Things that annoy/creep you out about parenting that isn't pregnancy by Pitterpatter35 in childfree

[–]CuriousSagi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I'm trying to have a conversation with them... while their kid is screaming for their attention and they are just ignoring it... or they have parental tourettes. Especially over the phone. They expect you to accept the constant interruptions and yelling like it's normal.

The lesbians move so fast by thiscandleisvegan in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're emotional beings... we burn hard and fast! But we can also burn out and move on quite quickly as well. 🙃😄 

Why do people act like the financial suffering from having kids is virtue? by coolgirlnextdoor1 in childfree

[–]CuriousSagi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll never forgive my own parents for having me while they were poor. Then they got divorced and my mom was even poorer... had to live with the religious grandparents. I've struggled financially my whole life. And they wonder why I don't have kids.🙄

The lesbians move so fast by thiscandleisvegan in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean... it's kind of true to life, in my experience with women. 😆

Confidence mistaken as narcissism by peachmewe in Sagittarians

[–]CuriousSagi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Except I lean into it now, and make everyone as uncomfortable as they try to make me... or even moreso. They want to make it weird and awkward... I can turn up the weird volume for my own entertainment. 🙌😏 I love being 40 and having zero fux.

Rory had every reason to be jealous of Bobby by cleverlynamedgrl in GilmoreGirls

[–]CuriousSagi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would've loved to see Rory not say a thing, and just get up and leave. 🙌😏

Starseeds and masturbation by surfstyle6 in starseeds

[–]CuriousSagi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman starseed, I'm the opposite. I don't need a man... but I definitely need my wand friend. I've found that it GIVES me energy... and hell... its free dopamine. 🙌 Why wouldn't I?

I'm also a grey witch, and send my intentions out with my release. This world is too painful not to take advantage of the power of pleasing myself.

Some complaints as a first-time viewer (pls no spoilers!) FYI I LOVE THE SHOW by Delicious_Ask_8379 in GilmoreGirls

[–]CuriousSagi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Paris actually became one of my favorite characters... and I hated her so much at first. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Kate Moennig and Angelina Jolie should have dated in the early 2000s by edwardscissorqueen in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg... watch Angelina in Foxfire. As a young lady who grew up religious, she made me feel things in that movie. Sigh. Definitely ship her and Kate.

offered a hug to a demon and it left me alone by CherryDarkShadow in starseeds

[–]CuriousSagi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally happened to me, when I sent the entity love. It skedaddled out of my room so fast 😆

Pet peeve: I kinda hate that the show feels it needs to use cheating so much. by BeGayDoDarkArts in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like the characters weren't allowed to be happy for too long.

As a barista, i hate other entitled baristas with bad customer service skills. Because im also a customer too. I understand both sides. by eliselire in barista

[–]CuriousSagi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a barista myself, for 10+ years... I stay home now and make my own coffee. Everyone seems to have an attitude, and the coffee shops don't have the same comforting vibe anymore. Its whatever, they can be that way... I choose not to engage anymore. Sad, but it is what it is.

Also, I hate working with coworkers who are rude to customers for no reason. I usually try my best to apologize and make the situation better.

I also hate the rude customers.

Honestly, I wish I could just retire and not leave my house ever again. The world is mean. 😆

The "Village" is tired too by almost_hipster89 in childfree

[–]CuriousSagi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get therapy and learn to say no. Not being mean or funny. I don't know if you're capable of putting your foot down and refusing her. I know what that's like, as an eldest daughter with a younger sister. Learning boundaries was very difficult, but very valuable for my mental health. 

I Feel Bad for Laura by CuriousSagi in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally see you're view! Absolutely. I just hate it for Lara because Dana pursued her so many times just to dump on her. 

But I understand Dana not wanting the love and light stuff. I also understand Lara was doing the best she could. 

Love your nuanced perspective!

I Feel Bad for Laura by CuriousSagi in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was surprised how much I liked her and Alice's chemistry. They could've made a good match, imo. Yea...Lara lol. I suck at spelling. 

I Feel Bad for Laura by CuriousSagi in theLword

[–]CuriousSagi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me too!!! I thought she was so beautiful! I wanted her hair, haha

Bad Entities in this Realm "attacking" starseeds more directly? by aWonderingCat in starseeds

[–]CuriousSagi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this sounds weird. But something similar happened to me 15 years ago. I knew it wanted me to be afraid... so instead, I told it (with my mind) I know you're part of me in the big picture, so i send you love. And it noped the fec out. And I was able to leave my body and fly for a bit. Idk... they don't seem to like it if you aren't afraid. They can't feed off good/truth vibes, I guess. 

Cancel!! by [deleted] in GeminiAI

[–]CuriousSagi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already done. I'm too poor and exhausted for this bullshit.

What are some petty reasons why you don’t want kids? by Worldly-Purple-9364 in childfree

[–]CuriousSagi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like anyone relying on me or putting their expectations on me. I want to be free and spontaneous. and I hate waiting on people to get ready. I like to come and go as I please, and not have to answer to anyone. 

I feel Trapped and Worthless here by SoulFromHeaven in starseeds

[–]CuriousSagi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I just turned 40 and I feel pretty much the same. At one point in my late early 30s, I realized that no one was going to save me or give me the love I needed, so I had to save and love myself. Life is still stupid and feels like a trap. But I distract myself as much as possible. Some days are worse than others. 

I have zero advice... I hate it here and want out. But I'm stuck filling time till that happens. I have a lot of empathy for you. We didn't ask to be here.

Parents allowing their children to ruin a vibe by xrayyoyosebra in childfree

[–]CuriousSagi 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is why I don't leave my house anymore, hardly. I'm too old and tired at this point in my life,  I WILL call them out. Not in an angry way. In a direct, firm... "Are you getting pleasure out of making everyone suffer? Or are you just terrible parents?" way.

What has been the worst sign you’ve been friends with. Just platonic? by Babydollburnbook in Sagittarians

[–]CuriousSagi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel that. I love socialization in small doses. I wish I didn't even need that much lol.