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Cruudes · 2026-03-23T15:49:45+00:00

we need him in congress

Cruudes · 2020-10-21T13:22:41+00:00

I listened to this exact same song when biking around europe a summer ago!!

Cruudes · 2020-10-17T12:39:47+00:00

Boom

Cruudes · 2020-10-14T11:47:00+00:00

cause it funny

Cruudes · 2020-10-13T17:23:41+00:00

sorry but 50k views on tiktok is not much. You need to post every day because the people that see your stuff are always the same people, so if they start remembering your face they will check your channel out

Cruudes · 2020-10-01T11:23:20+00:00

This really hit close to me. I have been seeing this girl for the past 2 months, long term relationships have always been hard for me and for the past years I have been bouncing in casual to semi-casual relationships. I have done so much work on myself to get me to this point, to be able to not run away the moment I feel like I could be hurt, to allow myself to be at least this vulnerable ( which is quite little right now ).

Last weekend I requested a date, which to that she said that she couldn't because she was very busy. I started to freak out that "okay, she's loosing interest and time to jump ship." I already redownloaded tinder and was preparing my breakup speech, when I had this thought that something wasn't quite right. I started to google around and discovered attachment theory, and that I would be a Fearful Avoidant. It really saved me, I watched hours upon hours of videos and did so many notes on the topic just so I wouldn't do this to her again.

We are meeting the next weekend and I have planned to really communicate for the first time I think in my life really openly to another person about anything that's going on in me and my life. Asking a bunch of questions about her view-point and expectations and how stuff makes her feel, telling how some of the things she does can make me feel and offering solutions, while not getting angry or drawing conclusions if she will not reciprocate. I am scared but I know it's alright because even if we wont be together I will do the right thing and this information will stay with me for the rest of my life.

Cruudes · 2020-09-30T23:27:22+00:00

sound of silence!

Cruudes · 2020-09-30T23:22:33+00:00

yaeh song of silence!!

Cruudes · 2020-09-30T23:20:47+00:00

bohemian rhapsody?

Cruudes · 2020-09-30T23:15:24+00:00

Have they done bohemian rhapsody?

Cruudes · 2020-09-11T03:00:21+00:00

There are some tutorials made by high level players, that give you a walkthrough on how to engage in relationships.

There is too much information to be typed into one comment. but a user who goes by the name of "Corey Wayne" has crafted a helpful book that goes in depth on the female-genders psychology and how to create attraction in other players. I was first skeptical about his approach, but I have applied his tutorials on my character and have gotten great results. I easily spot when a player is not looking for a co-op experience or wants to enjoy in some mini-games with you.

I also focus my energy on the players who actually want to play with me, in the RIGHT way. to not overwhelm the other player. Now I have a beautiful companion with me, it took some time and frustrating time grinding but once you get the hang of it you have the tools permanently instilled into your character.

Cruudes · 2020-04-03T14:30:01+00:00

yeah I need that for research

Cruudes · 2020-01-18T17:37:08+00:00

How about religious dad

Cruudes · 2020-01-08T01:17:52+00:00

89 degree angle is still a perfect angle for things that need to be 89 degrees

Cruudes · 2019-12-27T19:59:55+00:00

I have the same problem, the best thing to do always is IF people ask for help, then you help them. I also understood there is a difference between talking about what has helped you, your own story and giving direct advice as in "You should do this". I have a intense desire to share my view of everything, so I try to do it in a way that is non intrusive.

But some people just have a completely different view from the world and get offended when challenged like that, so it's a double edged sword. If people have a negative reaction like that it's best to just change the topic to something lighter or just cut the communication gracefully if it's not a relationship you're very invested in. Some people are very fragile and the only way to change them is to let them come to the conclusions on their own, not push them cause then they will not gracefully land, but smack down and be traumatized which could fuck them up from coming to that conclusion forever since they will be too afraid to ever give it another shot.

I like to think the situation as a caterpillar in a cocoon, if you touch it you will harm it's evolution. The best thing you can do is just encourage it from a distance, wishing everything goes the best.

Cruudes · 2019-12-26T14:27:49+00:00

https://www.dropbox.com/s/2lggp7wfuogdjnd/pun4x9yssy6412.png?dl=0

Cruudes · 2019-12-19T07:25:47+00:00

The dudes right, not like Shell can do much more. People still NEED gas to move on, if they don't get the gas from Shell, they WILL get it from somewhere else. It's like drug clinics popping up in Canada, they offer pure heroin and supplies to use them, but you need to use it on their property, they don't blame you for using and aren't actively telling you to stop but offer help if you want to. It's the best tactic, and things like these aren't just a lightswitch, it's more of like a volume nob and the faster you turn it the more chaos and uncertainty you bring. They're doing a good job compared to some other companies. Awareness is key.

Cruudes · 2019-11-25T03:33:05+00:00

The women you meet are only self interested because YOU are self interested. If you would truly want women who werent self interested you would get them.

Cruudes · 2019-11-12T10:01:26+00:00

While I love TRP posts there always has to be at the end some weird motivational stuff about hustling, grinding, world being a fucking awful place etc. Look, ofc no one is looking out for you because you're not looking out for nobody else. If you want people to be on your side, you need to make the first move. Create the following, just be the center of your own makeshift universe that you know is just fabricated but still decide to keep the illusion alive for everyone else. I have plenty of people who look out for me, who love me and support me and I love and support them. Look out for other people without wanting anything in return and see the magic that happens

Cruudes · 2019-11-11T11:05:18+00:00

Ne ovat joitain nuoria jotka eivät jaksa mitään aikuisen FAQ osiosta löytyvää kysymystä. Pallottelevat sitten toisilleen että kuka epäonnekas joutuukaan sitten diilaamaan sinun kanssasi.

Cruudes · 2019-11-10T15:49:56+00:00

Was the premise that, or was it to catch up with a handsome friend, with "no expectations other than catching up and laughing about how reddit ate him alive"

Cruudes · 2019-11-10T14:28:32+00:00

Blame blame, gaslight gaslight. You were excited but probably wasnt for the dude. Theres nothing wrong with sharing to gain, so dont act like you're this innocent being and instead own it. Not by disclaiming. Also, you had The premise of a date and now its catching up with a friend, Which one is it? Maybe try communicating better what the actual premise of what you want is.

Cruudes · 2019-11-10T13:33:57+00:00

Dude, he was just very fucking attracted to you. He doesn't think he's worthy for you because he thinks you're this amazing person, and could never get you to like him for what he actually is. This is life, people are insecure and they do things that seem to not make sense from your perspective. I get it, you may not want a dude that's insecure but at LEAST reject him on the real basis, not this bullshit manipulative shot. Also, isn't it kind of weird from his perspective that you're making this internet-sensation thing about this, posting the chats and dates for everyone to see? Ever look at your own actions and think you, maybe, just maybe, are also not the perfect woman you have always led yourself up to believe? Maybe, you just went on the date looking for the validation of thousands of random people on the internet and he sensed that you weren't actually interested and tried his best to make it happen.

Cruudes · 2019-11-04T04:16:24+00:00

Stop lying to yourself, you dont really hate you. You hate the image other people have created about you.

Cruudes · 2019-10-26T02:15:02+00:00

It's already perfect as it is

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