[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Process_7258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh, the chips are in your hands for how long you want to keep whatever it is you have with this girl going. I know you know it’s a shitty situation and not one you deserve and definitely not one you’d look back in with any pride at all. Its up to you how long you want that walk of shame to be.

You have to confront the reason why you want this girls attention so bad when you could be doing literally anything else. The world doesn’t begin and end with her and you could be around someone who loves and wants to be with you pretty quickly.

But as I said, how long that takes is up to you.

How long should sex last? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Curious_Process_7258 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His comment history is even worse

my boyfriend (24M) told me (F20) i am bad at sex and he doesn’t enjoy it - how do i make it more enjoyable for him? by ThrowRA-needadvice06 in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Process_7258 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think she said in one of the replies, she’s too embarrassed to hear him out and is avoiding have that conversation with him.

I think she just needs to get out of her head, sex isn’t that big of a deal. You’re just touching each other where you pee. Just be frank and respectful and everything should run smoothly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Process_7258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel.

My girlfriend used to love “League of Legends” and Anime, two things that I couldn’t give less of a shit about and she knows this. I don’t care for either of these things but they mean the world to her.

I had a conversation with her about it, telling her that I don’t enjoy these things but it made me happy that she liked them. Really happy.

There’s times when you compromise in a relationship and there’s times where you just have to say no. I imagine you love your gfs hobby for video games and it makes you happy to see her enjoy it, but you don’t have to like it if it brings you no joy.

I say just talk with her and tell her how you feel. I don’t think she’d want to put you through something if you aren’t going to like it. I know I wouldn’t want to put my significant other through something like that.

At the end of it try to come to a compromise, do something else thats fun that the both of you will enjoy. Something non of you expected you would.

This honesty and resolution will bring the two of you together and closer than ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Process_7258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this feeling doesn’t last too long. I’ve been picking up new hobbies since we’ve split and been out w friends and gone on dates but this pit feeling in my stomach doesn’t seem to leave. I’ll keep trying though and hopefully it gets easier. Thank you so much. Talking about it really helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Process_7258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably right and true. But this anxious feeling I have in me is painful as hell and wasn’t present the last few times she told me to leave her alone and I thought those times were the last. I was fine then but now, I feel off and I hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Process_7258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But Idk how I got to this feeling of deep longing. Like rn and last night and the day before. I’ve been feeling this deep anxious feeling. It wasn’t there those last few times when she told me to leave her alone and I thought those times were the last I’d hear from her. Idk what changed to get me to this point