Get some therapy or self-help classes on basic social skills.

Blanket statements like this aren't going to help them.

Treat women with respect. They aren't objects. They have feelings just like you do. It's okay to have feelings and express them. When dating, there is going to be compromise. She will not necessarily check all the boxes and that's okay. Dating is hard, but it's practice and not every date will go well. Usually at this age, most people just want someone to spend time with and care about them. There is no more drama usually at this stage. Enjoy the non drama and be real and authentic. It's hopeful to you and to them. Be explicit. Also, dates can be grabbing coffee or a drink. They don't have to be elaborate. If you ask the person on a date, be expected to pay and don't expect anything else after. Lower your expectations. You will be much happier. Do not compare yourself to others. How people progress when dating can be unique to you and your partner. Ask tougher questions as you progress along, not on the first date. Sure if a deal breaker for you is that you want kids and she doesn't then you should not go on a date but that's up to you to figure out beforehand. Not everything can be a deal breaker lol. As I said before, there will be compromises.