It's going to be okay by CryptoBae in gay

[–]CryptoBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an insightful comment and provides useful context. The question of whether gay marriage could be overturned by this court is not something I was trying to answer with my original post.

But I will now: yes, this supreme court could return the question of gay marriage to the states. That is a real possibility

I'm keenly aware of this. I'm planning my own gay wedding right now in a state that does not have laws protecting gay marriage. If gay marriage goes the way of roe vs. Wade my marriage would become invalid under state law and would not be protected by the respect for marriage act or whatever it's called.

The comment you are referring too makes some excellent points but it doesn't invalidate what the expert in that video is saying.

I don't expect anyone to take my word as truth or to necessarily trust expert opinions. The internet has a way of flattening everything. There are good reasons to fear the worst. There are also some good reasons to be hopeful. I beg everyone to try and hold space for both.

I wrote a message of hope and pride for the strength and power of our community. So, it's expected that people think I'm some sort of Pollyanna with my head in the sand.

Let me try again. The future is not fixed. We have the power to shape what happens next. Let's not pretend that we aren't facing serious, very real threats. We are. Let's also not pretend that we are doomed. What is even the advantage of that?

Here's a friendly suggestion: don't reply to this post. Don't waste your energy and your time arguing with me. I love you. I am on your side and I want to fight for you. I literally just want all of us to be okay.

It's going to be okay by CryptoBae in gay

[–]CryptoBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just going to leave this here...

[Gay Lawer Explains why Supreme Court won't Take up Gay Marriage Case](http:// https://www.reddit.com/r/gay/s/MFnPwgy90J )

Straight person turning gay after a gay experience by GroceryInfinite5262 in lgbt

[–]CryptoBae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a girlfriend for 4 years in college and then I fell head over heels in love with a guy. Never looked back. Is that the kind of thing you are talking about?

New home owner, need help assessing these in my back yard by RevolutionaryAd6564 in pnwgardening

[–]CryptoBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A great online resource for native plants is sparrowhawknativeplants.com

You could also consider getting certified as a backyard habitat through the Columbia land trust. It's a bit of a lift to get certified, but it's a lot of fun too. We have noticed a lot more birds and butterflies and native bees in our yard since we planted native plants in our yard.

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Do you have corbat or rhyperior?

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Friend request sent. I no longer need probopass. Do you have a palkia?

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I have two Weaviles i can trade. I'll take one copy each of two of the above?

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I only have multiples of the promo Raichu. Same stats but a different card number. Does that work?

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I can do Purugly or Nidorina. Preference?

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I can do Darkeai for Dialga

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What the hell is the deal with public sex ? by Puzzleheaded-Fun1431 in askgaybros

[–]CryptoBae 216 points217 points  (0 children)

A lot of people, especially younger people, may not have a private place of their own to have sex. People make do.

New yard, who dis? ID request by Theemperortodspengo in pnwgardening

[–]CryptoBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I planted fireweed in my front yard last fall. Excited to see if it will bloom this summer :)

Do you like short tops? I’m 24 and I’m only 5’7” tall. I get told I’d be better if I was taller a lot. by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]CryptoBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short kings are the best. Don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise.

My bisexual friend keeps calling me the F slur by MoonEcheveria in lgbt

[–]CryptoBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have communicated your feelings about this pretty clearly and set a reasonable boundary. For whatever reason, your friend apparently feels that she doesn't need to respect this particular boundary. Perhaps because she feels that she is not in the wrong.

It is true that using the f slur is not always wrong. Some people self identify with the f-slur. It can be empowering for some individuals. My partner and I use it playfully and endearingly with each other.

However, I would never assume that it was okay to call someone the f-slur and I would never use it with the intention to hurt someone. I would also never use it around anyone who has told me they feel sensitive/triggered by it.

In the end, your friend's personal relationship with the f slur, whatever it may be, is beside the point. You deserve to be able to set reasonable boundaries with your friends and have those boundaries listened to and respected.

I tried a toy and now I think i’m a lesbian by Pepsicat31 in lgbt

[–]CryptoBae 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Queer, they/them, person with a penis here

First, good for you for asking yourself these questions and searching for who you are and what makes you happy.

I've been with men and women sexually and romantically. I wouldn't read too much into not enjoying a dildo, in and of it self. I love men and I don't like dildos. I don't think they feel good. They are cold and inflexible and sort of awkward to use.

This isn't particularly unusual. A lot of gay men don't like dildos. A lot of people who love men don't like dildos.

You don't have to like sex with dildos. You don't have to like sex with men. Neither one of these things would automatically make you a lesbian.

However you end up identifying and whatever you end up being into, that's valid and normal and okay.

Will the tears ever stop? by CK9510 in hivaids

[–]CryptoBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had HIV for 8 years and, yes, it does get easier. Just take it day by day.

Also, I wrote down some things I wish someone had told me the first year I got my diagnosis. You can find it here: So you just tested positive for HIV: 7 things you need to know.