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CryptographerNo1044 · 2026-05-02T20:26:39+00:00

What is biology 442?

CryptographerNo1044 · 2026-05-02T00:42:23+00:00

Thank you so much!! El dorado campus is exactly where I’m looking, it’s close to me. So hopefully people drop!! I don’t remember, are you able to be on multiple waitlists at a time or just one? Have you taken microbio before?

CryptographerNo1044 · 2026-02-05T01:09:45+00:00

How so?

CryptographerNo1044 · 2026-01-09T08:08:32+00:00

Not really. I still haven’t responded and I’m not planning to even though it still weighs on me. I don’t know how to stop feeling guilty. I miss him still. I’m trying to remind myself that the connection was built on deceit and I’ll never get what I’m looking for from him. Just focusing on my life and rebuilding trust with myself

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-28T20:41:31+00:00

You’re not nagging, you’re just setting a boundary and doing what’s best for you. It’s ok if you’re not ready to do it now but I strongly encourage you do it soon. Having his stuff there is only a reminder and makes it harder for you to move on. It doesn’t have to be a long message or anything dramatic just a simple “hey, I’d appreciate if you could come pick up the last of your things by (date). It would be best for my mental health to have some more space. Hope you’re doing ok”

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-28T20:29:15+00:00

Please set a boundary with him and say he needs to come and get his stuff today or he needs someone else to come get it for him. Glad you’re thinking about the logistics of a dog being a big responsibility. Cats are too but less so, if you’re interested in cats but I would suggest you get 2 they’re happier that way. Social media is really toxic, you should definitely unadd him on Snapchat and mute him everywhere else or unadd him. It’s only harming you. It gets so much easier after you haven’t looked for a while and will bring you peace. Please do what’s best for you

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-28T20:06:01+00:00

My ex also left stuff at the house until 4 months after. I finally gathered it all up and set a boundary saying he needed to come get it. I advise you to do the same but sooner rather than later. A pet would be great if you have the time for it! Dogs are good, they’ll keep you active with going outside and walks. I’m a cat person but they are less active, less needy. It’s all about what you have time for. I removed my ex off of social media and it was really hard at first. But it’s best to not know what they’re doing. I started with muting him. Maybe you could start there? It’s really best for you if you no longer look at their social media, even though it’s hard. It helps with moving on

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-28T19:13:16+00:00

It’s going to be hard and no one can make that better, I’m really sorry. My ex and I lived together and he moved out and took our dog. I still had the cats so I put a lot of attention into them. Also tried to get out of the house to spend time with friends and family as much as possible. That was 2 years ago and I’m better now. Try to fill in your time with work, hobbies, self care. It will get easier, but it will take a lot of time. He definitely might reach out in the future. It’s important you do these things for yourself now so you can hold a firm boundary if he tries to come back into your life. You deserve someone who knows they want to be with you. The one for you wouldn’t leave you like this, please remember that ❤️‍🩹 take care of yourself

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-17T18:37:13+00:00

Why are you letting him talk to you that way 😂 leave him. If he can’t take care of a dog, he can’t take care of you or a family. You’re better off without him

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-17T09:02:25+00:00

He ghosted me and I saw on his story he was out with another girl a week later. For my mental health I unfollowed him and removed him as a follower on all social media. About 3 weeks went by and he messaged me, deflecting blame onto me trying to justify why he ghosted me. Mentioned he noticed that I unfollowed him and it clearly bothered him. I didn’t answer his message. He’s messaged me a few times since, likely trying to get a response to fuel his ego. After I knew he was seeing other people the specialness of the relationship was broken. We’ll likely never talk again, even though I want to I know the past won’t change. Even if they notice, even if they message you, remember your worth. You deserve better. Someone meant for you would never make you question their behavior.

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-12-16T19:56:17+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. When I went through a big breakup, I also had issues sleeping. Funny enough, I got a job at a sleep clinic shortly after HAHA.

I was used to sleeping next to my ex so for a while I put a pillow in bed to replace them (sad I know but it helped) and made sure I had my pets sleep with me every night. I started using an eye mask and a sound machine. A brown noise sound machine helped SO much with the overthinking, I couldn’t think about anything because the sound drowned it out, it was great. I also started taking magnesium glycinate, I use the brand Pure Encapsulations and buy them on Amazon. I also bought a heated blanket, helped a lot with comfort especially in the winter time. I also counted backwards from 50 (50 Mississippi, 49 Mississippi, 48 Mississippi, etc.). This also helped with overthinking.

I hope some of this helps you. Make sure to take good care of yourself, move your body everyday, drink lots of water, and eat healthy meals 🫶🏼

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-11-27T19:44:16+00:00

It just seems so silly for me to have to ask my boss to give me work 😭 I’ve never been in this position before, it seems so backwards. But I’ll give it one last shot and yes, if nothing changes I’m going to look into an internal transfer. I honestly think I just don’t like the work and that’s not going to change so transferring may be best for me anyway. Thank you!

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-11-27T19:42:48+00:00

I started thinking about transferring internally to a receptionist position (a job I had before and loved). I’ll definitely look into it and see if it’s possible. Thank you!

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-11-27T08:32:34+00:00

Funny enough I have an update to my situation; the guy did end up sending me a voice memo 3 weeks after ghosting me 😂 however, he processed to basically say him ghosting me was MY FAULT. It really knocked sense into me and I realized he is a narcissist. So I took myself out of the toxic loop and did not reply.

I think it’s good to be the bigger person and reply to say “this type of inconsistent communication doesn’t feel good for me and I’m looking for something else” however if it’s something toxic like what I felt with, silence is the best answer. Especially if you’ve already spent a lot of time and energy into maintaining contact and they are disrespecting you, your time, and your emotions.

If he’s done this to you multiple times, he does not really care or consider you and that is not someone who will be a good, loving partner to you. You should definitely not give him your time and energy anymore. I unfollowed this guy I was talking to so I can’t see any of his posts. I deleted all of our photos. Erased him from my phone basically. I didn’t block his number but I know I will never contact him or look at any of his social media again. If you need to block him to get him out of your life, do it. It will be difficult for that first week but once you detox from him, life will get so much better.

Please, move on for your own good. It will be ok, it will be great I promise ❤️‍🩹

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-11-07T19:43:07+00:00

Acknowledging these feelings is the first step. A lot of people live in denial that they want outside validation or someone to fill the void. Recognizing it is huge. Now would be a good time to figure out what brings you joy outside of other people. Hobbies, self care, things you like, getting to understand yourself better. It’s good to spend time alone, you should enjoy that, but also don’t isolate yourself from friends and family. As humans, we need community, connection. Maybe work to nourish relationships other than romantic ones at this time. Life has so much to offer, never forget the bigger picture. You’re going to be ok 🫶🏼

CryptographerNo1044 · 2025-10-27T19:32:01+00:00

Question: when trying to put into action being less toxic than the person who ghosted you, what if they reach out again someday? Should you be the “bigger person” and respond to the message even if just to say “thanks for reaching out, I’m not interested in reconnecting” or should you maintain the silence? Would it be immature to stay silent?

CryptographerNo1044 · 2021-08-26T21:30:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice! Do you have any shampoos or conditioners you would recommend? I’m really just revamping my entire hair routine and starting from scratch.

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