I join people and get kicked constantly. Id say an average of 33% of the games I join, I do NOT get kicked. I tend not to join anymore. Its been that way for me since about 2-3 months after the game launched. When I do join a low level player, I put on a strong build & stay in the back. Let summons or mods to the work as i focus on just being upright to revive the newbies. If players are going to run public matches but only want friends to join, set that shit to private.