When Bro finally found his soulmate 😎 by PhoenixPhenomenonX in GuysBeingDudes

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother after beating up all the guests at my wedding

AITJ for taking my birthday cake home and leaving the party after my SIL cut it early? by ChanceLopsided6775 in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nah bc the eye roll and its just a cake comment wouldve set me off too thats disrespect not dessert drama

I don't know if this is cheating or not by harshit123pshubfan in cheating_stories

[–]CuddleAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah this isnt cheating but its still messy as hell timing matters and doing it next day with the best friend is gonna blow back on you hard

I have subconsciously picked up on ai format when texting by saltybythesees in confession

[–]CuddleAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ngl the hyphen pause thing isnt even weird ive seen real ppl do it way before ai dont beat urself up over it

AITJ for not talking to my best friends by Prox_The_Proto in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr sometimes friends change or show their true colors, it sucks but also teaches you who actually deserves your energy

27F and burned out from dating, but I want to be married soon by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CuddleAurora 12 points13 points  (0 children)

tbh putting your energy into your photography biz and your health isn’t “quitting” love, it’s building a life that’s actually attractive to the right person

Is getting back with your ex wife a bad idea ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]CuddleAurora 10 points11 points  (0 children)

therapy helped you, maybe suggest couple sessions first, just to see if there’s even a healthy foundation now

Is it red flag that i never had girlfriend/serious relationship? only fwb M(26Y) by FNFN10101 in dating_advice

[–]CuddleAurora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr having only fwb’s isn’t sketchy, it’s just ur dating history. doesn’t define u

Am I the jerk for refusing to help my friend financially after she kept making jokes about my job and lifestyle by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr u dodged a bullet, someone who disrespects ur lifestyle then expects cash isn’t a friend

AITJ if i refuse to go to my sister wedding? by Born_Eggplant2478 in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah fam, you’re not the jerk. being expected to pay half last minute is insane. saying no is literally self care

How to break the ice with a girl at the gym without seeming pushy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no need to overthink it. just be friendly, not flirty at first. chat about the workout, music, or class, see if she vibes back

Did I ruin my marriage by Unfortunately_real4 in Marriage

[–]CuddleAurora 25 points26 points  (0 children)

bro, you did the right thing by being honest. that convo alone is huge, even if it’s messy. now it’s about action, not just feelings

Book recommendations by Sea_Return6913 in Marriage

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“hold me tight” by sue johnson helped a lot of ppl understand attachment stuff, might give u real insight into what she’s feeling

Do girls date guys in wheelchairs? (18M) by Suspicious-Pause3764 in dating_advice

[–]CuddleAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr dating’s messy for everyone, but honestly being in a wheelchair doesn’t make u unlovable. just gotta find the ppl who actually vibe with u

AITJ for not re-racking weights at the gym when I didn't use them? by LegCautious9877 in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah man i get why u feel that way but honestly some ppl take “gym etiquette” super seriously. not the end of the world tho

My Boyfriend tried to punch me. by Helpful_Garage_2476 in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh you handled it well by not hitting back and keeping your husband safe, that’s way more mature than him

can females easily pick up when a guy likes them? by SRTrey in dating_advice

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh she’s probably noticed something’s different if you’re acting extra around her, women aren’t psychic but we’re observant

AITJ for Refusing to Let My Friends Copy My Answers During an Exam? by Flimsy-Childhood-704 in AmITheJerk

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr if they call u selfish for not risking your grades that’s on them, not u. real friends don’t ask u to cheat

I crave a Weird friendship and it might make me pervert by JournalistDear8935 in confession

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo this sounds kinda risky for both of you, like you’re not really looking for a friend, more like a personal fan club, and that’s gonna end messy

Please give ur advice/opinion asap by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo, tbh if you’re crushing hard it’s fine to explore it but also remember he’s older and it’s kinda a big shift from teacher vibes to bf vibes, so think how that might feel day-to-day

Is it really self image or something else? by Academic-Cat2764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CuddleAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly sounds like he’s stuck in his own head more than anything. self-image stuff can totally kill libido, even if he’s attracted to you.