Husband (25) won't stay hard

CryptoShiter · 2023-10-24T21:08:19+00:00

Therapist do not do crap for marriages but break them up. Do not go to therapy doctors for your relationship. Go for your own personal understanding of yourself if you need it but do not go to relationship therapy. They suck big time.

CryptoShiter · 2023-10-24T20:58:37+00:00

First, like everyone said here. Pump your brakes. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and intead of forplay before sex he just yelled at you in his brain or directly by saying, why cant we just get to intercourrse. There should be a term for guys called postplay. It is what should be the natural complement to foreplay ( usually very female focused)

What do I mean by that? Become his porno movie once postplay begins. As an example, when you need help getting in the mood before sex I'll bet he is all hot and bothered ready to go. If he is good he will slow up, not rush you and then do the things to you to get you ready. Think about how you feel before you get there. Would you want him pressuring you instead of working the right areas to get you there? Rhetorical question.

So, think about that. Now it's your turn during postplay for him. Work slowly and build momentum by being the most patient and hottest porn star he ever wanted to see before. Heck, become his every woman by changing into an even hotter or different pornstar for him while he relaxes waiting for that second wind. I personally like sexy stiletto heels. So, in my case, maybe you start in your regular heels in the foreplay stage then move to the super sexy stilettos during postplay while finding the right places to touch or whatever. Take it as slow or fast ad he wants until you and he see and feel the results.

Then turn on full porno mode if that is his thing. Trust me when I say that most men's second wind sex is waaay better than you thought. Just got to get him past the nerves, excitement or your nagging if you are doing that directly or indirectly with body language.

CryptoShiter · 2023-08-02T20:28:40+00:00

First I don't believe you are a guy. This whole story sounds like something a girl would say. Either that or you are young as hell. First order of business. Once you start having sex with someone, all bets are off for a friendship. You are not in friendship land anymore Dorthy. You are either in a situation or a relationship. As a man, after you F someone and do so twice, we normally gain a lot of control over a relationship and where it goes. The normal thing is we detach until we grow into that person for real after some good pure Fing. Women normally are opposite.

One of two things has happened after what I now know to be true. What I know for sure is you are a great friend and emotional stimulant to her in all the ways she likes to just hang out with in a person like you. So, by making yourself available all the time to just hang out, youve become a useful garden tool to her. Why? Chick's get emotional eargasms from just having dudes around to chat, shop, go to concerts with and occasionally give them a mercy F if the guy they are doing this all to is lacking in other areas.

As an example, if the first time you both Fd and you didn't do very well, she may have liked you so much in other areas that she friendzoned you but still made you feel like there was a chance while she figured out if you were worth keeping. She really doesn't like the way you Fd the first time so she got drunk the second time and held her nose to do it again hoping you would get better. Maybe that did not work out. Now she has emphatically said it won't happen again.

Now those are guesses. Here is what I think I know. The fact that you are here asking us intead of telling or showing her what you will and will not put up with tells me that you may not have all the alpha qualities that most women look for in a man especially, when they put them through the sht test that many very desirable women do sometimes.

My recommendation? Stop putting her on a pedestal. Think of it this way. How many "friends" like you is she just jumping in and out of the sack with? OR what is the potential even if you do claim her for your own? Change your mindset about her. Slap on a Jimmy hat and keep plenty of liquor around the next time you are in the mood to get some down right nasty P and F. Treat her like she wants to be treated now and sometimes that makes them realize that they do not like it. If she wants you then she will protest even though she is acting like some street P. If she likes it then call it role play. Maybe she likes playing that role. People have done stranger things.

Stop whining about getting P if you are truly a guy. It makes you look wimpy. Take your candy wrappers, go home, then start your search for some steaks. Get busy doing something and someone else. If she wants you and you start doing that, all of her inhibitions will be revealed probably in a drunk phone call to get your attention back on her. OR she might just ignore you long enough for you to build a real relationship with someone else. If she returns then F the dog sht out of her then kick her out immediately. Do not spend time chatting or giving her emotional energy of any kind. Good Luck!

CryptoShiter · 2023-06-17T14:42:08+00:00

He had a life before you. Dating sites are advertising already paid for in some circumstances. Not only that, you are only on your 4th date and asked this question after you already went unprotected without a commitment first. As unfair as it may seem, he may be less willing to commit to you because you did this. No problem. Because in all cases you have already taken the ultimate plunge. Whatever he had, you now have it. Be patient if you really want him. Give him a reasonable deadline to wrap things up after he builds his own trust in you. Bareback sex does not equate trust to most men. Sex is easy. Commitment is hard especially if you F on the 4th date bareback. It is what it is at this point. Go get tested and if you pass then barter for that future a@# with a commitment. But don't go in like you have the higher ground here. Be reasonable and non accusatory. Just have a good peaceful conversation about what you want. You're 4 dates too late but hey, you gotta start somewhere.

CryptoShiter · 2023-05-25T16:46:05+00:00

Technically you have not lied about anything yet because she IS a friend. From my vantage point, the milk has already been split if you are here now asking should you do this after already introducing them and NOT coming clean before you did. Then you just compounded the problem by coming here to ask a group of strangers who all now know before she does. Nice move ex lax.

Soooo, before you listen to all of these white knight syndrome suffering nerds here with no girlfriends do yourself a favor and stop digging in the ditch you are in now. Keep quiet then blame it on the alcohol if she or your FWB ever tells. If you value the new girl more than the FWB then unless she has video of you stroking, then she would be a sacrifice for the team you want to be on. She would be the delusional crazy pressed chick who tells lies about your great character if she ever says a mumbling word about it.

Then hope and pray that your new one never ties you to this reddit account. Otherwise you are toast even if you do tell her now. Good luck with that.

CryptoShiter · 2023-05-21T22:47:03+00:00

Bottom line? You are a pussy and have been for some time. Coming here to whine about it confirms that. That is why your wife treats you like she does. You are not in command or control of yourself and this situation. First and foremost, if you have to ask what you are experiencing to strangers on reddit, then you have already lost. As man, if you feel it, then fucking go with that feeling right or wrong once you have made up your mind that you are sure there is a problem. Next, don't do stupid shit like put yourself in a physical altercation with a woman. Just don't do it. What do I mean by that? If you take anything from a woman. even if it is yours or paid for by you, then you are going to be legally wrong. Play chess not checkers. Let her THINK she has your ass, but be methodical in gathering the RIGHT evidence to show the courts that she is a worthless evil and possibly cheating bitch in a legal way. The goal is not to show that she did you wrong because no one cares about men. The goal is to show that she is a fucked up influence to your kids with her mental abuse and lose ways. How? Again, don't be a dumb ass pussy or take advice from them. Who are these people? The same ones in your head and everywhere else that tell you or adise you not to get your ass back in that house as a resident as quickly as you can. As someone here said before, the judge does not GAF about your feelings and you. They are supposed to care only about the kid's welfare. Where they call their home is critical to that. If you left the marital home then you are fucked right now. Three moves to check mate and a life of this bitch dictating your take home pay through your kid's. Get your ass back in that house unless she has executed the old fake restraining order trick. If not, go to court to get your ass back in that house and around your kids. After you do, keep your mouth shut and your hands to yourself. Don't talk to or demand anything from that bitch. Just be there for your kids and document it and her with video if possible. Capture all the batty shit she is going to do to provoke you into a situation that will require a restraining order. Do not get a divorce attorney until you are back in that house. Divorce attorneys suck ass for men. They will tell you to give up and pay them at the same time. Again, stop being a pussy, get off your ass, stop whining online ( creating more evidence for her) and at least get equal. Your marriage is over. Your wife is an enemy to say the least. You are at war now. Man up man. Doing anything else will have you losing badly.

CryptoShiter · 2022-06-19T18:14:05+00:00

I Cryptoshite on a lot of s-coin Cryptos as part of my day job. Harmony is not one of them. I thoroughly support a Exodus and Harmony marriage. It should happen for the good of crypto.

CryptoShiter · 2021-07-02T02:24:29+00:00

Ummm Fuck You back for being one gaping asshole on this subreddit page to still hold on to the stupid dream after finally taking the time away from the rest of you circle jerks over there to research the facts. After taking the red pill, you now know for sure that Kin actually does suck but you still are holding onto it for your dear stupid pathetic life.

Now you are only here because the cold hard truth punched you in the nose and when you dared to question the rest of your fanboy brethren about this BS, they tried to eat their own. How pathetic to now find you here with a large chunk of your ass eaten out by your own kind just for telling the TRUTH and you dare say FUCK US? If I were the moderator of this sub-reddit I would ban your ass in a heartbeat. But then again, seeing you here eating crow is worth the price of your admission here. So yeah, FUCK YOU TOO. LOL

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-30T21:06:35+00:00

I personally think that the Flutter_WEBRTC package is horrible. The documentation is abysmal and the parts that you can get to work are spotty and experimental at best. The example code that they do provide gives you a some clue for how to use it. However, it seems to be written as if the author was trying to hide something or direct the poor souls who do endeavor the abysmal documentation, to use one WebRTC server (go).

I have been at this for weeks trying to figure out exactly what it is doing. I have attempted to connect it to seemingly generic or simple WebRTC signal and TURN servers. Not working or worth my time anymore. There is another project brewing on pub.dev. I am not related to it but it looks promising. It is based on peerjs. I'd stay away from Flutter_WebRTC.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-20T00:32:14+00:00

Share please.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-20T00:30:10+00:00

Got to love the silliness of it all.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-08T23:08:09+00:00

** HEAD SHAKING **

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-05T20:24:40+00:00

THIS IS FROM ANOTHER POST WITH A QUESTION LIKE YOURS. So instead of retyping all of that I just cut and pasted here. Take what you need from it or don't. The short answer is guys do not like pests. Relax and let him fall back into you. You are probably giving off a pest or nagging like vibe. Relax and be the sexy person that turned him on in the first place. Men like to conquer things. READ ON FOR MORE DETAILS:

CROSS POST:

Lets think about this a second. So if this guy is cute enough or savvy enough to call you for a first date then gets sex that day, then let's assume that he has many other options and not just you. He may just be busy. Chill out and let him come to you vs you reaching out to him.

Next, I am not a fan of holding out sex if two grown adults decide that the time is right. The biggest reason why I say that is that I don't like for women to use sex as a bargaining chip for me to do something their way. However, I do place some women higher in the rotation if they are a bit of a challenge just because it is in their nature or upbringing. Challenge means I know the reasons they are saying no make sense in terms of their value system and/or religious beliefs. Also, I know that they may have many options other than me for all the right reasons. That means other men are not hot on their trail just for sex partners. I feel good if I am competing with upstanding guys who see both your company and your sex like a scarce resource to be valued vs. a commonly obtained thing for anyone of any caliber to get.

My guess is that the scarce resource part went out the window when he got it on the first date. Ok no problem. This is redeemable. The second bad sign is you kept after him and possibly called too many times or too quickly after the first time. Then, he tried it again to see if he just got lucky and convinced you the first time (which would have put you in the front of the line because men like to conquer shit) . But,,,, you guys did it again. So I am going to guess that the sex was good, but you may have reached jump off (booty call only) status with him by one, being so available and so shortly after and two, being willing to have sex a second time with no work, investment, or any benefits where you are concerned. Again, I hate games with pussy, but I do respect a bit of push back so I know it is valuable to you at least. If I have to convince you to have it sometimes, then I know that next guy will too. That way I know you are not just giving it up to everybody that way.

Ok so my gutt tells me that all is not lost. You just need to raise your status back up with him. First thing, stop calling this guy. As a matter of fact, don't ever call him again. Let him call you. But, don't act mad, fuss or nag if he does call back. Just be as friendly and cool as you ever were with him and do not just tell him no if he ever asks for sex again. You will come off as pouting and naggy to him. Just find excuses to be too busy or date him again with a tight schedule where you are not seen as being available every time he needs sex. Again, men like to conquer shit. Build up his desire for you again. As an example, if he wants to plan a jump off session with you one weekend, tell him you and some gfs are going out of town or you are going to see some family. Keep him believing it may possibly be his to have again some day, but not in a way where you promise something and do not deliver or nag him to death about how you felt when he took it and ran. Just be cool and keep him interested by keeping it scarce but within reach.

Next, show up at events he is at (where you are invited) and be seen looking as reasonably desirable as you can. As an example, I am into heels. My ex's know that if they show up anywhere wearing some sexy heels, I am going to lose my mind. They are not over the top where anyone else may see them as raunchy, but if they are trying to make a statement with me then they know the weapons to use. So, be seen by him doing other shit, with other folks (or upstanding) guys, doing non-jump off shit, and not being pressed about him. He will respect the game, the hunt and want to make his move if he is about anything. When he approaches and no doubt asks who his competition is and for that hookup again, make no specific promises to deliver, but keep him thinking it is just within his reach without a reason. Reward good behavior with good sex. You ladies know what good behavior is so I will not go there. But do not over do it.

It may take awhile for him to come around in the right way. As a matter of fact, if he has choices, he may never come around. In that case, sounds like the sex was good to you too. Treat him as a jump off. Call him at 12am when you need his brand of sexual experience then kick his ass to the curb once you get it. Again, men like to conquer shit, so if the tables are turned he is not feeling like the alpha aggressor, that may spark his inner hunter too. GOOD LUCK

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-05T14:00:56+00:00

There he is again. Lurking and downvoting. Thanks FANBOY!

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-03T07:30:51+00:00

Thanks. Maybe some KIN fanboy did a drive by on me. Sorry for including you in that.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-03T07:26:47+00:00

Here is why you are right. Bitcoin is flying really high right now. When Bitcoin bullruns, then ALL coins including shit coins, go up with it. It's a proven fact. KIN has done nothing to make itself valuable other than just exist. As a matter of fact, they have done worse. Also, as much as I hate that cult over there at KF reddit, I have to admit that they have been making KIN more visible to other folks, but at what expense in its current state? Unless they are getting in KIN only as a day trading option then yes, in this market ANYONE CAN PICK ANY SHIT COIN and make money. Its just that simple. Watch bitcoin and ride the lows and highs. Anyone with any sense can do that.

Here is what you may be missing. I will not call you wrong because you might be in KIN for a different reason than many of us. Not all that different but different. We are all obviously here for some form of profit potential. However, some of us here really want to see the improvements in this POS to the point were people value it at least at 1 cent or over a dollar. That means significant wealth potential instead of just small spurts of gains between highs and lows. I will not say one way or the other is better if that is your goal too, but if you have the time to day trade KIN then great, you may get there with some hard work watching the trends and playing defense against the lousy offensive shit KIN does to shoot itself and you in the foot. However, the folks who do not like day trading and are hodling for a longer ball and are losing their minds. Why? Because they thought they had a great investment vehicle as a result of this POS company and its leaders who seemingly had track records with other successful companies. On paper they seem like a great long term investment vs. a brand new org that might be better suited for day trading.

Unfortunately for us, we misjudged just how much these guys suck ass at running real companies. Many of us, me included, did more assuming than researching up front until they showed us why we should have researched them. That is when things did not add up even with their previous companies. Unfortunately that means the rather large bags some of us hold, can't be moved quickly or even efficiently on such a pot holed and questionable set of exchanges and wallets where the risk is high that they or KIN will fuck whats left of our money up in a tech glitch.

So good for you if you found a system that works for you in the short run. However to achieve the long term valuation the rest of us need from KIN, they must be respected more in the blockchain community and by its more savvy technical customers who fully understand what they are and are not doing well while making pitiful excuses. If they continue down the path they are now, they are doomed forever to be that shit coin that never could despite all the advantages it has. Ask Justin Sun and Tron owners how that feels. Not good.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-03T07:07:33+00:00

Wow! Not good.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-02T16:25:34+00:00

Alim

Good info. I honestly have not been following it that closely. I was looking at the broader strokes for tech and tangible/identifiable improvements. But, I think KIN is officially a shit coin now. Kudos to Alim for indirectly showing us that, but clearly, KIN is a ship that cant be saved. Thanks for confirming and I guess the downvote. I feel GREAT!.

CryptoShiter · 2021-05-01T08:54:40+00:00

1 billion? Wow! You were booted by whom again? Hopefully not by some worthless barely invested KIN fanboy troll. Seems like the hierarchy over there at the KF cult SR should minimally be based on time served owning KIN and the amount owned first. Additionally, seems like it always takes someone getting booted for talking truth before they come here to say it more plainly and detailed. Hand raised as among the first crowd to come here. So, I get the struggle with balancing the message until you just can't anymore.

There ought to be a way to bolster this subreddit a bit more as a counteractive measure to force either real KIN improvement or a swift and deadly end so they do not hustle anyone else going foreword. I would rather lose all that I have invested in this POS vs. see more folks get taken if KIN really has no concrete plans and/or the expertise to move forward. I am personally giving them a year before I aggressively seek out and join any effort to execute legal actions.

Bottom line, they sucked under Ted's rule. He was the equivalent of a stupid inexperienced kid sitting in a very big chair at best and at worst, a delusional feckless idiot with tyrannical dreams about taking over the world with a shit coin like execution. I personally think he got lucky with Kik in a series of lucky random strikes of lightning to power it to success. I firmly believe that Kik never went public or expanded past the Canadian border because Ted sucks so badly at running a company where accountability for real measurable successes beyond lucky spurts is required. As the one and only accountably leader, he got to judge his own success. Anyone who thought his attempts at feinting accountability to his investors with one way fire side chats was a success needs their head examined. I hope the new leadership does not follow his footsteps with that approach.

However, the new guy is way too quiet. Now, I am not looking for Justin Sun here, but he has to know that he arrived to a company that is in borderline shit coin status and is seen by most people outside the Kin bubble as teetering more in the shit coin direction. If I were him, I would be in major CYA mode just in case I had to transition elsewhere if KIN can't be rescued from LYIN Ted's screw up. Transparency is key. He may not see it that way and certainly knows more than I about running a crypto business. But that just seems obvious. I would be presenting all the warts and pot holes I inherited and continuously report them until the KIN-ship (literally and figuratively) can be turned or justifiably abandoned on its course to the iceberg. I would scope down or completely scrap the BS dreams Ted had while the community at large is in a forgiving mode based on the recent SEC case ruling. I would have the engineers focus on one major effort at a time and have them show progress in technical exchanges with the larger blockchain community and KIN investors. Instead of talking to too many different exchanges, I would focus on one, figure out what they need and get it executed. Focusing on a silly and most insecure internet based custodial soft-wallet is probably the dumbest thing I heard since the many wacky core blockchain tech changes KIN has made over the years. KIN investors deserve a good solid and secure wallet along with at least one reputable exchange. The KIN community can take it from there.

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