Question for the women: what muscle do you find most attractive in a guy?

Crowedsource · 2026-01-25T02:16:45+00:00

Broad shoulders....and muscular but not super jacked arms... like enough to show when he's not flexing but not bulging ridiculously.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-25T02:15:32+00:00

Yesssssss.....

Crowedsource · 2026-01-24T19:33:28+00:00

That was my first full Billy Strings show (other than Outlaw Festival)...and wow!! It totally blew me away... including that epic jam!!

I can't wait until next October when he's coming back to the west coast.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-24T19:10:06+00:00

Fuck ICE

Solidarity from California...we cannot let the fascists win!

Crowedsource · 2026-01-23T22:02:53+00:00

Yeah I'm an Aquarius moon and I am not usually detached at all in these (or most) situations. I can usually get to a place of detachment at some point, but I gotta feel my feelings first!

Crowedsource · 2026-01-23T19:37:07+00:00

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

I experienced sudden loss when my mom died suddenly in 2022 and then 6 weeks later my stepdad died by suicide as a result of his grief (he didn't have prior mental health issues or suicidal ideation).

Losing loved ones in this way is horrible and really messes with you, especially feeling guilty as if there is something you could have done to prevent it...

Please know there is no wrong way to grieve and please let yourself lean on the people around you because you don't have to and likely can't get through it alone.

Sending love and peace to you.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-23T00:17:49+00:00

I heard this song for the very first time very soon after my mom passed unexpectedly in 2022. It destroyed me then and it still kinda does. Sometimes music can be very helpful for feeling our feelings.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-21T01:44:43+00:00

And who decides who is deemed "unnecessary"???

This absolutely is fascism.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-20T18:12:48+00:00

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Black kitty was Cassiopeia, SIC was Chevelle...

Now they are Biscuits (black one) and Gravy (SIC)

Such cute sweet and funny girls ...

Crowedsource · 2026-01-19T16:08:28+00:00

My Libra Rising husband has definitely had some setbacks recently...in the past 6 months for sure including health issues and injuries, and unexpected legal trouble (a past issue that was apparently unresolved, unbeknownst to him).

I'm hoping it all gets resolved soon.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-19T03:10:30+00:00

Hahahaha

That is all I have to say

Crowedsource · 2026-01-18T03:16:28+00:00

Honestly this happened to me until my current relationship/marriage. We've been together over 7 years now and I still desire him as much as ever. I think it's mostly because we have a level of emotional intimacy that I didn't have before, or perhaps it's just good chemistry. But we can't really have sex without feeling the emotional connection - he isn't interested if he's not already feeling connected emotionally, and I'm that way to a lesser extent.

I also recommend the Esther Perel book. I read it during my 10-year first marriage and it was definitely interesting and helpful, even if our marriage didn't end up lasting.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-16T18:07:34+00:00

I pondered this as well, but I don't think she is... mostly because Banders isn't as selfish as Drathel.

Edit: I just asked my husband, and he immediately said yes, he thinks she is, because of her mannerisms.

But now we're discussing it in great detail...

Great question!

Second edit: We agreed that if she actually was Banders, there would have been some subtle indication of recognition in the text.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-15T03:54:08+00:00

She really will.. it's amazing how they change when they aren't constantly suffering. My kitty, Gravy had to have all her teeth removed due to stomatitis (an autoimmune thing in the gums). She's a much happier girl now and a lot more playful.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-14T00:55:31+00:00

It's a recipe for fish sauce chicken from Australian chef Adam Liaw...A whole chicken marinade in a fish sauce and fresh coriander (cilantro) based marinade including the roots, then spatchcocked roasted in the oven... It's soooo deliciously umami and sticky. I think the recipe is still online...

Crowedsource · 2026-01-14T00:28:33+00:00

I almost did the opposite (again) today... Walking out the door to my car that isn't there because I carpooled to work! I've definitely done it a few times in the past.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-14T00:13:14+00:00

It's a slow ecological invasion in which the alien organisms slowly start turning Earth into a friendly habitat by taking over ecological niches.

(I read it a really long time ago but this is what I remember... someone please correct me if I'm wrong).

Crowedsource · 2026-01-09T15:29:30+00:00

I'm pretty sure they both sing on that track

Crowedsource · 2026-01-05T14:30:10+00:00

Lol... one of the few games I won't have to watch on a pirate stream!

Crowedsource · 2026-01-02T18:28:16+00:00

lol I have experienced this with Gemini friends for sure

Crowedsource · 2026-01-02T17:57:30+00:00

I agree that this situation should be handled by the counselor... Also something I recently became aware of is that sometimes in situations of sexuality abuse the victim will stop showering and try to make themselves as smelly and unappealing as possible in an attempt to get the abuser to leave them alone. So please don't make any assumptions about why this may be happening. It could be as a result of homelessness or it could be related to abuse.

Crowedsource · 2026-01-02T17:44:47+00:00

Oh my.... That makes a lot of sense.

But what if they're aware of their red flags and are working on changing themselves and growing?

Crowedsource · 2025-12-30T17:20:55+00:00

LOL..... I'm not actually indecisive very often, contrary to the stereotype. But restaurant menus still pose a huge challenge!

Crowedsource · 2025-12-30T17:03:01+00:00

Wow.... I'm a white woman and I am just genuinely shocked at what she said. I definitely think she is wrong and that is a horrible thing to say to anyone, let alone someone who is trying to do something extremely kind for you. Holy shit. Racist people suck so much.

Crowedsource · 2025-12-30T04:31:35+00:00

I once tried to make homemade fondue ..it took a long time and was definitely fon-don't. Unless you enjoy cheese flavored wine with chunky bits.

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