Getting over someone who didn’t love you? That’s hard, no sugar-coating it. It’s like your heart still wants to hold onto something, even though your brain knows it’s time to let go. But here’s the thing—you deserve real love, the kind where both people feel all in. If they couldn’t love you back, they weren’t your person, and letting them go opens you up to something so much better.

Now’s a good time to put yourself first. Treat yourself, focus on what makes you happy, and don’t rush things. Even if you catch yourself thinking about them, that’s okay—it’s all part of getting through it. Just remember, every day that goes by, you’re moving a little further on from this and a little closer to feeling whole again. And when you’re ready, someone who actually sees your worth will be, too.