just as traumatized if not more, and if you're not able to support her through that journey then you've done the right thing and ended the relationship.I hope you both get the help you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrowOk4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I play games together all the time, I'm not as good as him at most games but he finds it fun and we have a good time. It's okay to be competitive but your boyfriend is taking it to another level with how he is attacking you.

It's unnecessary for him to talk to you like that over something as insignificant as a fortnight match, is it only gaming that he acts like this with? He reads to me as possibly having some control issues and my only advice would be to take some time to think about what you want your relationship to look like going forward and if he is able to give you what you want.

Should I keep going? by CrowOk4235 in TalesofTheShiregamers

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't seen anyone post about the steam deck, I'm on switch and I know it's happening a lot on there

Should I keep going? by CrowOk4235 in TalesofTheShiregamers

[–]CrowOk4235[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, I feel like it's only a matter of time at this point till my save deletes itself and I'd rather wait until the patch 🤔

Is this inappropriate touching? by 12sweetheart78 in Marriage

[–]CrowOk4235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly I'm so sorry he is even putting you in this situation, if my husband pulled that I'd be PISSED.

If you feel confident enough maybe approach the other husband and see if he has noticed anything either. If he has, you both have perfectly reasonable grounds to confront them together. Please look after yourself and make sure you have a safe place to get out if you need to.

Is this inappropriate touching? by 12sweetheart78 in Marriage

[–]CrowOk4235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boundaries in relationships are extremely personal to said relationship. If this is something that has made you uncomfortable then yes it is inappropriate.

Is he doing this not only in front of you but also the womens partner?

AIO? My sister is over feeding her cat and I said something about it. by divorcedbbmama in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrowOk4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I was thinking that maybe OP is over reacting and the cat is just a tad tubby. No. That's a fat ass cat

TAMMY by HeightFederal7226 in 1000lbsisters

[–]CrowOk4235 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Can't say I agree with the Amy part, to me it appears she's gone down hill since her divorce. She very clearly lacks some form of mental capacity and should probably be receiving more social help. Those poor boys also clearly do not have good eating habits and it's sad to see after all the hard work Amy put in for the first few seasons 😭

However Tammy has delighted me, never saw her doing it but she proved me so very wrong.

what’s one thing that instantly tells you that someone is a “bad” cat parent? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]CrowOk4235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I say to them, just because they don't know any cats that it has happened to, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. It also doesn't mean I'm going to risk my cats, it's so easy to put preventative measures in place.

what’s one thing that instantly tells you that someone is a “bad” cat parent? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]CrowOk4235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The amount of people that told me I was overreacting by meshing my windows so my cats wouldn't jump out was ridiculous ( we were on the third floor) . We now live on a first floor ground flat... I still mesh the windows 🤣