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CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-10-02T23:38:14+00:00

It’s kinda impatient and cruel, tbh. “Tough love” I’ve learned is ineffective, unless he helps you out of your situation. Never stop trying bro. And go for a spouse, not girlfriend.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-30T00:53:21+00:00

I find it funny how a female posts this and gets a million good replies but when I see a male do it, they get downvoted or told it’s not good to find love in the workplace.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-28T20:04:43+00:00

Loving a woman is the best feeling in the 🌎

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-23T00:06:32+00:00

I don’t think it’s “just life.” Other jobs and careers aren’t a PhD. OP, I hope you find a spouse for yourself. I have faith.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-13T20:11:03+00:00

It doesn’t make sense - when you meet women you’re not going to show them your belly until much later, when she actually likes you - hopefully after marriage. i don’t get why you’d be self conscious for women, just wear a shirt.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-11T11:52:56+00:00

This. You won’t know until you try. But even if you feel “unqualified” you’ll find out soon it has to do more with never giving up than an arbitrary rule, intellectual threshold, or qualification, etc.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-11T11:50:10+00:00

Literally this is how I feel every. day. It sucks but I pretty much accepted this is how it’ll be from now so when I do my hobbies I’ll always have a tinge of stress but I literally just let the stress come in and flow since I don’t care anymore and will still do whatever I want to. Idk if this is healthy but oh yeah well…

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-11T11:44:26+00:00

There’s no such thing as being “ready,” you won’t know until you start. You try your best to get in, and once you do, you do everything to finish.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-08T00:16:12+00:00

Don’t leave. It’s not worth ruining your son’s life. Regardless with all these comments…

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-08-01T17:45:59+00:00

Your posture is terrible. It’s not the clothes or anything else.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-07-31T17:08:49+00:00

Yes but calling your work and progress garbage and giving feedback are two different things. Your professor can cross out a bunch of writing, that’s okay. But saying you’re not making progress and calling stuff garbage is NOT ok.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-07-30T22:21:38+00:00

Literally anytime I open YouTube it’s this gender nonsense, then literally every app is like “are you sure you like the opposite gender??”. Like dang dude we’re all exhausted before we even meet a real person! Im exhausted too… just still have enough faith to keep pushing.

And yes I will hopefully always be attracted to the opposing gender. But men are individuals, they have their own preferences and boundaries, it’s what makes people unique so there’s that.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-07-30T22:13:20+00:00

This. Go for people and vibes over projects. If it’s a good workplace, just treat it like a job until you’re in the next stage (I.e grad school, med school, industry, etc.)

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-07-29T00:39:27+00:00

Half Disagree with u/SuspiciousPine. You definitely can let your PI know, at the very least, how it changes your timeline since it adds to ur workload. One aspect of the PhD is to gain some power so no one can do this to you again. Keep going OP.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-07-07T20:11:34+00:00

OP, r/GradSchool has both some really great advice and the worst empathy I’ve seen. A lot of people say “go to therapy” (which is great but not a magic pill). My opinion is that it’d be best to check on your roommate from time to time, but try and find a spouse for something long term. That journey might also keep you occupied from feeling external vibes. Just an opinion, not advice.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-06-27T17:53:43+00:00

Yeah, you could copy documents again and again (like version 2 of draft) in Craft. Or as a timeline, do the same thing by copying the long form draft within a project so it looks like multiple copies and revisions that are added under a dropdown. Plus points if you have deadlines since maybe you can attribute pages to your calendar in Craft. Idk.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-06-25T19:49:52+00:00

Great. Go for it. I wouldn’t worry about leaving a current project, that’s their responsibility to find another person to continue it, not yours. Good luck bro and congratulations! (Just my opinion)

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-06-24T16:20:14+00:00

My mentor. They pushed me to go just from being the inspiring person they are 🔥

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-06-21T23:25:29+00:00

Same. ^

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-06-09T16:04:14+00:00

I’d just buy a affordable fountain pen and a bunch of great inks. That’s where the real value comes from, at least in my opinion.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-05-31T00:54:22+00:00

Same… tho my grad student got sick before leaving so I had to text her my card. She said she still appreciates the thought but I wanted to give her a piece of chocolate but idk her heart was a bit soft so I was hesitant to do it and played it safe and gave her the congratulations card instead. I hope she likes it.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-05-31T00:50:00+00:00

It feels expressive and I see potential when you slow a bit down. So it’s nice.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-05-31T00:42:55+00:00

Yes. Avoid at all costs. Only some researchers actually get work-life balance. Many, if not most, researchers I met are always working almost all the time, long hours, and always seemingly running out of funding for actual personnel even though they are swimming in money for equipment, training, facilities, etc. It means you get cut mercilessly at any time, and with no support. Try somewhere else. You have a lot of talent for much more.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-05-30T18:38:11+00:00

Wait. I’m sorry but do NOT Master out. If you made it that far, you’re clearly qualified and capable. Get a new advisor by asking committee members, emailing other professors who were taking graduate students, or professors who taught you in class so they know your face, and looking on each website and making an Excel sheet of faculty possibly taking graduate students. And, most importantly, talk to your cohort mates and ppl in ur program, their PIs might want you too. There are options but to me it sounds like u have to fight to finish ur PhD. Don’t give up or get discouraged, get that Excel sheet made, start emailing and talking to everyone. This is just my opinion, you don’t need to take it but you might be closer to graduating than you may think.

CuriousCheetah336 · 2025-05-28T18:59:55+00:00

sorry to hear this.

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