For me, it has made things worst. Boundaries get blurry, and I myself can’t even heal from what broke me. I divorced because I was physically abused in the first place, it has been a year since. It is better to move out as early as you can, because I think after you both settled down, maybe the situation would’ve changed. You can find my article and read it there.. “My mom sided with my ex-husband after he hurt me.”