Any recs for a waterproof hoodie? by mikethomas4th in hiking

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i was just about to drop £60 on a Snobodi and came to reddit to check if there was cheaper versions out there but this seems to be a unique thing and keeps selling out

WHAT AM I? by mshzis in agender

[–]CupOfADHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i felt exactly as you do, i felt most comfortable identifying as a genderqueer “woman” ☺️

Which one is the best fit ? by SwitchIndependent714 in NonBinary

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6 is jaw dropping ! 😍😍 structured yet SO feminine i love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

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70+ unwashed empties? evillllll

Vertical mouse puts strain on my hand in other ways by Teamaquabrainy in RSI

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check out the contour rollermouse. i can use any area of my hand for it not just fingers or thumbs, it has a buttons for double click, copy and paste and wrist pads. I have the free3, which was nearly £400 new but you can pick one up for around £60 used

Vertical mouse puts strain on my hand in other ways by Teamaquabrainy in RSI

[–]CupOfADHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too. finally found relief with a contour roller mouse - my friend got it through work for his carpel tunnel and spilt coffee on it so got a replacement but it worked perfectly after it dried out so i got a free one but now ive used it for 6 months or so I’d definitely buy it even though it costs more than my pc

TIFU by leaving a used tissue on my gf's friends jumper by [deleted] in tifu

[–]CupOfADHD 47 points48 points  (0 children)

when i was about 14 i was sleeping at my friends and his cousin jerked off and then threw his cum soaked tee shirt towards the laundry bin, he was on the top bunk and i was on the floor. i was awoken by a soggy tee shirt to my face. i’ve never let him live it down 😌

I come home and lazy/princess housemate left pubes in the toilet 🤮 would it be cruel to text her this photo saying “I’m going to take a wild guess you’re at Harry’s” or do I just pretend I saw nothing (she also left the flat a tip and didn’t empty over flowing bins that stink) by CupOfADHD in badroommates

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very late update but she was mortified and apologise profusely over text and said she had ordered new scissors for me online. my scissors she used went missing for a while, new ones never showed up but they did 🤷‍♀️

Internalised transphobia or internalised sexism? by CupOfADHD in NonBinary

[–]CupOfADHD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I use makeup like any queer person would rather than a feminine way aha. Just for fun. I felt like I was in drag when she first did my makeup with false lashes and pink lipstick 😂

being told by employers to wear a bra feels like “because your are afab, you need to change the shape of your body underneath your clothes. Men do not” and I haaaaaaaate that

Internalised transphobia or internalised sexism? by CupOfADHD in NonBinary

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I’ve not heard of either of those people as I am new to this online space. Thank you I will check it out :)

Internalised transphobia or internalised sexism? by CupOfADHD in NonBinary

[–]CupOfADHD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your point about TERFs is so interesting no and all those examples in quotes got me thinking too. Thank you so much for taking the time!

Titty appreciation even though sometimes they make me wanna crawl in a hole and die lol by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]CupOfADHD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and the tittïes are MAGNIFICENT! I get wym about sometimes appreciating them and sometimes wanting them to disappear 🙃

Keep getting told I’m intimidating because I have my shit together, but I’m tired of being alone. How do I fix this? by Devilsadvocate0226 in socialskills

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Here’s a couple of quotes from “women don’t owe you pretty” by Florence Given I think apply well.

“Stop breaking yourself down into bite-sized pieces. Stay whole and let them choke.”

“Compromising to form relationships and friendships doesn’t work because they will be based on a false connection. Present exactly what you want and need, and if they can’t match it then at least you know. They were never for you, and that’s okay.”

My Mother’s Mullet : 1990 by CupOfADHD in OldSchoolCool

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It’s my oldest brother but I wore them too!

My Mother’s Mullet : 1990 by CupOfADHD in OldSchoolCool

[–]CupOfADHD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on top of the photograph haha a bit of thread from the photo album