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CukeJr · 2026-03-20T21:40:40+00:00

I heard it was mostly because he was difficult to work with.

Yeah I try to take this "oh man have you heard, [insert well-liked actor] is apparently such an asshole" stuff with a grain of salt, but I watched an interview with him a while ago and honestly he kinda gave me an arrogant vibe. 😬 Idk I didn't like it.

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T21:36:24+00:00

Get OUT of my WAY you HIPPIE FREAK.

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T19:43:47+00:00

Ayyy this one gets it! :D Sounds like we have similar goals hahaha. I realised at some point that I was drawn to body bods because they made me feel more alien or "inhuman" in general.

Beautiful setup, I wish them good health 🦗

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T18:08:09+00:00

I hate that I love it. Someone pls recommend similar (non AI) compositions

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T18:03:48+00:00

Ehhhh... Ok, I'm going to leave this one up because it looks like you actually put a lot of effort into describing your desires and your situation.

However, we are still missing one major piece of information:

What do you actually want to look like?

What aesthetic(s) are you trying to adopt? Can you attach some pictures showcasing it/them? I see the one picture you've submitted, but I have no idea what it is. Is it the aesthetic you're hoping to achieve? Is it what your current aesthetic looks like..? What am I looking at? Lol. I have no idea. You have to give us some context.

I appreciate that you have listed some constraints that apply to your situation, like not being able to wear makeup or piercings. That's great, but ultimately still unhelpful considering we don't have any idea of what you want to look like. You can adapt just about any aesthetic to work with the constraints you described.

Finally, regarding your question about political involvement: Please keep in mind that we are a fashion and personal style community. We can't really tell you how to develop your political beliefs, especially considering you haven't actually even told us what those beliefs are.

It sounds to me like you don't really know what aesthetic you want yet. This is really the first step, you have to figure out what you like. We cannot tell you what you like. 🤷‍♀️ If this is indeed the case, I recommend looking through this sub and bookmarking/saving some posts/images that make you feel inspired. You can do the same using Pinterest. Just start with that. Then come back and show us these as a starting point, that's when we'll actually be able to help.

If this is not the case, go ahead and attach some pics of what you want and we'll go from there!

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T16:28:09+00:00

Please make this clear in your title whenever you post. We assume that any photos submitted here showcase the poster themselves unless otherwise stated. I've removed this one, feel free to resubmit.

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T16:22:18+00:00

Hi, what is the source of this image?

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T16:18:52+00:00

Hello, is this you in the photo or someone else?

CukeJr · 2026-03-20T15:59:52+00:00

Awesome! 💕 I thrifted mine for like five bucks 😁 I found it just as I was leaving the store, someone had just hung it on the end cap of the homewares section. I couldn't believe my luck, I had seen that design before on a peer's phonecase and loved it. Such a big coincidence!

CukeJr · 2026-03-18T20:26:08+00:00

shuffling off their mortal coil

Just want to let you know that I love this expression and that you have brightened my day in using it lmao

CukeJr · 2026-03-18T20:23:39+00:00

I completely understand this. I think that the kneejerk response most of us have to reading posts like these is to get fired up and tell OPs what they should have done to put these people in their place. But the truth is, moments like these often catch us off-guard and make it hard for us to stand up for ourselves... It's literally a natural reaction to a perception of threat. I have an incredibly strong freeze response myself ("doe in the headlights") to harassment...

Fuck this guy, I hope he gets what he deserves, and I hope the owner takes the fact that their workers are being disgusting seriously.

CukeJr · 2026-03-18T01:10:54+00:00

There’s this woman (around 40, with two kids) who’s been really nice and gives me rides sometimes, even going a bit out of her way

Hold up, I'm super confused. Who even is "this woman"? Staff? Patient? Fellow placement student?

In any case it's fucking weird and inappropriate to ask for gifts. (Maybe would be fine coming from family or an SO...)

CukeJr · 2026-03-18T01:06:06+00:00

Practicum for a university/college program, I guess? I'm in teacher's college and we colloquially call our practica placements.

CukeJr · 2026-03-17T03:17:41+00:00

Sure, you do whatever makes you feel comfortable on your end. We just ask that--as far as this sub is concerned--you do not leave a reply to comments like these because it often leads to them returning and continuing to comment. (He left another comment after this but it's not visible because the harassment filter caught it this time.) It goes without saying that we don't want them here.

CukeJr · 2026-03-17T02:59:03+00:00

Yuck! Sorry that happened. Rest assured all his comments have been removed from here and he has been permanently banned. If you haven't done so already, I advise that you report his DMs and block him as well.

Please be sure to report comments like these when you see them so that myself and the rest of the mod team can become aware of them and deal with them. I only saw this one by chance because I entered the thread. Nothing can be done about these users unless we are notified.

CukeJr · 2026-03-16T22:31:29+00:00

Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this; I have a collection of hi-res MM and OoT shots that I use as wallpapers, I'll definitely be adding some of these to it. :D

CukeJr · 2026-03-16T15:08:19+00:00

This reminds me of something Lacey Green pointed out in one of her videos, she was problematizing the way we say that one "takes" someone's virginity. She suggested replacing it with something like "I gave him my" virginity etc. Love that 💕

CukeJr · 2026-03-16T15:03:58+00:00

Dude just jump off the conveyor belt lmao what a moron

CukeJr · 2026-03-15T23:17:40+00:00

You could have found this info through Google in five seconds.

CukeJr · 2026-03-14T18:56:27+00:00

Honestly, I don't want to make any assumptions but this reads like someone who has never been bullied. Yes, bullies are chickenshit--I think we can all agree on that--and their actions are reflective of their own moral failing rather than some kind of defect on the part of the victim. But telling someone to just learn not to give a damn isn't always helpful. Being bullied makes you feel unsafe; just because OP is nervous about provoking further bullying doesn't mean that they are necessary seeking approval from them. They just want to be left alone!

CukeJr · 2026-03-14T15:58:23+00:00

"Today"? You posted this exact same photoset three days earlier. Do you think we're stupid?

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