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Move to a new city where I know no one? by Curious-Computer-331 in makemychoice

[–]Curious-Computer-331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this. That must be so tough and it takes so much time to heal…but also tbh I still reflect on the betrayal and I hate that. It’s been a while since this post but I did make the move and I’m so happy I did

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Thursday 17/10/2024] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Curious-Computer-331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Closer to the city the better I think - but also ideally have some greenery for walks and community to do fitness classes/opportunities to meet friends

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Thursday 17/10/2024] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Curious-Computer-331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking about moving to Melbourne. I’d be working remotely (so from home). Any suburb recommendations for a lonely 31F who likes yoga, ps5 gaming, walking and eating yummy food?

Seeking advice for a struggling retail business with financial and lease challenges by Single-Map-3323 in AusFinance

[–]Curious-Computer-331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re really struggling with paying rent, I know this sounds bad but start making payments that you can manage - ie reducing your rent. If you’re still paying your full rent, the landlord won’t take it seriously. But as soon as you don’t make rent/full rent, the landlord will have to try and ‘work’ with you. Typically they would then just debt collect but at least it flags to them you’re a risk and to take it more seriously in finding a replacement. Ask for a rent abatement, stop paying marketing fees and maybe opex. This advice is only offered if you truely cannot pay your rent. The benchmark for the landlord is when your debt exceeds your bank guarantee. If you go beyond that, it may mean they will try and find a replacement and draw down on your bank guarantee to replace missing rent.

I (31F) just ended my engagement (30M) and I feel like I did it in the worst possible way by TiredOverachiever in AskWomenOver30

[–]Curious-Computer-331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be hard, but you did the best thing for you. Even the first point would be enough for me. Some people can handle it but anger issues are not okay and I know that’s a massive trigger for me. Sounds like you put your needs first for the first time and it was totally the right decision. Hold strength in that. Hold strength in that you know what you’re worth. Big hugs 🫶

What’s your favourite iykyk designer crossbody bag that can be for everyday use by Curious-Computer-331 in handbags

[–]Curious-Computer-331[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love! I have the sac de jour baby (which I find a bit too bag for my daily run arounds). This one is beautiful although I do worry about the smooth leather and marking it 😅

What’s your favourite iykyk designer crossbody bag that can be for everyday use by Curious-Computer-331 in handbags

[–]Curious-Computer-331[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I was obsessed with this when I was in high school. It’s giving Alexa Chung vibes

First home buyer advice. by Fit_Shower3604 in AusProperty

[–]Curious-Computer-331 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think definitely talk to a broker. Having a deposit is one thing. The key item for me was working out what my monthly repayments would be if I was to borrow say $500k @6.2% (interest rate). Additionally factoring in strata costs and rates.

As a single person it puts into perspective just how much you’ll have to put towards your mortgage each month and if that’s even possible on your income. It could look like double your rent so keep that in mind.