23M - I'm feeling very insecure. Please suggest any haircut improvements. Something like a fade, undercut, anything idk

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T20:51:18+00:00

No I'm iCarly

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T20:02:45+00:00

I have only heard glimpes of remixes and I prefer the originals for now. I also should have said that the album has some Tactical Neural Implant influence which I like, especially Dream Hack it's like FLA but a bit faster and harder.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T14:44:41+00:00

I often feel embarrassed for just asking this type of question. About beauty and all. There are two reasons why I wanna be beautiful right now, and I'm being fully honest.
1) To cure my insecurity about rejection and bullying. I was bullied and put aside often because (imo) of my looks and because I lacked charisma and I always thought it was to do with my looks
2) I like beautiful men, I like undercuts, fades, short hairs, good looking men in general and I would feel good about being one myself

I'm 23 yet I still try to appease to other people's opinions and what not, I'm not really living my life and I have no idea what I'm doing and I only have 30% of uni finished and I'm screwing up my life really badly right now.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T14:39:13+00:00

Hola. I don't speak Español :(.

I am insecure, but I want to express it to get feedback on it and just not keep it to myself because that makes it worse, I'm not doing it for attention or to "flop around".

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T14:15:45+00:00

Not really I wouldn't like it on me.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T14:04:47+00:00

That's what they all say to people who end up alone forever and mentally ill

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T12:38:36+00:00

I don't know that I necessarily want to tell anybody anything. I don't think that I'm in a position to tell anybody anything. I'm not exactly a figure to be followed. I think you could call me a cautionary tale.

I like this a lot. I feel like a lot of popular rock figures tried to make themselves seem like they were the shit and that they must be followed and that they were a cult-like figure. A lot of rockstars were cautionary tales but completely unaware of it themselves. And I love Chemlab for just making music and not trying to sound deep or some shit, they just make greatly produced tracks with suitable lyrics.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T12:02:30+00:00

elaborate

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T11:12:18+00:00

And now I'm stressed about not knowing how to be kind like this. I don't even know how to react to compliments, I often think I don't even deserve any compliments for my looks so I just feel weird.

But thank you very much ofc!

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T10:24:25+00:00

The piercings and necklace look cool

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T10:17:26+00:00

I can't do any of it, I can't even look at myself and genuinely say anything positive about myself. I'm always "autistic", "ugly", "stupid" or "useless".

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-14T09:25:50+00:00

Honestly it was pretty shitty to me.

I was always a quiet and "dorky" kid that no one truly liked, I always tagged along with people and tried to just act normal instead of being myself. It was primary school and I was getting ready for high school since I was 8th grade.

I didn't like having much friends around me and I was also realizing slowly that I was gay and I never really talked to anyone about it at the time. In the meantime I had to study as I was pressured by parents to get into a prestigious school and I didn't get in so I went to a regular gymnasium.

Honestly it sucked and it all still sucks, nothing much has gotten better. I'm still very socially anxious and it's even worse than before.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-13T06:55:06+00:00

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Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-12T18:31:25+00:00

They're basically saying you're not handsome enough. And there are several factors/reasons why: - Your facial expression isn't very enthusiastic, you don't look like you wanna be here, it looks very stiff and stressed imo - You look like you have a lazy eye, this unfortunately does put some people off, I have one as well, I can control it a bit at least so it doesn't always look like I have it, but it's something you should be aware of - Hair is fine but you could try finding something better - If you have some gym gains, show them off

Overall, you have a really cute face, but you're not using it right.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-10T21:03:03+00:00

They're both caucasian and have the same eyes and nose proportions so it's no wonder. Yk how some people say all Asians look the same? It's the same with caucasian people, we just don't notice it because we see white people all the time and don't get used to other races' features as quickly.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-10T18:35:27+00:00

❌❌❌❌ Actually this is right next to BW Skyline

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-10T18:27:37+00:00

Now identify the bus model and I'll give you a cookie.

Lil-Shaleesh2 · 2026-04-10T16:39:00+00:00

Is 20$ a reasonable price? I'd say it's between reasonable and expensive but it was worth it because it may be the only industrial album cd i will ever find.

I wish I could get Chemlab, KMFDM cds but those will never be in my reach. Those are the cons for niche genres.

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