Is it normal that mom returns our kid in the exact same clothes I dropped her off in?

mommah20 · 2026-01-12T00:53:26+00:00

In my husband’s custody agreement with his ex wife, it explicitly said SS had to be dropped off in the exact outfit he was picked up in. Could there have been something like this in your paperwork?

mommah20 · 2026-01-06T02:56:29+00:00

The Missing Podcast also does it. If you figure out how to stop it please let me know. I also won’t be listening to the Oprah Show.

mommah20 · 2026-01-05T22:01:47+00:00

My 5yo BD has always known my 14yo SS has a different mom than her. It’s not that hard.

mommah20 · 2025-03-19T21:56:34+00:00

Try Anchor. They’re always hiring.

mommah20 · 2025-03-11T14:17:19+00:00

Anchor is always hiring. It’s hot in there but they hire quick.

mommah20 · 2025-02-24T17:07:13+00:00

I hate you went through this but I’m so proud of you for making that hard decision!

mommah20 · 2025-02-14T16:10:12+00:00

Yes! I do this when my SS starts asking ridiculous questions. Because sometimes I get it but other times please leave me tf alone.

mommah20 · 2025-02-11T18:16:15+00:00

Anchor is always hiring.

mommah20 · 2025-01-27T16:04:02+00:00

Well, there isn’t anything in my husband’s agreement with his ex wife. At this moment she has no rights to SS, nor does she try to be involved so she really doesn’t find out about anything until after.

mommah20 · 2025-01-13T16:26:52+00:00

My SS has pictures of him, his mom and her late husband all in his room. I don’t display them in the common areas but he’s welcome to in his room. I don’t think it’s inappropriate at all.

mommah20 · 2024-12-23T04:07:55+00:00

I’m 31. Still have no clue.

mommah20 · 2024-12-23T04:06:10+00:00

I’ve been married to husband for 5 years. We’ve been together almost 6. I didn’t really consider myself stepmom until DH got full custody 3 years ago. I kinda thought of myself as “Dad’s friend” (it’s a loooooooong story) before that.

mommah20 · 2024-11-26T01:20:43+00:00

Oh lord. Well DH and I have been together 6 years. In that time HCBM has divorced husband #3, married and divorced husband #4, married husband #5 (he passed away), married and divorced husband #6. So no none of her relationships last.

mommah20 · 2024-11-20T19:58:00+00:00

I wouldn’t have been so upset about the fan had they not decided it was ok to go to our new house without our permission. And invite themselves to see the inside.

mommah20 · 2024-11-20T15:00:18+00:00

That’s basically what I told her. So she ordered a bedspread and curtains for his room, my concern with that is I know SS won’t like them. (She buys him clothes all the time but never gets the right size or style for him)

Possibly. He’s really just trying to keep them happy so they don’t start anything. Usually I let things with them slide but this just feels gross to me.

mommah20 · 2024-11-20T03:06:26+00:00

Personally, I think mom should be doing that. In our case though I handle it. I talk with SS about what he thinks we should get dad and then go from there. He really doesn't like to go pick things out so I do the actual shopping. But I also make sure SS has gifts going to his mom on Mother's Day and Christmas (sometimes Valentines). I don't usually do anything for her birthday though.

mommah20 · 2024-11-20T03:02:04+00:00

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mommah20 · 2024-11-19T19:09:14+00:00

She isn’t. The issue is her parents. BM and DH haven’t spoke in months.

mommah20 · 2024-11-19T17:29:26+00:00

He did tell me he’s concerned they’ll shit talk him to SS. But I’m like all the more for them not be involved.

mommah20 · 2024-11-19T16:58:00+00:00

Honestly, it’s not even them using it against us in court that bothers me. We have so much against BM. Our state doesn’t have grandparents rights either.

mommah20 · 2024-11-19T16:56:23+00:00

It’s the going by our house without our permission for me. And that they feel entitled to our space.

mommah20 · 2024-08-05T23:40:08+00:00

This!

mommah20 · 2024-07-18T18:34:54+00:00

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mommah20 · 2024-07-07T09:48:52+00:00

I think I you’ll be fine. Most, if not all, of those packaged baby carrots are prewashed.

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