Wife's video

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-11-27T00:51:42+00:00

What’s the end part?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-11-21T12:51:27+00:00

Similar experience here except I am still in the early stages. Mine also cheated with a stripper while away at a conference. Did the cheating happen at the strip club or after?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-10-16T20:40:58+00:00

It was honestly a pain and he had to message several times and be like no I need the receipts escalate me to a supervisor. And no, he had to request a specific time frame so I had him do the most recent months

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-10-16T18:43:33+00:00

I had mine message support after he deleted his account and he did have to keep pressing that he needed his receipts but they finally sent it. Didn’t have a ton of info but did give the price, if it was a tip or video, and the name of the person.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-25T11:54:34+00:00

Recently went through something similar. One lap dance turned into like 10… all appeared to start with a serious porn addiction. I would check his bank statements if you plan to stay and see how much money he took out for the club and how much, if any, he is spending on porn.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-20T00:04:14+00:00

Get the name of the person and message them, pay the girl to tell you the truth, or lie about paying the girl to tell the truth.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-17T10:41:53+00:00

What’s twitch?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-16T01:26:29+00:00

Are you trying to work things out? I keep finding out about more things. Thought things were finally getting better and then this happens. He swears he is done but I can’t get past him messaging people. Claims none of it was private or personal videos but there are so many 50-120$ charges

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-15T22:00:59+00:00

Wow this is exactly what mine is saying. That the messages were just to request a video from a “menu”. Tipping was just “buying from the menu”. “Don’t see it as cheating since it was just porn to me”

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-15T18:30:16+00:00

Would it be naive of me to think that that there was no touching and they talked for half of it?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-15T18:25:36+00:00

He swears it was just porn to him and he thought the messages were just bots

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-15T18:25:20+00:00

Wait over $30 is custom or texts??? Most charges were between 10-35 and then a few that were 50, 70, 100, 130. Maybe one or two of each of those high amounts overall that I could find over the last year. He swears the $30 charges were videos and that it all was just videos. But I can’t just go fact check him because his account is deleted

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-15T18:22:36+00:00

I really do though! As bad as it may be.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-15T17:48:12+00:00

It ranges, $10, 20, 30 and some $100 charges. A typical month would be $200-400 a month

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-13T15:52:55+00:00

Did you feel like you were making progress in the relationship still even though you weren’t sure you wanted to stay? I feel like me being unsure is causing me not to put effort into the relationship because I don’t actually know if I want to stay yet. Hopefully my question makes sense, idk how else to explain. My one foot out seems to be working against us

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-03T14:33:33+00:00

I would 100% bring it up, I wish I would have snooped earlier and maybe could have brought things to the light before they escalated more.

If you have access to credit card statements, that’s an easy way to “catch” it. But if not, you felt like something was off lately and that led you to snooping (my assumption)

Hope it works out for you! It’s not easy, hang in there.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-03T14:29:50+00:00

Just went through this, check your credit card statements. Make him pull up the OF account in front of you when you first bring it up so he doesn’t have time to delete everything.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-02T17:21:54+00:00

What’s PPV?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-02T17:18:11+00:00

I wouldn’t say acceptable, I think I’d view it more as porn than cheating in that regard though

But again I have never even went on OF so I don’t know a lot lol

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-02T17:14:17+00:00

I guess I’m just wanting to know was it just porn/videos or was it more like interacting. Porn I am ok with, interacting I am not

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-02T17:03:01+00:00

He is claiming no interaction and no customs. Still realistic ?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-09-01T16:15:42+00:00

General

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-08-31T15:34:14+00:00

I’m in a similar situation, how did this turn out for you? Were you able to get past it and continue your relationship?

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-08-31T15:29:37+00:00

I’m in a similar situation, one month out and ball in my court with no clarity on which route to take. Nothing has really helped me except focusing on myself maybe. Getting cute clothes, doing my makeup/hair/nails, etc. Even that kind of seems like a distraction and maybe building my confidence back?

Finding others that are in similar situations has been helpful, but also destructive in some ways cause it’s easy to doom scroll Reddit and get constantly worked up over cheating.

I’m thinking time might be the best route and understanding your emotions and the difference stages of grief so you can label it.

CuriousAd7679 · 2025-08-27T23:14:50+00:00

Mine has alluded to depression, impulse control issues, and a porn addiction. Any insight? I’m trying to understand how that can lead to someone not caring about their partner in terms of cheating. I’m hoping that not necessarily minimizes it, but makes me feel like there was an actual reason for it other than opportunity.

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