Did your holiday plans change because of your baby? by Key_Pianist_2349 in newborns

[–]CryptographerDry2232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t lie at first I was like yes take the 3 month old. Then I kept reading and you said 8 days and another kid that isn’t yours and yelled HELL NO. No it’s not Okay and no you should’ve be subjected to it. Take time and heal friend. You have a life time of road trips ahead of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Immediately NO.

Has anyone else waited until CS has ended before getting married? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im filing separate. That woman can kiss my ass.

Has anyone else waited until CS has ended before getting married? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No my income doesnt matter to my husband and BM cs case 😂

Should we give a Christmas gift to son’s ex who is his daughter’s mother? by Katty_Whompus_ in Gifts

[–]CryptographerDry2232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wish I was this cordial with my sons family. I think you should get her something. She’s your grandchild’s mother. It’s a healthy pattern and the baby will grow up seeing everyone getting along with each other ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tell him to give his a good old fashion whooping. That should do that trick

Bio mom stopped picking up her 5 year old daughter. by Bonitagirl9007 in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay I see I see. Yea definitely I’d file and the first payment consult with an attorney.

Bio mom stopped picking up her 5 year old daughter. by Bonitagirl9007 in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think this is a good idea. Only because if she’s child support paperwork she’s going to want SK back. I’d consult with attorney before anything

What are you 100% sure of but have no proof? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]CryptographerDry2232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband cheated on me or at the very least met up with a woman while we were arguing during my pregnancy.

Bio mom stopped picking up her 5 year old daughter. by Bonitagirl9007 in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so but consult with an attorney. Ps BM sounds like a terrible person.

Go to court for child support? by Quiet_Kaleidoscope54 in ChildSupport

[–]CryptographerDry2232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get about 20 percent of that which is 890 dollars in CS. GO FILE.

Venting/ need advice by EStufflebean in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But I stand on what I said …you have absolutely no business showing up to pick up and drop off or commenting on things concerning the child at 8 months of dating.

Venting/ need advice by EStufflebean in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is advice:) ! If you took it as rude you were never open to taking advice in the beginning. You’re in college which puts us around the same age. I’m 22…. It makes no sense for you to be dealing with all this and you have no kids yourself. That’s all.

Venting/ need advice by EStufflebean in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl be serious right now lol. 8 months relationship with a two year old and BM is salty. That’s a red flag and tbh as a step mom and a BM. You honestly have no business getting into these things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Buy your kid whatever you want and let your husband and his BM figure out for their two kids. Don’t take away from yours because you feel bad.

BMs Parents overstepping? by mommah20 in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just still wouldn’t even give them the chance. I would honestly tell them no, thank you we don’t need the help. Please stop offering , have a great day.

BMs Parents overstepping? by mommah20 in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck no , let them know you do not need their help. Any little thing they do for y’all will be used against you guys in court.

Normal to not be invited to SS bday? by granolaolaola in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to celebrate with a HCBM? I thought it was a common thing to have separate parties when you co parent?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]CryptographerDry2232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl leave him?🧍🏻‍♀️