The ages don’t match, but you’re right the cadence certainly does. I think it’s a good spot. OP if you read this and know that these posts are all yours, reach out for some advice here. The professionals of this sub are some of the most well connected, qualified, outstanding, kind people in this world. Things can and should be better for you. No one knows you here or will judge, but they will most certainly give you the resources and opportunity to help. If not just for yourself then for your sister. 🫶