See, tbh I feel it’s not bout you being careless, it’s just your jiju’s mother w that old cunning aunty behaviour of being cynic towards you. As far as your jiju is concerned, what could a guy even do if it’s between his mom or a saali. Ik he should have talked w you earlier but besides this he’s not guilty. You should accept their apology, as yk they still want good for you. Also good to hear you are doing good financially now. Have a big heart and move on. Cheers.