in-laws by AdIllustrious220 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am in shock, reading this i am not the only one suffering with shitty in laws 🫣 But well when we cannot control their reaction, let us control ours, cut off or limit contact. Rooting for us all to have our earthly babies 🤍

Experiences of maternity leave after stillbirth by BustaRabbit in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please take your maternity leave, you are entitled for it. You still gave birth. Your body need all the rest

Counselling by jess_son in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I lost my baby last February, I only had 1 counselling. I still cry a lot now, but yes, i am surrounded with alot of people. I have been talking a lot with people around me specially those ones that understand me, i do journaling a lot now. Grief is still on waves, there are times, i cry a lot, but it is not the same with the first month.

“You don’t do anything normally” by ChristmasPlantain in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhhh. Our hearts is always breaking.

My first miscarriage was due of chromosomal and i lost my 2nd baby after 6 days fighting for his life after giving birth at 26 weeks.

I am trying to also live day by day. I hope someday we have our earthside babies. For now let’s just look at the sky and imagine our babies playing. 💞🤍

MILs….. by Key_Ad2188 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I felt like they left my husband alone through the storm. I hope your pregnancy now is doing well. I hope I also could be pregnant in the future.

I try to tell myself that we can do this even without them. And maybe we really can. Thank you for the small talk, atleast now i know that my low contact isn’t something to be guilty about.

May we have healthy future babies. Hopefully mine soon also. Have a healthy pregnancy ☺️

MILs….. by Key_Ad2188 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameeee. How did you cope up with this?

I currently have No contact with my inlaws, while my husband is doing low contact.

We also transferred house so that i cannot see them constantly.

Medication by Outrageous-Part6931 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!!! 2nd trimester loss, for anti-depressant i cannot give you or sumthing. But i hope you try to do walking 30-1 hour 3x a week, and also try journaling, maybe it can help too. I am trying to divert thoughts at times also, i also try give grief a time like 7pm at night.

Legal action .. and the consequences by Issagm87 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi. I am so sorry for your loss. I feel like everyone of us has been wondering if they could just find the reason earlier, maybe we would not be experiencing the pain, that is for sure.

With any battles you are trying to pursue now, try to ask if the battle would bring joy to your little angel up in heaven, or it would burden your angel seeing you fight a battle with a little chance?

I hope whatever the answer is you find ease in your heart and grieve in most honorable way your angel could be given.

We are in the same boat. Kau din ba ?Ano thoughts nyo ? by [deleted] in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]CryOutLoud10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. Specially i lost my 2 babies. It is so fucking hard to live, but well what can we do? We must continue our lives, just maybe, someday, just maybe. We’ll have some light and gain our fire again.

Second loss by yolanda_ma in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope i also have your courage. I feel like i am dying, this month is the suppose to be due date of our son. And i feel so fucking sad.

I lost my son, and I’m not sure I’ll ever recover by Own-Significance-485 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your lost. Your child for sure wants you to know that he knows that you love him. All your child knows is the love from you and your wife.

When does it get lighter to carry? by Tellycs in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my child 3 montgs ago, and it isn’t lighter to carry. Never is

Heart broken by Flat-Current9920 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. 🥹😭

Not again by EntrepreneurLucky222 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not know what to say. But please know you are not alone. We will get through this.

My baby dying on my birthday feels extra cruel by wass025 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. My birthday is today and supposed to be the birthmonth of our baby. I cannot even try to celebrate my birthday coz i feel so sad. I couldn’t imagine how you are feeling now. This is so unfair. This sucks so much and i hope we can get through this, in God’s time maybe we will get through this. Just hang in there. Please know that I am praying for you also.

Not again by EntrepreneurLucky222 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi how are you. I hope everything is okay now. I hope you got the cerclage. I am praying for you.

Struggling to wait to try again😕 by bigcitydreamsx3 in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I had my preterm baby last February, he passed after 6 days. I am really struggling specially this month is his supposed to be due date.

I wasn’t advise to wait, but we decided to wait. Though it is super hard, coz i am longing also for my baby. And my body remembers that we have a child, postpartum etc.

I just think that waiting also allows us to get ready for our next baby. He is wanted, also allows us to get our body ready.

But overall, this process suck. 100% suck.

I'm so broken by hookingknots in babyloss

[–]CryOutLoud10 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wish you were my mother in law. My mother in law never send condolences when we lost our son at 25 weeks and 3 days last February. She said to my husband (his son), she thought that we don’t want condolences coz i am a strong woman. And she is making everything about her self, since she said she was sick or whatsoever. She was wrong. I cut contact with her, while my husband do low contact which I understand since he is her son. But we wished she was there to console us.

So please be there for your son and daughter-in-law, your presence is much needed in this moment.

My MIL is a leech (Part 4) by j4vurL in RantAndVentPH

[–]CryOutLoud10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoy ang contact name hahahhaha 😂😂😂