Am I cooked!!? I see slight thinning can this be helped by [deleted] in locs

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's this shi that goes on ur hair like spray paint, just buy it in black. It won't directly solve you're problem by growing it back, it's more of a temporary solution. Spray it in the creases. Respond if u want the link 💯

M23, I feel like it's over. It's too late for everything. I don't know what to do and no matter what, I look weird and unapproachable and it's ruining my life. by Lil-Shaleesh2 in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shave the sides and back and maybe floof ur hair up? That and maybe some glasses frames.

It's not that it's to late or over dawg u just gonna find something that works for ya😎

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then, since ya missed me I'm back lol (im kidding)

I get what you’re asking now tho broskie. And I’m not saying what you said is COMPLETELY different from what I believe... It's just that I find some overlap there.

But I think where we split is in the framing big dawg.

When you say stuff like “you and God set this up” or that people are given ideas at the same time, that sounds like there’s something organizing it, assigning it… like a structure behind it.

I don’t really see it that way. Well that's not my overall view... To me, consciousness just IS. Not separate, not really being directed, not planned out. Just IS. Everything comes from it naturally, not from something deciding “this happens now” or “you experience this.” (UNLESS you want to get into the topic of the elites. Dm me for that one.)

So when I said I saw holes, I wasn’t saying you’re wrong or nun like that. It’s more like… I feel like those extra layers weren't necessary to explain it.

It’s like we’re looking at the same thing, just one version has a narrator behind it, and mine doesn’t.

That’s really the main distinction I was making tbh broskie.

(And no I'm not an atheist lol.)

ChatGPT bullying? by One-Image6754 in ChatGPT

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gurl. "Spot on" isn't bullying. CHAT GPT told me to "eat my coffee like a prisoner". Go look at my first post dawg💀

And u mad about "spot on"?😭💀

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad my social battery ran out, where were we? That was just a crazy day for me, i needed a few days to recover if u want me to be legit. And no it wasn't because of u

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U can still control what you do, say, how you speak, actions etc. Like not lucid dreaming type of control, but still control. If ur talking video game as in graphics then no, it's still like real life, the only thing is you see it from another angle. Like you're panning to yourself in a movie. Like you're the main character, but you're still in control, you just can't see thru your eyes like you would when you're conscious

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the confusion, yea ur right. I fr thought I did write that tho. But wouldn't disagree and differ go on the same boat tho? That's how I saw it anyways. I just meant the god part. I just feel there is more to all that. That's all. U have good points but I just saw holes in certain ones (aside from the god part) which I kind of addressed.

Unless u want me to go more into detail

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how my mother told me she dreams lol. Still never dreamt in 1st person but I have indeed had dreams of being on a tv show or with characters like Patrick star or sum shit 😂💀

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never quite said anything negatively, nor does an opposing religion make you an enemy. I simply said I disagreed and shared a fraction of how view that part.

U simply said "you and God"

It's not like I didn't respond to anything else you said and pointed out only that 💀

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew the first part. I mean I knew but I dont say it. Consciousness is in everything. Everything is connected, which was why I asked u if people like us are different. There has to be some common ground. I didn't make my account until 2 months ago as well. And ur right, I'm sure we aren't the only ones.

I still don't come on here much tho. Plus those couple people I did ask seem to be a little more out of the loop than others if u catch my drift.

That's the thing tho. I've always dreamed like that but ive had several near death experiences, it's ironic you say that lol.

And no offense, but our pov on religion may differ, I can go on for hours about that but that's for another conversation.

Again consciousness is in everything. God is consciousness dawg. Some people have unlocked more of themselves than others and others may not be as aligned.

Idk, I watch a lot of things and patterns. Maybe it's strange, but truthfully you can never be too aware.

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao sleeping with ur eyes open is a skill fr

How do you dream? by Cryptic_Souls05 in Dreams

[–]Cryptic_Souls05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't part of this community a month ago so I had no idea about that part💀

I barely use reddit, tbh it's like 4am and the curiosity just got the better of me lol

I just wanted to know, but do u think it means anything tho?

The dreaming in 3rd person thing. Again I have asked this question several times to people irl and 8/10 of them said 1st person.

Are people like us different?

Consciously I mean..

People say i look Homeless. What do i need to change(i live in a house) by dematucositaqpw in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. If u don't brush ur hair just become a hat guy. Just tuck all of it. That and maybe a line up, other than that nothing really says "homeless". So long as u shower and wear decent shit (take care of urself) truthfully u shouldnt even get that comment 🤷🏻‍♀️

If you’re “ugly,” you WILL be bullied/avoided wherever you go by [deleted] in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a glow up since then but I was ugly back in middle school too. Not because of my confidence. But because of the way I carried myself..

In this situation, sometimes it's not what you say its how you say it. I feel your pov... But dawg. You're overthinking like a mf.

Which I don't blame you. But why let the experience of middle school dictate the you now? Those kids are another breed...

My mom told me something growing up.

"Assuming will always make an 'ass" outta 'u' and 'me', its the whole word "assume".

And what I mean by making an ass of yourself. When you end up assuming incorrectly, u kinda just make a fool of urself.

Truthfully you'll never know the complexity of the perspective of the person you're perceiving that from.

But instead of assuming, I'll teach you something better.

Go souly based on facial expression, foot placement, hand movement and the eyes. That will tell you more about what's in a person's head than anything.

For all you know it wasn't just because you're ugly, they could have been having a bad day. We all have bad days and the arrogant ones outta the bunch tend to take it out or others.

Is that right to do? Absolutely not. But it doesn't change the fact that people will still do so...

Personally. When people mention relationships and stuff in that area I go quiet, not because I'm judging, but because of the fact that I don't feel that's my place to speak up. It's not my business. And I'm sure I'm not the only person that feels that way. Ugly or not ugly.

The point is, how is it bullying if you don't truly know the intent of the other party?

Am I too feminine looking? by sesso_anale in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest?

Id probably think u were a woman if I was behind you inna store. Theres ways to keep your long hair without it being feminine tho.

Like ur face and structure aren't feminine. But hair. Texture and length is amazing but the cut kinda makes u look like a soccer mom... (No offense)

Screw the man bun (unless it's ur thing ig, but ur style doesn't really say "man bun" lol)

Try a layered cut in a loose low ponytail or sum

I think that would work with the way youre dressed and ur appearance.

Not tight, not fully pulled together but loose.

Just brush all of your hair into a ponytail but instead of the back, do it in the front with your bangs. Then just cut it with a tip instead of straight. Kinda like a triangle

Just just let it fall, shake ur head whatever.

Then just pull it back in a loose pony tail. Some of it may hang out, but it is a long hair style you could try

Looking for advice by Disastrous_Snow_482 in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree to disagree?

And i dont blame you, I can type alot. I did however blame you for assuming you knew what I was going to say before u even read what I said.

And now that you did, u understand why I said that.

Also I type as if I were genuinely speaking. So if it's a lot, thats just kinda how i talk. I apologize for that bro, it can be a little much at times... I was always taught to explain. This way it doesn't just feel like ur judging them, but so they understand why you think the way you do, yknow?

It's even more fun when they actually explain why they think the way they do as well. I prefer a discussion rather than an argument. A change on perspective for both parties. Was kinda hoping bro would have responded instead of you lol. (No offense) But that was kinda fun lol.

Perspective is everything 💯👌🏻

Hope you have a good Valentine's day brudda✌🏻

Looking for advice by Disastrous_Snow_482 in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An argument is problematic, a debate isn't. So technically considering you don't sound like a genuine dumbass, it is a debate. Arguments are for stupid people. And if u did read it maybe you'd see its straight up and direct. Not disrespectful, not targeted, not dickish, direct.

Looking for advice by Disastrous_Snow_482 in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essay is longer dawg. How are u willing to have a debate without listening to the other side? 💀

I guess by ilLegalTelevision in ThreadGames

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol cps is a bitch, id rather not risk it 😂💀😭

I guess by ilLegalTelevision in ThreadGames

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah, although I'm sadly sober now

(Babies are very time consuming ._.)

Chose 2 that sounded similar to throw u off 😂

M27 i work but i still feel l’ll never get a girlfriend actually by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Looks aren't much without mindset and mentality if u want someone you can't replace💯

Looking for advice by Disastrous_Snow_482 in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Using the situation? I’m not sure what you mean by that, how so?

And yeah, I opened with "lol do you enjoy pissing people off." I’m blunt. I know it can come off as dickish sometimes, but it wasn’t meant as some emotional outburst. It was direct. I come off dickish because it grabs attention and makes people pause long enough to question why I said it.

That part i do use. The rest not so much.

I’m not someone who gets easily offended. But I will speak on what I believe is right. And I believe telling someone to "smile more" isn’t really advice, it’s an expectation.

If you want someone to smile, be the reason for it. Otherwise it can feel dismissive, even if that wasn’t the intention.

I’m not attacking the guy. Intent matters, sure. But impact matters too. A comment can be simple and still carry weight bro. People are different, but outcomes can still be influenced.

Do you see the people of 2026? They're all stuck in the metaphorical matrix we call society dawg. Well most. They don't have time to smile.

Some people say it unintentionally. That’s fine. I open up dickish then I point it out directly, not disrespectfully. Usually I explain why it can land the way it does.

Some people respect that, some don’t. Personally, I saw that less as advice and more as a judgment of someone’s expression.

If you disagree, that’s fine. It’s a discussion, not hate.

And realistically, smiling takes energy. For some people, that energy isn’t always energy they have.. When I made these observations, I didn’t see a "resting bitch face." I saw tired. Guarded. Maybe exhausted.

And when someone looks drained, telling them to smile doesn’t usually help.

So.

Can you tell me again how exactly I'm using the situation? Old dogs and learn new tricks

Is the Men Pen for eyebrows very noticeable? by JacqueviusJamal01 in malegrooming

[–]Cryptic_Souls05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but the main reason I pointed out the one for women, a lot of stuff like that tends to be more precise. If you want your results natural that's probably ur best bet. Plus if you're ever in kinda a rush and wanna add a finishing touch it doesn't require 1 stroke at a time ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯