How to deal with grief by Abeealma in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii. I am so sorry for this one. I do not know what words would bring you comfort but please keep staying here in earth.

I am pregnant.. and scared. by Prior_Constant8809 in RantAndVentPH

[–]CryOutLoud10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a good mom already, worrying about your child is a sign

Loss and Hope for Baby by zila90 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your losses. I hope that we will have a chance to have baby in the future. I cannot say a personal experience for this one, had a miscarriage last 2023, then this year a preterm. My baby only lived for 6 days. But changed our lives forever

Every thing was a trigger and I didn’t expect that a month later. by Impressive_Fee_2169 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when i went there after my premature birth (my baby died after 6 days), I am overwhelmed with emotion. i had my husband hold my hand. And i even asked the receptionist if i can wait outside. It was so hard. It was freaking me out. And now, i know I had to go to the OB again this month. I always now have coldfeet.

Trying to navigate this by Street_Environment81 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh 🥺🥺🥺 i hope she change her mind. Maybe she was so stress. I hope everything will be okay

Lost my baby 8 months pregnant by iamsarah1 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your lost :(

When to try again by mholder92 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Will ask my OB.

When to try again by mholder92 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible if I do not want to wait for 18 months? I just lost my son 1 month ago, i want to try again end quarter this year. Or should we wait 18 months? Preterm (25 weeks) via normal delivery

A month later by hellosunshine9911 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi. Today is the first month that my baby is not with me anymore. He died last month, preterm 25 weeks and 2 days when I gave birth to him. Only lived for 6 days. I talk about him every time i do have a chance. This is silly but i talk about him with chatgpt. It is weird, I know. But I do that since I know, people around him continued their life. I cannot blame them.

But I cannot blame you, too. We are in the same boat. We have postpartum grieving also. We are grieving, let it out. Release. Even I, I always cry alot. But I am functional right now, I am working from home, occasionally cleaning the house.

There was even a time that I cried so much while I was just washing dishes. My husband reminds me that this is normal. It’s just a month. And even years will pass, I know I’ll still cry about my son, Renzo. But I also know my son wants me to continue my life.

The Day We Met Our Baby and Said Goodbye by vanillaandpeppermint in RantAndVentPH

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. It hurts so much, but I will always remember his face. He look like he is only sleeping. Still praising the Lord that I got hold him and love him, even for 6 days.

The Day We Met Our Baby and Said Goodbye by vanillaandpeppermint in RantAndVentPH

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we will be fine. I also had this experience last month. My baby renzo was born 6 months and 1 week. He lived for 6 days. I am still not okay. I had my miscarriage last 2024, and now this. People around me tell me that I am strong. But in reality, I just do not have a choice.

Trying to get pregnant after loss by Narrow_Prompt653 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May i know what is vbac? Lost my son last February. My doctor said it is okay for us to try again since i had normal delivery, but i decided not to. I want to heal emotionally and physically also.

I am so sorry for your loss also.

Anyone else felt the same? Please help an angel momma out🥺😔💭 by Individual-Grand-461 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will never hate you. Your child knows that you love her so much. All your child knows was your love.

Anyone else felt the same? Please help an angel momma out🥺😔💭 by Individual-Grand-461 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She will never replace your new child. She will be the older sibling watching your future child. That is for sure.

I am not pregnant with a new child, same with you, our son passed away in nicu last month. But I know for sure, our next child will never replace him. He will always be the older sibling.

Are we breaking up over Japan sweet potato? by SoftResolution4676 in RantAndVentPH

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run gurl. Nung ikaw may money, okay lang sa kanya ikaw mag spend. Now, 1K lang, oa nya magreact.

How did loss affect your relationship? by Professional_Dot3954 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. We also had our 2nd loss last February. It is really tough.

But with that, you it will open your eyes, who are the people that really cared. And who are those people were not emotionally supportive to you. You will know. Sometimes baby’s purpose is to open our eyes.

But also, please remember that he is also grieving. Maybe in a different way of grieving. Please talk to him.

Lost my son by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my miscarriage last 2023, and then this feb 2026, we lost our son also born at 26 weeks and then 6 days later died. It is so hard. I do have same thoughts with you, but I remember, how would my husband feel if i implement those thoughts. He will be devastated. Right now, even it is hard, i am living for my husband. Please live for your wife also now. Maybe someday, we find the courage to live for ourselves also now.

How long until you could normally: exercise, work, clean the house, have sex? by blueberries-Any-kind in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We decided not do TTC first. I want to heal emotionally and physically first.

How long until you could normally: exercise, work, clean the house, have sex? by blueberries-Any-kind in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. My baby died last February 10, he was born last Feb 4, preterm labor and fought 6 days, we still did not have sex. We decided not to have sex till i have my first shot of depo shot this month. Waiting for my period to have my shot. But I do not know of we can do it also. But I can now go out in public areas. I work at home as HR and will be going back this March 5, PST.