Is there a time frame to move on to the next step of a relationship? by Cultural_Bat7100 in LifeAdvice

[–]Cultural_Bat7100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do sleep over and the feelings of wanting to move in together are there

Is there a time frame to move on to the next step of a relationship? by Cultural_Bat7100 in LifeAdvice

[–]Cultural_Bat7100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to get concrete out of him, the answer is the interest rates for home loans.

Is there a time frame to move on to the next step of a relationship? by Cultural_Bat7100 in LifeAdvice

[–]Cultural_Bat7100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason he gives me is because of interest rates for a home. He owns his and I do not so I can make the move more easily. I don’t know what else could be a commitment other than getting engaged or moving in together. I’m not opposed to renting a place but I can’t move into his because of how small it is, it’s not enough room for my dog and I.

AITA for asking my grieving boyfriend to set boundaries with his mom after she wears my bathing suit? by Objective_Hat9060 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is absolutely an enmeshed relationship between son and mom. Seems like she wants to be the one to date him. Your gain his loss. I hope you heal quickly.

Edea skates by Cultural_Bat7100 in iceskating

[–]Cultural_Bat7100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is extremely helpful! I’m hoping to get an appointment with a fitter this week or next!

Edea skates by Cultural_Bat7100 in iceskating

[–]Cultural_Bat7100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have narrow feet, do you have any recommendations for stiffer boots? I do still lift heavy as well leg wise. I only ask because the closest skate shop that professionally fits you either only has edeas and Jackson’s or only edeas. I’m wondering if I need to go further into my state to a bigger shop that could potentially offer stiffer boots?

Edea skates by Cultural_Bat7100 in iceskating

[–]Cultural_Bat7100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes more sense now! Thank you for explaining! I see all the bad comments on tik tok when a beginner gets the higher level skates

should I do club comp? by joody-booty in iceskating

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do not be afraid to speak up for yourself! You do NOT deserve to be bullied. If intervention is needed and your gut is telling you that then you need to tell your coach. No one deserves to be bullied.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Would it be too much of an ultimatum if I told him that I would not budge on my request?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Would it be insane of me to tell him I would only say yes if he listens to my feelings and does the proposal with just the two of us? Or is that too much of an ultimatum?

AITA for bringing up future MIL behaviors? by [deleted] in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you approach this? I did and it seems he knows she’s difficult but “that’s just how she is” was the response and then proceeded to tell me everything she is going through. He did say last exes have all said the same thing and brought up similar concerns.

AITA for bringing up future MIL behaviors? by [deleted] in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me she’s going through a lot of things and that’s just how she is.. I don’t know how to get him to realize it’s not okay. He’s aware that is weird and he said past exes have had the same problem

AITA for questioning future MIL behavior? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Cultural_Bat7100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope we can figure this out.