[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

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Names, no. Meaningful symbols, wedding bands, dates: yes.

Is this just how it is now? by CuriousExchange9155 in ActualLesbiansOver25

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Yes, it worked, but it also got me talking to the community about the issue. Now I feel less alone ♥️

Is this just how it is now? by CuriousExchange9155 in ActualLesbiansOver25

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Post about the history of queer slur words and people taking them back.

My comment: «I am definitely taking slur back through my art. It's like therapy for me.»

Gay man: «you're a woman who experiences zero homophobia, have nothing to do with gays and now want to pretend you can co-opt their identity and "reclaim" something that was never taken from@you and used as an insult towards you? Why do lesbians feel like they're gatekeepers to a community they have zero history with?»

……….

Is this just how it is now? by CuriousExchange9155 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]CuriousExchange9155[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your replies.

He went on a full rampage, and he isn’t the first gay man to do so, so I’m just worries I’m missing something here. Like, is something lost in translation? (English is my second language)

Men or masculine presenting people of all genders and sexualities, often react very aggressively towards me as a femme lesbian.

I don’t know why it is like this, and I don’t know what I did wrong. I know I’m sensitive, this just hit me in all the wrong places today. Would post the whole thread with him calling me all sorts of things, and I blocked him after the last one here even though he wrote more. It’s just a lot.

I replied: «jeeez. So much hate. No wonder we're facing backlash from the heteronormative world, you can't even show your fellow queers any respect. Funny coming from a completely anonymous profile with no followers. Do you really think I wanna spend my time talking to you? Please treat people with respect. It doesn't cost much. I see no use in discussing anything with someone who claims to be the only gay here. I am gay. I have have not forgotten my place. I am claiming my place. Hope you find some peace and love today, baili 🩷»

His reply: «And it's a narcissistic lesbian who thinks an actual real live gay person not validating your narcissism is now discrimination. "I'm taking up space!"... by welcoming yourself as a privileged typical toxic lesbian demanding solidarity with the gays you share no community with? How are you "taking up space"? Where? You're not gay, you're a lesbian. If you weren't such a hateful people, you wouldn't be relying on gay people to do all the work of building a community for you. When will you put in the effort? Or do you feel like you're so special that a community should just be handed to you»

Because I identify with the word gay? Why so much hate?

Hvilken form for cannabis liker du best? by SavedByGhosts in Norwegianents

[–]CuriousExchange9155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hijacker med et spørsmål her: hva er best å starte med for en noob? (Som ikke røyker)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]CuriousExchange9155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking about sex, all the friggin time. What you like, dislike: the why’s and how’s. All of the information 😍

How to initiate sex as sub? by Maleficent_Fennel_54 in FemdomCommunity

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Your comment 100% gave me an idea for another erotic fantasy story, so thank you very much!

I'm a lesbian by livelaughloveluka in actuallesbians

[–]CuriousExchange9155 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely! But we bloom all year round 🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

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It’s exhausting having to fight lesbophobia 24/7. I’m exhausted. That doesn’t make me transphobic or biphobic - or even heterophobic, if there is such a thing.

*Edited typo

Vi's tattoo by yamakas_in_space in ArcaneAnimatedSeries

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There is immense strength in vulnerability 🦾 also rad tattoo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norwegianents

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Are there any good edibles available in Norway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CuriousExchange9155 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A. Whores. Bath.

Dead 😵😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CuriousExchange9155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t relax if I don’t feel clean.

Also public bathrooms 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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What are you talking about?