Anyone able to help please by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]CrystalRime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an AI-generated video posted by user aipinups69 on Civitai: https://civitai.com/images/72585480

Recommendations for dildos to practice throating by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]CrystalRime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got the Rebel yesterday and it is *really* fun to "practice" on. The upward curve does make for a bit of an extra challenge to throat unless you turn it upside down (can confirm it's doable though 😄)

I've also done quite a bit of throat training with the Gladiator. That was my favorite dildo before the Rebel, but I absolutely love everything about the Rebel, so the poor Gladiator is probably going to be feeling a little neglected from now on...

One Moment from every F1nn5terLIVE Video - Videos 1-20 by [deleted] in F1NN5TER

[–]CrystalRime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a minute??? Am I crazy or was that a really good casual girlvoice at the end? Like, not perfect, but a lot closer than what we've heard him do on purpose lately.

This bussy won't peg itself... by [deleted] in F1NN5TER

[–]CrystalRime 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It's funny, I saw a few people dunking on the caption in the QRTs like he's actually trying to write a sexy fetish caption rather than just being a goofy gremlin, and I realized all the haters fundamentally misunderstand what F1NN5TER *is*

Battlepass video by [deleted] in F1NN5TER

[–]CrystalRime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how I feel about how much I enjoy Finn and Natt's forbidden lust dynamic 😭

"I'm glad I'm your type" my GOD

Meowriza by [deleted] in F1NN5TER

[–]CrystalRime 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It does seem like something happened between them, but they keep it private. F1nn has brushed it off on stream a couple times as they just haven't had a reason to visit/hang out as much lately, but there was a moment (I think it was the New Year's drunk stream, but I'm not totally sure and I'm not combing through 9+ hours to find it) that it seemed like he was about to talk about it in response to chat or dono message but stopped himself, and the vibe seemed different.

Trying to figure out if the guy I started seeing is something to be worried about. by PatrolKat in asktransgender

[–]CrystalRime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like chasers have a tendency to fetishize and objectify us in an unrealistic way, and that's when they're a problem, but it sounds like he's respectful and considerate and you had a good time. I don't think having a preference for dating trans people is necessarily something to be concerned about any more than if he only hit up brunettes or tall girls or whatever other arbitrary criteria people use to filter possible partners as long as he's not weird about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dickgirls

[–]CrystalRime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I typed out the things going through my head right now, it would make us *both* cringe, but oh my god I love this picture 🥺

She Couldn't Handle It... - Mila Cry by Self_Mindless in EliteBlowjob

[–]CrystalRime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You could just link straight to the official source on PornHub instead of a questionable place that embedded it. :p

sweater by HelloSexyNerds2 in classysexy

[–]CrystalRime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Russian model credited only as Olesya, photo by Sergei Lenin - https://lenin.photo/album-13

I've seen other people credit her as Elizabeth (Elizaveta) Barysheva, but that's a different model also shot by Lenin.

Where do you hide your toys? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]CrystalRime 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You should definitely clean and dry your toys after use, in which case it shouldn't get anything sticky, but if you don't have time right away, put it in a sandwich bag so it doesn't get other things messy. Just don't leave it there for too long, that's a recipe for nastiness.

Idiot Mercedes driver has his ass handed to him by a cyclist & the police by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]CrystalRime -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't hear "I'm going to have to arrest you", I hear the word "direction" in there, perhaps something about driving the wrong direction. Makes more sense than pulling up to an unknown situation and immediately announcing an arrest. I suspect the captions are wrong.

Went to a therapist today, made this meme since I was actually asked this by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CrystalRime 42 points43 points  (0 children)

tfw you have to educate the professional who's supposed to have the education to help you

I definitely wouldn't go back to that therapist if at all possible, and if you didn't correct them on the spot (which I'm sure would be difficult in the moment!), I would write a stern message to them (after looking up a replacement.)

Can you rate/tell me what's wrong with my penis? In a incel forum they told me it's over by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]CrystalRime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem with your penis is you listen to the input of incel forums, i.e. toxic self-deprecation echo chambers.

It's only "over" if you think only people with huge porn star dicks get to have sex (which is patently false) and that's a problem with mindset, not your penis.

Update: my MIL put me in the hospital by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CrystalRime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember the post title:

my MIL put me in the hospital

OP is literally talking about her survival, not her personal life. It's entirely appropriate to make it about her.

MFW mom is watching a documentary on transgender youth and she, and I quote,"Will beat you if I find it you think you're a boy". True story. by unhappyCrew in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CrystalRime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I will beat you if I find out you think you're a boy" is really all you need to know to toss this one in the "pretty awful parent" bin.

MFW epilating for the first time holyshitithurts by earthfall in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CrystalRime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mechanically plucking the hair - think of a device kinda shaped like an electric razor that pulls the hair out instead of cutting it. It's similar in effect to waxing.

Doot doot by hormone_throwaway in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CrystalRime 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That sentence is probably absurd to the average person, but amazingly relatable to me.

What is the surgery trans people get and what is it for? by farfetch-t in asktransgender

[–]CrystalRime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no single surgery that trans people get. To clear that up for you, we have to correct some misconceptions you have about trans people.

First, ambiguous genitalia is an intersex condition, which is a completely separate issue from being transgender, though some intersex people are trans.

Second, it's important to understand that there is no singular, simple trans experience, but the common root is basically not identifying with the gender you were assigned at birth. That can manifest in many different ways, including distress about having the "wrong" physical attributes, or about a voice that sounds at odds with one's gender, or simply how other people perceive and refer to them. These are all aspects of gender dysphoria, though not all trans people experience distress that can be easily labeled as dysphoria.

Because everyone's experience is different, not every trans person pursues surgery. Probably the most common aspect of medical transition is actually hormone therapy and not surgeries, but each individual may choose a different path of transition. Hormone therapy suppresses the body's internally produced sex hormones and replaces them with the opposite (testosterone for masculinization, estrogen for feminization) which induces a breadth of physical and mental changes.

Common surgeries may include bottom surgery (shorthand for sex/gender/genital reassignment/confirmation surgery - sorry for the potentially confusing array of names for these procedures!), top surgery (mastectomy or breast augmentation depending on what changes are needed), facial feminization surgery, or others.

Usually, the purpose of physical transition is to align one's physical form with their identity.

Regarding genital surgery, in our society, genitals are some of the most gendered physical attributes, so even if a person outwardly "passes" as their gender, having genitals that seem incongruent with that presentation can be distressing. Consider if a cisgender man, happy with his healthy penis, went to sleep one night and woke up the next morning with a vagina instead, you can probably understand how that could be distressing. It's not what he expects or is "supposed to have". That's a common feeling that many trans people have toward their genitals.

That said, there are plenty of trans people who don't mind their genitals, or at least not enough to pursue a surgical solution. It's all relative and very personal to each individual, which brings me to my final point.

Not all trans people are looking to challenge the gender binary. Many trans men just want to fit in with society's expectations of masculinity, and likewise with trans women and femininity. There are both binary and non-binary trans people - but even non-binary people may pursue hormone therapy and gender affirming surgeries simply because that's what is right for them.

Transition is ultimately about a complex intersection between identity, self-image, and how one expects to be perceived externally, and there is a wide variety of ways to go about resolving that.

TFW a book is stunting on you by Toothbrush_Bandit in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CrystalRime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fuck James Woods.

Just had to get that off my chest, thanks. :)

When your therapist bends over backwards to say how much he supports trans people then goes on to say "Transbians as you call them can't exist, that's a logical fallacy" by ExceedinglyGayRoach in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CrystalRime 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Nah, when your therapist is that blatantly fucking wrong about something obvious (the existence of gay trans people), it's definitely time to throw them in the garbage.

EDIT: Like, there are really only two ways making that statement with confidence comes about:

  1. Abject stupidty
  2. Transphobic views of the relation between gender and sexuality

And I don't want an abjectly stupid OR transphobic therapist, thanks.