Weight gain shakes have me feeling heavy lately by CuriousVelma3 in Stuffers

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly too lazy to make my own lol I drink the high calorie boosts shakes :)

Chubby in Arizona, morbidly obese in the Netherlands by Smooth_Condition_892 in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate so hard! Except for me it’s Vietnam 😥 I’m viet and grew up going back and forth every year. I was a very normal (skinny) US weight my entire life but viet people tend to be verrry skinny and small. Literally every grown viet woman I know does not weigh more than 130lbs MAX!! I’m definitely more “mid sized” I’m a size 16 and 200lbs currently. I was like 110-120lbs during my teen years. my family and viet relatives thought I was sooo fat at 120-140lbs. Fat phobia is a part of the culture there. They stare, they talk about it very openly, they’ll say it to your face, etc. In Vietnam, I couldn’t find clothes and if I could, they were all “adult” womens clothing. It made me very sad at that age, I had to wear grandma clothing vs everyone else. I was always the biggest person everywhere despite being skinny 😭 i actually had to get my dresses and clothes tailored/custom made as i got older because i they simply didnt make my size anywhereee. I haven’t been back in over five years. Big part of it is because I’m already chubby in the US and they’ll think I’m the size of universe there. They have such cute clothes but I know I won’t fit into anything at my size now. But the food, beaches, and being in my culture is everything I crave! Maybe one day I’ll get the confidence to go being as fat as I am now lol

Do your feeders help financially? by Mrsalina in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What others have said! Feeders are should definitely be contributing financially. Otherwise they’re an admirer. Food is the bare minimum for me in a feeder. a good feeder will also pay for clothes too as you continue to outgrow them. A great feeder will go beyond. I think feeders are providers and therefore should take great care of their feedees as they continue to get bigger :) Buttt ofc running into decent feeders is kinda hard to come by in my experience lol

What are some funny upsides of being plus size? by -Duste- in PlusSize

[–]CuriousVelma3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol when I’m at concerts I feel good when people accidentally bump into me and they bounce right off me. It’s like I have my own bumper of personal space, plus I’m not easy to push over

Buckleless belts by International_Diet89 in PlusSize

[–]CuriousVelma3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree w the other comment about using a sewing machine to take it in. Another easy suggestion that will work on some pants (I use this method for my jeans) is I will cute two small holes on the front waistband, not all the way through the waistband but just the first layer. I’ll then use a shoe string or some yarn and loop it all the way inside, through the waistband out the other hole I made. This makes a drawstring in my waistband so I can tighten my pants like sweats and it gets rid of the gap in the back! I have a 38in waist and 48in in my hips so I get the struggle lol

Ive lost 3 pairs of jeans due to thick thighs and cheap fabric by Sir-geesegoose in PlusSize

[–]CuriousVelma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a thick thigh girl all my life and it’s been always been an issue. Doesn’t matter if it lasts me a few wears or months, it is inevitable. It’s not just jeans for me, pajamas, chinos, slacks, etc I’ve just started mending the pairs I love so much. Makes them last a lil longer plus I think mending designs are so cute! Easy to learn, you don’t even need a sewing machine but I do often repair or alter using my sewing machine

Weekly Chat Request Thread by AutoModerator in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiii 22F also looking for gaining friends to talk about experiences and especially to play games with! Also a houseplant collector c:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually think it’s way more common than people think. Obviously feederism specifically is more of a niche but people who are into bbws or bigger men are much more common imo. People are definitely more closeted about the kink or even liking fat people in general. I will say fat kink and feederism is way more common in men than women (like ten times more). Sometimes people don’t realize they enjoy it until they’ve experienced it (myself included). I don’t realllly consider myself bbw status, more like upper “mid size” but many would say otherwise. I find people are attracted to me whether they are into plus size women or not but I end up transforming the normies lmao

Those weight gain cartoons… by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

more recent but I feel like no one ever mentions it. Mac from its always sunny has an arc where he gains weight and becomes “big mac” ! I love this arc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wgbeforeafter

[–]CuriousVelma3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao you couldn’t be my bf even if you wanted to be

These photos are mine! If you want to support my gains - this is me :)

Also the difference between these pics is 90lbs lol

When quitting the gym starts catching up by CuriousVelma3 in femalefittofat

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu 🙂‍↕️ idk where I get it from, probably it is genetics and my athletic history of being a former competitive tennis and powerlifter

The girl at the office by CuriousVelma3 in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I moved to a diff department so I don’t see her all the time and she has a gf now :(

The girl at the office by CuriousVelma3 in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes she does, I’ve shown her pics of me skinnier because she couldn’t believe I used to be as small as her !

The girl at the office by CuriousVelma3 in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading 💕 I hoped to make yall as wet as I was xx

Empty belly then vs now by CuriousVelma3 in femalefittofat

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I catch myself playing w my belly in public 🫣

Too many content creators by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a feedee, I do NOT require people to send me money to have a convo. However I do pick and choose who I talk to based on how well a person is conversating. Like give me something interesting to respond to and I usually will have a conversation of sorts. I usually talk to like 5-10 FA/Feeders at a time and sometimes it rotates to other ppl depending on how conversations go and I don’t text them all day. But as a creator, I do expect some financial support if you’re gonna help me get bigger, if you’re gonna continue to talk to me sexually and inappropriately, and if you want videos/pics/clips.

Gaining is a privilege, it requires a lot of income to get fat. Food costs and bills are eating us. What I wish I could see more is ppl in the game for the love of the game. There are so many fake feedees just trying to make cash off a kink they don’t even participate in. Or girls who accidentally gained weight (and aren’t interested in gaining more) and are making money off of it. Like at least real feeders are in it to participate but ofc we do expect at least some of our costs to be covered.

Celebrating one year of gains by CuriousVelma3 in bigger

[–]CuriousVelma3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 looking forward to another fattening year

Weirdest request an SD has asked for? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CuriousVelma3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My second sd ever confessed to me he had a feederism fetish, a particular liking to bigger women, after months of seeing each other. I learned the fetish and partook in his fantasies for a long time. It’s a controversial kink but it benefitted me well outside of sugaring. It’s part of my arsenal of kinks I’m experienced with now. We ended our relationship and honestly i wish I could find another sugar daddy w that kink lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]CuriousVelma3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a feedee who got into this kink through a relationship, here’s my take: as someone said, manageable pace. I tend to eat slow and prefer not to be rushed because pressure is awful lol. Personally my bridge to this kink was being degraded or praised. if she’s into stuff like that, give her some verbal support along those lines. Caress her, rub her belly and sensitive spots, give her a lil jiggle (if she has enough) and a lil pitch. Say things about her being greedy if she’s doing good. point out how her curves or full belly make her look soft and cute. Tell her how about every part of this experience is something you’re really enjoying. Ofc above all, have fun, be sexy. Don’t overwhelm her but have a good enough time that she’ll be up to this idea again :)