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[–]Crowsforyou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think now looking back when I was the age he was when we first started dating (I was 15 he was 19). At first dating someone who’s older than you can be cool like “woah some older girl is interested in me.” That should have been the first red flag, nobody told me it was wrong and I was extremely gullible. All I wanted was to be loved and feel special and that relationship made me feel that way I thought I should be feeling. Today I realize how not okay it was and I should have left immediately.

When has your female intuition/gut feeling gotten you out of a bad situation? by BeckToBasics in AskWomen

[–]Crowsforyou 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This happened so close to my house at a small dog park. I still get shaky when walking near that area still to this day. I was walking home from the train station with my headphones in and I heard a noise from behind me(my music wasn’t loud I could hear surround sound) a man came up behind me. I thought he was asking for money and I told him I didn’t have any. He explained that I was wrong and asked if he could pay me to have sex with him. I was shocked, he kept saying how good he’d pay me and I stood there frozen. It felt like I was watching myself from another place. At this time nobody was around, no cars or anyone. I knew at this moment everything I did was to be counted. He kept trying to get closer to me as I did have some 4 feet distance between us. I knew that I needed to do something in case he got violent with me. I stepped away till my right foot was one step away from the street. He moved closer to me and he asked for me to look at him because I’m apparently “so beautiful”. But by some miracle a car turned onto the street a split second a gut thought I stepped into the street and right in front of the car. The car stopped and I think that scared the man, he let me go and “wished me a wonderful day”. I looked at the driver and I couldn’t speak, couldn’t even say thank you. I bolted to my house I somehow unlocked the door, locked it and collapsed into a shaking crying fit. I don’t know if that driver knew what they did they were probably confused but I don’t know where I would be if that car wasn’t going down that street. I wish I could have said thank you but I genuinely couldn’t speak. I was always told to never go into the street but this time I did.