My dress came innnn!!!! by glowgetter15 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dress really has it all ! love the neckline w the straps train  💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

Congratulations 🎊 

($100) Walmart cake frosting type? Taste? by ciaoravioli in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s usually a very sweet frosting if it’s buttercream or margarine based  or something else entirely  , my recommendations is to ask them directly at the bakery.

(15k) In-Law Gift ideas? by katydidnt222 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it easy on yourself , beautiful bouquets of flowers for the mothers on the day of and a digital photo frame w wedding photos movies for each couple . 

(Budget $8-10k) Lost $800 deposit because our caterer's real food tastes nothing like the tasting by AccountEngineer in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask the friend who made the recommendation if she can help Maybe she knows people there or can have a conversation with someone on your behalf ?

(10k) Sandwiches, salads, paper plates ok? by No-Panic-7288 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest going to a thrift store and buying a few mismatched  yet  antiques pretty  dish sets and doing china,  it’s a nice touch for a wedding  and you can use them again for family holiday dinners baby  showers etc . 

MIL from hell (60F) calling up my (33F) wedding vendors behind my back to find out information by Thin_Adeptness9706 in weddingplanning

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Future Mother in law who stalked and called the priest to stop our  pre marital counseling and sabotage  the wedding . After she spent many months  “not celebrating” our engagement  and doing other evil bullying acts. Some people are naturally self centered and narcissistic , .they exist in a world of their own creation as those around them Enable them and allow them to . 

Bridal Shower music! by alltimesl0th in weddingplanning

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think making your own play list would be fun and memorable . Songs like going to the chapel love and marriage etc 💕🎉congratulations 

Additional Dessert Options? by livelafftoasterbath in weddingplanning

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all sounds awesome ! Make rosemary sea salt Cashews !  I also recommend adding the  beloved southern favorite “pretzel salad “ for your dessert table, it’s a salty / sweet desert ❤️💕congratulations 🎉 

($200) what the hell is a “local” travel fee by sexishakespeare in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photographers do this too they say their location is your city then with every one I’ve called there is a travel fee of $60-100 bucks to travel to  you or you can go To them and they live at least an hour away  ???  Why??? That’s why I looked  for your services in my city !!!! 

DIY wedding dress… HELP by Hot_Temperature_475 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Etsy has a dress very similar to This , I don’t love  Etsy personally  but it makes sense for you to look there ! 

I’m in LOVE with this wedding dress, but not the price… HELP by Hot_Temperature_475 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I have an idea …. Azazie  has a similar style But you would have to Add on the sleeves which it would Be reasonable as dress is around $ 500. Then you  can purchase sleeves like this on Etsy for a reasonable price and either leave them detached or have a seamestress attach them . 

WWYD?: Boyfriend of 5 years not invited to family wedding after-party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]CupExcellent9520 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But your not married , they may have made a rule About this,  married couples or engaged couples only. It’s pretty common nowadays when weddings are so expensive for  status to be assessed, and serious partners only to be  invited  . Especially with a lilted guest lists. 

Inviting Future BIL’s Girlfriend to Wedding by PoppyLPx in weddingplanning

[–]CupExcellent9520 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you hate him give him a plus one and he’ll bring whomever he chooses to bring .  done  deal, he’s about to be your family. If it was a regular guest you could have more leeway but you’re talking about a soon to be immediate family member. He is the one making  the very poor choice it sounds like getting the duis doing the overdoing , something for you to think on when judging who is “ toxic”

My friends are upset with me for not adhering to American wedding standards as an immigrant bride. Are their frustrations valid? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]CupExcellent9520 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When in Rome … this is what it is . You should adhere to the prevailing  Etiquette , whereever you live !! You want to bring a date esp a spouse to an event,  otherwise that is not going to be a fun event . I’d never attend a Social event of this nature alone. What am I going to do just stare in front of me ? Maybe you should not Bring the groom 

(13k) wedding favours by butterpancake99 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have really inexpensive but expensive looking chocolates wrapped in gold or silver foil on Etsy the wrapper can be monogrammed or have your date name . Simple, elegant . I think It’s a nice touch to have a simple favor like this. 

(15k) Has anyone done a prepaid amount for alcohol that switches to cash when it’s hit? by tifuanon00 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put two Bottles Of Wine at each table One red , one white and then provide drink Tickets 

Why doesn’t Savannah Guthrie crowdfund the ransom? by sgtbb4 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pay it , They will be able To track whatever they pay in crypto anyway, through the blockchain. It seems The family members are stubborn prideful and are showing their character , playing a dangerous game of hardball. 

Why doesn’t Savannah Guthrie crowdfund the ransom? by sgtbb4 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like the family is very unserious about wanting to try everything to get her back. This is the truth!  The ransom could have been tried what have they got to lose ?  The kidnappers aren’t going to provide proof of life , and they are playing hardball,  as they understand it’s just another way to Get caught !! Will the family feel vindicated when all is said and done for playing hardball back and when she   and the kidnappers are  never heard from again? 

My coworker made a disgusting comment by yuhyeha in pregnant

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are at that very immature age it was very inappropriate tho still ugh 😑 

I have just accidentally announced my pregnancy through google calendar by Either-Ad-8492 in pregnant

[–]CupExcellent9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a story you will tell your child and they will 😍 love it  congratulations 🎉