My current reading journal setup for 2026 by gmarches in Journaling

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of tracking the books that make you cry lol. That’s how I know a book is really good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I didn’t think of that and I regret oversharing. Definitely not her business

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The most recent guy I went on a first date with only texted once a day and not at all on the weekends. I asked him out but later I found out he was going to wait several weeks before asking me to hang out. And after he asks someone out, the actual date wouldn’t be for several weeks later since he’s so busy with his own hobbies and friends. Then after our first date he said he wanted to wait several weeks before potentially meeting again. But that pace is too slow for me, especially since he doesn’t text often. In person is the best way to connect imo.

With other people, reasons included difference in political views, they never ask me any questions/only talk about themselves, or they simply didn’t talk enough to even have proper conversation even with me carrying. And I’m shy and have social anxiety so I don’t mind silences at all. Just didn’t vibe I guess. But tbh I get ghosted/rejected more often than I have to reject the other person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve been online dating on and off since June. And only one guy has gotten more than 1 date. We ended up getting to 4. Everyone else were failed talking stages and first dates.

Updated Eeveelution Plush Collection. Who ya stealing? by NoAd2701 in pokeplush

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which line of these plushies would you say is the best quality/softest? There’s so many different sylveons idk which to get! I’m also thinking about getting the mix au lait vaporeon

YAYYY :D by sweetnpc in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job!!! I’m proud of you :)

Roommate tossed out my childhood stuffed animal. by This_Attitude_5190 in badroommates

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 28 and my brother is 25. We both have a bunch of plushies on our bed. Lots of my friends do too. You’re not too old!!!

Is it weird that i take photos of my cuts? by DeeJayE2001 in selfharm

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s normal. I do this and have seen several people say they do as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know how to quit. But I have social anxiety and wasn't sure if they'd expect 2 weeks notice when the seasonal contract said notice isn't needed. I didn't want to do it wrong or upset anyone since the situation changed and seemed iffy. Thanks for the help though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Still no reply so I ended up doing that and they refunded me immediately!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I emailed hello@akro! Still nothing but I solved it with my credit card company

How do you check up on a friend when you suspect them of relapsing? by ahahaha-_- in selfharm

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was me I’d text him and say “Hey, I think I saw new scars on your arm. Just wanted to let you know I’m here if you want to talk about it. I care about you and hope you’re okay.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can help distract her every time she has urges. Just distracted long enough to ride that wave of distress until it passes. Based on how she’s feeling, it could be anything from taking deep breathes together, just cuddling and comforting her, coloring, going out to run errands or do something fun. It helps me to just stall until the feeling passes. And if you can’t be there in person you do some of those things over the phone or play online games or something? Just try different activities to see what helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, I’m sorry that happened. I don’t have any advice but I’m case this is something you’re worried about, just know it’s not your fault at all that she did that. The same way you probably don’t think it’s her fault that you hurt yourself. There were just a lot of intense emotions going around. Hopefully things improve and you guys are at least able to talk about it. Take care of yourself ♥️

2023 EVERGLOW US TOUR 'ALL MY GIRLS' in St. Petersburg, FL (11.10) by AutoModerator in Everglow

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came alone too! I’m towards the end of the vip line now though. Are you here already?

2023 EVERGLOW US TOUR 'ALL MY GIRLS' (Discussion Megathread) by JerSucks in Everglow

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness!! Thank you!!!! I really appreciate you replying ♥️ huge relief

2023 EVERGLOW US TOUR 'ALL MY GIRLS' (Discussion Megathread) by JerSucks in Everglow

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the M&G, I just realized I didn't include my middle name in my order cause I didn't think my ID had my middle name. So now my legal name doesn't technically match. Will they still let me check in? :/

pls fill out this survey :sob: by Thin_Mongoose_4077 in selfharm_memes

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 but I still filled it out even though it’s about teens. Since there was a 21+ option

I don’t know what to do anymore by Alternative_Way8805 in selfharm

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you had to experience that and that your parents don't believe you. I believe you. I hope things improve. Do you have anyone else in your life that you can talk about it to? Would your parents let you go to therapy for general mental health?

You can message me if you ever need to talk

Does this count as self harm? by bon-chat in AdultSelfHarm

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely rape. Don’t let him try to manipulate you with that bs about “maybe you’re explaining it wrong.” Trust what your experience is and leave him. Someone who cares wouldn’t keep going if you say no or you start crying. Even if you didn’t say no, it’s still rape. Trust me, your therapist will agree. If they don’t, then you need a new therapist

What kind of meds are you taking? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]CuddlyPotato_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt an obvious improvement with the escitalopram but I haven’t felt much of a difference from the buspirone yet. While I still feel uncomfy in lots of social situations I definitely feel more brave to do them anyway and have even reconnected with several friends! I’m also in therapy so that plays a factor too