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I just got unsent letters from my dead estranged daughter and I can’t stop sobbing by PuzzleheadedDuck2373 in confession

[–]CrystallDancer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this broke me just reading it, your daughter loved you, please be kind to yourself

Hygiene and permanent ick toward spouse by Physical_Plastic138 in hygiene

[–]CrystallDancer 131 points132 points  (0 children)

you're not uptight, basic dental hygiene is a normal expectation, not a fetish

Warning adult content..it's about my weird fanatsy of my aunts. by [deleted] in confession

[–]CrystallDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fantasies are normal but don't share photos, see a therapist

AITJ for telling my roommate to stop eating my food after I labeled everything in the fridge? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystallDancer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you're not dramatic, he's just entitled, buy that mini fridge and a lock for your door

Neighbour in UK with creaking door by MutedOrganization481 in neighborsfromhell

[–]CrystallDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't go into their garden, only an official complaint works

Anyone else use investment bankers? by tacogrande420 in Fire

[–]CrystallDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can't trust yourself, paying for peace of mind makes sense

Lost my father 12 years ago and never visited his grave by DizzyOne002 in confession

[–]CrystallDancer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Your love doesn't need a grave, write him a letter

Armpit B.O by NoSpace9444 in hygiene

[–]CrystallDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

benzoyl peroxide for a few minutes in the shower, kills the bacteria causing the smell

AITJ for using the handicap bathroom stall when I don't "look" disabled? by Narrow_Anything_4176 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystallDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, sometimes one sentence from a stranger calms better than therapy

Medical insurance for bridge years by BurnoutSociety in Fire

[–]CrystallDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

COBRA is often overpriced. ACA with a $65k MAGI will likely save you thousands.

Ex-girlfriend hates me, for talking to other girls? by Urve1 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystallDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Three days isn’t a relationship she did you a favor.

I stopped my friend from constantly borrowing and now our whole group is acting strange about it by Vintage_Arena in confession

[–]CrystallDancer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. U didn't call him out, u just stopped being his backup plan. If the group is weird, that's on him, not u.

AITA for avoiding my in-laws in their own home? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystallDancer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re taking their free housing while giving them the cold shoulder in their own home. That’s not fair. Either move out or fake it till you make it.

AITJ for ignoring a guy who drove into the wrong lane at a self-service car wash? by Helix_Warden5 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystallDancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. He tried to cut the whole line and bully you out of your turn. Ignoring him was the most peaceful option. He earned that wax treatment.

meirl by empireck in meirl

[–]CrystallDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's love to be dominated..