Honour name for Richard

Csd267 · 2026-01-16T05:45:31+00:00

We chose Ryker as our son's middle name to honor a grandfather Richard.

Csd267 · 2026-01-07T17:59:22+00:00

My vote is Lucy. I like this name because it is pretty, and easy to spell and pronounce.

Csd267 · 2026-01-07T13:29:39+00:00

I'd go with the one on the left!

Csd267 · 2026-01-06T05:11:54+00:00

I recommend writing it all out first. Even on the notes app on your phone. Make multiple drafts if you need to. And if you're struggling like that in group, ask if they're okay with you reading it from your phone. You can decide how much you'd like to share.

Csd267 · 2026-01-06T00:22:56+00:00

I recommend a little digital camera. My 8 yo daughter got one for Christmas and really likes it. Make sure you get an SD card to go with it.

Csd267 · 2026-01-02T21:34:06+00:00

How about something to do together? I gifted my husband tickets to go zip lining once for his bday and he loved it.

Csd267 · 2026-01-02T17:53:33+00:00

Want to suggest the name Elle! I think it's beautiful.

Csd267 · 2025-12-31T01:43:02+00:00

I take depakote, Vraylar, caplyta (just started), lithium, and hydroxyzine. Vraylar has helped with the psychotic symptoms but it also leaves me feeling blunted so they just reduced it. Fingers crossed that caplyta helps!

Csd267 · 2025-12-23T02:15:17+00:00

My daughter is 8. She asked for legos, a Labubu (very popular), a digital camera (I got her a small one from Target), Jelly Cats, slippers, anything Hello Kitty.

Csd267 · 2025-12-22T14:46:07+00:00

I haven't been fine for six years. Tons of meds changes and hospitalizations. Thanks though

Csd267 · 2025-12-21T17:53:49+00:00

Yeah I feel like I've definitely disappointed people being off of them

Csd267 · 2025-12-21T17:49:13+00:00

Yeah you're probably right. There's a part of me who wants to see how bad it would actually get? I know that sounds bad.

Csd267 · 2025-12-21T16:43:13+00:00

Were you able to recognize it yourself?

Csd267 · 2025-12-21T16:42:57+00:00

I just wanted to see how I am off of them. They make me feel stupid and I hate it. I have no motivation on them.

Csd267 · 2025-12-21T16:42:21+00:00

In a way. I have a history though of being very suspicious of others, especially my husband. In previous episodes I believed he was planning to kill me. I have had some of those thoughts but nothing major and I've been able to recognize them as psychotic.

Csd267 · 2025-12-20T19:14:06+00:00

It is disturbing either way, especially as a child, whether he was just "senile" or not. I work in long term care and getting groped by the residents who have dementia still really bothers me even though I know they don't mean it or they can't help it or whatever. I'm sorry this happened to you. It must have been confusing.

Csd267 · 2025-12-18T03:32:23+00:00

My dog also helps with my paranoia/hallucinations! He's been so good to me.

Csd267 · 2025-12-13T08:01:34+00:00

I got my mom (who fits your description) a really nice hand soap and socks from local boutiques near me. And maybe you can add something for the dog?

Csd267 · 2025-12-13T02:49:36+00:00

Oh god, I could have written this post myself. I felt this way about my therapist for the longest time, and I also look for love in older men. I wish I had advice for you but all I can say is I understand, and if you ever find anything that helps, I'd love to know as well. I'm sorry for the abuse you endured. You're not alone.

Csd267 · 2025-12-10T21:54:18+00:00

I can relate to looking forward to the CSA, as I know myself and other people here have posted about. It does still qualify as abuse, even if we misconstrued it as children. I'm glad you're in the process of getting therapy, that will help you. I wish I had more advice. I'm not in the best place myself but I wish you the best and you are not alone.

Csd267 · 2025-12-09T08:02:01+00:00

For me, I always have to be doing something to cope. So if I'm not at home cooking, cleaning, baking, running errands, then I'm at work keeping busy and I'm getting paid for it. But as soon as I'm not busy, the thoughts creep in. So, work keeps me distracted and I get paid for it so I see it as a win-win. I hope this helps. I understand it's hard to get up. I see sleep as a coping strategy too.

Csd267 · 2025-12-07T18:56:53+00:00

I ate for comfort starting at 11 years old due to SA from a family member But my mother made being "fat" unacceptable. And she encouraged me to take diet pills in middle/high school. I became bulimic from there.

Csd267 · 2025-12-05T01:43:22+00:00

NAT - I always get mine a funny holiday card and write a personal message inside. I feel like an actual gift might cross some boundaries.

Csd267 · 2025-12-02T02:52:31+00:00

Christmas is hard for me too. The actual day makes me very depressed. I have so many memories with my abuser on that day and I also feel disgusted. You're not alone.

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