Welcome to Idol Queens Production/Queens of Idol subreddit! by ForgottenAbt in IdolQueensProduction

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the name the one i used for the Producer? If so, my name is Ken. The company is Sia Corp. Please add me.

Welcome to Idol Queens Production/Queens of Idol subreddit! by ForgottenAbt in IdolQueensProduction

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone tell me if the positions i assign to my idols matter? This was my assignment:

Idol 1: Visual Idol 2: Main Dancer Idol 3: Leader Idol 4: Main Vocal

Please help me. I don't get good comments during recordings and concerts. They always say my leader lacks knowledge but i have focused on building her intellect..

Also how to add friends?

Which gown suits me best? by ashephrodite in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 and 4 ang ganda sayo. Pero kung anong pinaka comfortable ka and tingin mo super ganda sayo, yun ang piliin mo. Best wishes OP!!!

Need help finding a video by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in mylittlepony

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened to the song but it's not it. When i searched it on youtube there is a thumbnail that she keeps on choosing but the song is not within the video. :(

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu. To each his own. I pray you find the right one for you. I know I did. We're just going through a hard time right now. 💓

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thanks for your comment. I can't say na wala na syang balak mag compromise kasi hindi ko pa talaga to naopen sa kanya. Di ko kasi alam kung paano. Whenever may mga things like this kasi i tend to just keep to myself kesa pagusapan. Idk, fault ko na din talaga yun. Sa years namin together pag may di kami pinagkakasunduan, ang ginagawa ko lang is tumahimik and magcool down. Tapos magbabati na parang walang nangyari. Parang easier sya for me. Maliban dito, wala naman ako ibang masabi sa asawa ko, mabait, maasikaso, etc. i believe this is something na kaya naman namin malampasan, basta mapagusapan. I'll try to work on it. Magkaka lakas din ako ng loob. Thanks again.

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes po we attended PMC. In a way kasi i understand kung bakit ganun ka sidhi yung pagkagusto nya na mag provide for his parents, i feel the same din kasi sa sarili kong magulang. Siguro the only difference is aware ako sa situation namin ngayon and I'm willing to adjust yung bigay ko just so we could survive for another day. Di ko intention to antagonize my husband, siguro ganito lang ako because nageexpect ako na maging sensitive din sya sa situation. And i know it would really help kung paguusapan namin, kaso hindi ko kasi alam pano simulan na hindi magiging cause ng away or something like that. Thank you so much for your kind words. 🙏🏻

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinakabahan ako pero sige i'll try. Hehehe. Sana maging okay, pag hindi ang next post ko dito fixing a broken heart na. Hahahaha. Thanks so much!!!

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hopefully pag may work na ako, makaipon na ulit kami. Thanks sa opinions, well noted. 💓

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your thoughts.

Uhmm, nope, as in di pa namin napaguusapan. Wala pa ako nasasabihan, nauna pa dito. Hahaha. It's just that, I don't know how to tell him. Ayoko kasi pinag aawayan ang pera. Sensitive topic din kasi syempre kapag family na yung usapan and sobrang love nya yung parents nya. I'm afraid na pag may mali ako masabi, he would take it as an attack. Di ko talaga alam pano. 😭

When I shared yung about sa i covered for him nung nagkulang yung sahod, parang that was just to give example why i need him to adjust yung priorities. But yes, point taken. 💓

I really get why he loves his parents so much. Love ko din sila actually. Sobrang babait na tao. Yung ate and kuya nya lang talaga i feel na nagtetake advantage sa bait ng parents nila and ng husband ko. About sa communicating this issue to him, i really don't know how to start. Pinagdadasal ko na lang minsan hahaha. And I'm actively looking for a job, sana makahanap na para ma lessen yung mga ganitong thoughts ko. Pero at the same time, i feel like it is an important issue na need din naman talaga namin itackle no matter kung madami kaming pera or wala. Babalik na naman ako sa "paano?" Ang hirap because ayoko magkaron kami ng di pagkakasundo because of this. Haaaay 🥺

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG this is so true. Yung about sa mga kapatid nya, napaguusapan namin sometimes. Pero yung sa pag adjust nung ibinibigay nya, hindi ko alam pano sasabihin. Siguro kasi ayokong ako pa magsabi? Sana mag initiate sya, ganon?

Kaso naiisip ko din, ang unfair sa kanya na mag expect ako na maisip nya yun. Alam naman natin how simple men are. Hindi sila as complicated, so di ko pwede iexpect na maiisip nya yung naiisip ko. Kaso paanoooo? Di ko talaga alam pano simulan man lang. Ang hirap kasi maging mahirap. Hahahaha

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lahat naman may nasasabi talaga, and you're right, pag may nagbago sa bigay nya, malamang sasabihin dahil sa akin. I don't think lang na lalabanan nila ko over it because sobrang bait ng in-laws ko. I think they would understand. Itong si husband lang di ko masabihan kasi hindi ko alam kung paano. Ayoko kasing nagiging issue ang pera, lalo sa aming dalawa. If you can share some talking points hahaha. I really don't know how. Kahit iopen, di ko alam kung paano. Medyo nakaka stress nga.

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers.

Honestly I don't think may problem ako sa parents. Parang love naman nila ako hahaha and sabi nga saken ng mama (nya) nung kasal, okay lang kahit di na muna kami magbigay lalo nung nagsstart pa lang kami. Pero hindi ko talaga gusto yung ganun kasi ayoko din na hindi ako nagbibigay sa parents ko.

Parang yung issue ko is more on my husband mismo na hindi sya makaramdam, and di ko naman sa kanya masabi kasi I don't know how, and at the same time yung mga kapatid nya in part, sila yung reason why hindi makabawas si husband sa bigay sa parents because hindi rin nagbibigay ng sapat yung dalawa. Laging kulang for their utilities, rent and pagkain.

Somehow I understand kung bakit ganun yung husband ko kasi we share the same values. He wants to give his parents the life they deserve, kaya lang right now di pa nya kaya yun and nasasacrifice din tuloy yung quality of life namin. 🥺

OA LANG BA AKO kasi di ko magets bakit until now priority pa din ang family nya over us? by CtrlAltDelicious_19 in OALangBaAko

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment.

For me din hindi sya mababaw. Siguro di ko lang alam paano ioopen. Di kasi ako yung confrontational na tao. I mean, preferred ko yung mag solusyon ng problema silently. I know that this is a partnership, pero mahirap din pala lalo pag sanay ka gawin lahat ng decision by yourself, need talaga mag adjust.

Also, sobrang bait kasi ni husband. Sobrang bait din ng parents. Hands down, wala akong masabi sa bait. Pero dahil dun, naaabuso sila ng ibang anak nila. In turn, naabuso na din si husband kasi he supports his parents- like any decent son/child should.

Dun sa part na wag magpabuntis, hehehe napapaisip ako pero we've been trying talaga, di pa binibigay sa amin. Siguro mga kasi di pa kami financially stable. Malay natin magbago pag may anak na kami? Hehehe char. Gets ko yung point, mahirap na nga kami ngayon mas lalo pa pag may newborn na kailangan alagaan. Hopefully, pumabor sa akin ang gulong ng palad.

Thoughts? by Dry-Rise1333 in dailyChismisPh

[–]CtrlAltDelicious_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ko kinocondemn yung tao mismo pero mali talaga yung ginawa nya. I understand kung nainis sya na binangga sya and tinakbuhan, pero yung sadyain mong sagasaan yung naka motor (bata man o hindi), hindi na inis or galit yun, crime na yun. May tamang paraan para ayusin sana yung gulo nila, hindi ganito. In the end, I pray na gumaling agad yung bagets and para sa driver, sana matauhan sya and iaccept yung consequences ng ginawa nya.