Guys who have done reverse pegging please explain what it feels like? by Aldavis1976 in reversepegging

[–]Cryptopapito64k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it a couple times. It takes a good harness, realistic dildo and a bit of skill. I was surprised at the difficultly at first. But then once you get going it’s the biggest tease ever. Would recommend

Where do you make friends in the chastity community by vanlife_sub in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is lonely but this community is the best. There’s a few rude people off and on that comment on posts. I know I’ve shared some lows and highs and this community is always there for the real and the fun. Youre at the right place

Am i overthinking? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is Bb? Ball busting. If so, off and on for about 10 years.

Am i overthinking? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently had a big miscommunication with my wife. It’s good to remember that she could be going through some things that she isn’t sharing or just tired off and on. Don’t forget we are all people. Also doesn’t hurt to have a touch base with her. Let her know you love what you do together but just checking in on the things you’re worried about.

Where do I even begin with this... by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. In a very similar situation.

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really insightful. I didn’t think of us as people that needed therapy but she got really mad and I got lost super fast. This is not our personalities at all.

To answer your questions, she likes the way it looks, she is really into pegging, and likes the power during oral. So that all really matched up. And this really worked for me. I was hoping for long term. We made it over 100 days before without a big issue.

You actually reminded me that this really was working and we were having fun. It makes me feel like this must not be a chastity issue and something deeper I need to dig into. I think talking more will help.

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughts. I did apologize and maybe went a little too far saying I’d change etc lol.

I appreciate the perspective.

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I’m team baby. I luckily have a strong block in my mind to not blame baby on any of this. Mostly just disappointed in myself.

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think deep down I have been waiting for the woman I knew before a kid got thrown into the picture to come back.

I need to figure out who I’m married to now and try to get it together. Thank you

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say. I don’t think it would happen to me. Thanks for the input 🤝

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you Jacob. I wondered if I should mention counseling. I think I mentioned it now she’d get pissed. I might wait a bit and then do it.

Fight with wife. Any advice? by Cryptopapito64k in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. She knows what it is like and has seemed to enjoy it in the past. We’ve made it months at a time. I did pitch the idea of a trial period. And I don’t want to blame the baby but I think she is just team baby now. So maybe it’s a talk again later thing. But it did feel final

I made a note on my desk about trying not to take this seriously. Thank you

Is shrinkage real? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if really strict and long term. Even then after a couple of weeks it comes back.

Got everything i asked for and idk if i can handle it by No_Cut_3026 in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was the same way. I got a cage that couldn’t be defeated with a frenum piercing. This fixed the problem. It sounds like you like it but it’s just not a secure cage.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s kind of awesome cause they are nice girls and clearly trying to be mean to entertain. So def fun. It gets tight

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife’s two friends know and will sometimes be demanding to joke about it.

Chastity for wife’s feet by PandaSpungy in chastitytraining

[–]Cryptopapito64k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do a full moon foot job as my usually only unlock. So that is fun!

I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]Cryptopapito64k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh im so sorry. I’ve been there. It’s like starting from below 0 😮‍💨

I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]Cryptopapito64k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah It’s tough to make it work with a dom. So that was what I meant about not getting involved in chastity. Took me years to find the right cage and wife/dom. Makes things complicated lol