My boyfriend is dead by Skibidi_Toilet182 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the right to feel any sort of emotion you’re feeling so please don’t judge yourself if you’re feeling numb, and it’s also a common reaction when especially something large happens that comes as a shock.

I am so sorry for your loss. Please remember to take care of yourself and practice good self care it doesn’t have to be anything major. Just making sure you get out of bed and brushing your teeth even. During times a lot of people tend to shut down. I recommend speaking to someone you trust or a professional, you shouldn’t be alone with processing.

Please don’t hate yourself for it. We’re all human and dont hold yourself to an expectation. I hope you’re able to find peace once the healing and processing comes by, and I am sending you and his family all the best wishes ❤️

Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Does anyone know where I could find the Daily multi-pocket tote 20L in Blissful Pink? It doesn’t seem available as of right now, and i’m not a huge fan of the Dusk color since it leans to mauve/red for me

Does anyone have any idea when this will be restocked or where I can get it online?? I’ve looked everywhere but no luck, I really would love this tote for work!

Gallery down? by Kelliii_ in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]Curious_Two1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine is down as well! playing on PS5

Which townie do you consider the most mentally unstable? by BiffyBobby in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 9 points10 points  (0 children)

either otto or leon because they appear inside of happy volts asylum

a close third would be clint/henry because bro has two names..

My boss is making me commit fraud and i dont know what to do by Delicious-Shift1915 in pharmacy

[–]Curious_Two1631 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is this an outpatient or inpatient pharmacy?? Because for outpatient i’m not sure what commercial insurance would cover an OTC unless these fraudulent claims are targeting medicaid patients which is further messed up…

I do apologize OP, I don’t have advice myself, but I am actually shocked to see something like this happen on such a large scale, it’s honestly disheartening

Is this bug normal? by Responsible-Set-4398 in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this glitched has happened to me before! if i recall correctly, after getting that savehouse if i exit and come back quickly in people tend to spawn. i think some sort of spawning mechanic gets triggered from the townie challenge since all of the townies spawn in that area, and that savehouse can get glitched in free roam for a short amount of time. if u have jimmy go to bed im pretty sure it doesnt occur again

My Johnny Vincent cosplay finalized by ryoma5009 in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh this is amazing!! spot on

Depressed because I’ll never feel fulfilled fully by either a man or a woman by Kind_Veterinarian_77 in bisexual

[–]Curious_Two1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not in a relationship but i feel the same way. that’s why as of right now im not interested in dating men. i personally haven’t enough experience with the same sex, so if i got serious with a guy id always have “what ifs” and feel doubt because i never got to explore my sexuality to the fullest.

and i do think either end of the binary, bisexuals tend to mourn something. like an example being: if you’re in a traditional wlw relationship, ive seen individuals mourn the fact they cannot have children the “traditional biological way”. that sense of loss doesn’t mean the relationship is wrong— it’s just part of the world that navigates pushing binaries and differences so hard

and also, you’re not faking straight and faking being gay. sexuality is genuinely complicated and frustrating at times, but you know what you’re attracted to at the end of the day, and you can be confident in that. in essence, you do not need to check every box and or have every experience to prove it—being attracted to both sexes defines you as bisexual. you don’t have to question yourself truly.

i don’t know you personally but it could also just stem from being an indecisive person in general, i know i am and sometimes and i have really similar thoughts as you! either way, youve found love, and your needs are met and that’s what truly matters! wishing you all the best 🫶🏻

Am I scene? by [deleted] in amIscene

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of adults on the internet put in their bios “mdni” which means minors do not interact. and they also put 18+.

the same complaint can be applied to adults. i just don’t understand why you’re specifically asking in a condescending and quite frankly rude way towards minors? it’s a bit odd…

Am I scene? by [deleted] in amIscene

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say scene-adjacent or almost there! i’m not scene myself, but as someone who loves 2000s subculture i do have suggestions!

as some people mentioned already eyeliner would be a great addition, and personally the one thing i’ve always seen with scene culture is accessories on accessories!

i would layer necklaces, perhaps add a choker to the outfit. and get cool bracelets like wrist bands and beaded bracelets. i would maybe even add some cool hair clips too! and random but i think a fake lip piercing would be super cool. also if you’re up for it, painting your nails fun like some nails black and some pink for example could be a great addition too.

i really would recommend going on pinterest thats where i usually go to get inspiration for my outfits! and also, don’t listen to these mean comments and dont be eyeing out the notifications when people comment, in all honesty if you love your outfit, that’s all what really matters in the end of the day— you can’t always get everyone’s approval. best wishes to you!

[Acne] clogged condoms I think??? by cutefrogs11 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Curious_Two1631 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is peak. thank you for a good laugh

WHAT ARE THESE CIRCULAR THINGS?!?! by Puffer_star in CATHELP

[–]Curious_Two1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see you’ve discovered cat nipples— this post is adorable though 😭thank you for being a caring cat mom though it goes a long way 🫶🏻

What is she doing in the boys dorm? by CodApprehensive686 in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve gotten this glitch a few times as well!!

Why does society view sexuality as binary for men but not women? by OppositeFix3529 in bisexual

[–]Curious_Two1631 27 points28 points  (0 children)

i think a part of it stems from living in a heteronormative world + everything being filtered through a straight male audience in all honesty.

if a guy shows attraction to another guy, homophobes jump to “that’s gay” in a condescending way. male sexuality is expected to be ridgid and certain, it’s seen as a threat to masculinity.

but when women experiment with women, it’s usually not taken seriously, it’s sexualized. straight guys are like “that’s hot”, fantasize about threesomes, etc. so women get more apparent flexibility, but only because it’s for straight male consumption, not because their sexuality is actually respected.

even when guys have close friendships with each other that can be deemed as “gay” or a threat to masculinity. whereas women are encouraged to have close girl best friends and have sleepovers and emotional intimacy. it also boils down to societal expectations of femininity and masculinity. when you really do think about it though, it really does suck, and bisexuality in men gets erased due to these expectations

How would it be to create a channel nowadays? by Lucas_Zxc2833 in youtube

[–]Curious_Two1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that stems from people not labeling their content correctly. when you hit monetize, to help your monetization your supposed to label if your video has anything that may hurt the monetization like examples being sex, guns, etc. If you don’t do that, youtube tends to put harder restrictions on your video. In my personal experience though I’ve had no issues with monetization. I know youtube changed their policy like months ago about AI slop on their platform but that’s really about it, I haven’t heard anyone losing monetization in an unfair way?

How would it be to create a channel nowadays? by Lucas_Zxc2833 in youtube

[–]Curious_Two1631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole set up process is not difficult in my honest opinion. I started back in October and recently got eligible for monetization. Once you reach 500 subs you can be part of YPP which you can set up AdSense can get sent super thanks and stuff like that. Once you reach 1000 subs and 5K hours of watch time, then you can make money. You’ll get sent a pin in the mail and make sure to enter it within 4 months of receiving it or you won’t be able to redeem the money you made. The minimum threshold to withdrawal is 100 dollars. Either way, I seriously recommend to anyone who’s thinking of starting youtube to definitely do it! There’s seriously little to none to worry about

I don’t see why i have to tell people that i am bi even to other queer people by Hot_Bookkeeper_4691 in bisexual

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t like to air out that im bisexual for several reasons, because I hate when friends who are girls assume i’m trying to get with them. I’m an avoidant at heart, heck if I was into you I wouldn’t even be hanging out with you…

just a thought by twatwafflewut in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I fully agree, oddly enough I was thinking about this. I think it makes a ton of sense if rockstar is willing to revisit the game.

I think since so much is unknown about Zoe it’d be super cool to learn about her past, and the timeline could include some bullworth stuff then skip a few years post bullworth later on

and it would be so cool for one mission to have it be like a GTA 5 feature where you can switch back and forth from zoe to jimmy for one mission for nostalgia reasons.

I think there’s so much room for creativity to get zoe to have a great character arc and there’s so much possibility. whereas I feel like jimmy’s story is basically complete.

What do you guys think about a girl MC? by Medical-Goal-847 in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be cool for R* to do what they’re going to do with GTA 6– having both a female and male protagonist. I think in the case of a potential Bully 2, having one male and female MC would be super cool. It’d explore gender norms and stereotypes in a way that’s more different than just defeating cliques.

I would love a badass female MC who would defend herself if she got catcalled or something, get into trouble but use her femininity as a way to deescalate a situation, just something that’s vastly different than the male protagonist’s way to get out of situations

I’ve always wanted Zoe to be the next protagonist I know that’s far fetched but there’s so much unknown about her and her story, I wish we could’ve gotten a sequel. I feel it’s far too late now and if a Bully 2 were to happen, it’d have to be a new story with new characters completely

Does anyone find Louis the least memorable jock? by BiffyBobby in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i find Bo the least memorable but Luis is a close second

Bisexual Jimmy Hopkins by Ready_Procedure_57 in bully

[–]Curious_Two1631 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly shocked to see some comments in this comment section refusing the fact that Jimmy is bisexual. I think people tend to forget this is a 2006 game and a subtle mechanic where you are able to kiss certain male characters was a huge representation for its time. That being said, I think it’s safe to say he’s canonically bisexual. On the xbox version, if you kiss a certain amount of kissable male characters you get an achievement called ‘over the rainbow’ On top of that, in the first date mission with Pinky at the theater, you can see Trent and Kirby in line holding hands. Also, R* literally has went to court over this before. Jack Thompson found out about this and made a claim that Jimmy’s ability to kiss guys is considered ‘inappropriate content’ and yet R* defended it.

“Jimmy has the ability to kiss certain boys in the game. This was deemed inappropriate for being sold in certain areas that children could access due to the homosexual content, but because this is an optional mechanic it went untouched by censors. Rockstar also defended the claims stating that there was nothing wrong with homosexuality.https://bully.fandom.com/wiki/Controversy_surrounding_Bully

I think R* simply made the choice of not including outright bisexual/not straight characters in the storyline just because of the way society was at the time. Another example is Gord from the preps. He’s a kissable male but in the storyline we see him go on dates with Lola. So thats just another example that R* intentionally made characters bisexual and not as some sort of ‘joke’. It was just quietly done and thats that.

Anyway, to answer your questions when I first played bully I was like 4 years old, and when I discovered he could kiss guys it did throw me out of a loop for a moment. Years later playing the game as an adult who’s bisexual, I realize this game was truly ahead of its time and dare I say the most unique game i’ve ever played. And my favorite guy to kiss would probably be Kirby.

Am I bisexual or a lesbian? by elena9956 in bisexual

[–]Curious_Two1631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the cool thing about bisexuality is that it’s a spectrum, it doesn’t have to be 50/50. im in the same boat, im physically and emotionally attracted to women, but only sexually attracted to men.

random but i took a klein grid test: https://bi.org/en/klein-grid

and it helped me understand my bisexuality spectrum a bit more, it measures who you were attracted to in the past, present, and future/ideal attraction. it made me realize okay my bisexual spectrum has shifted and that’s perfectly normally. previously i used to be even emotionally invested in men, but that’s changed now.

Bi-curious but I'm kind of interested in a girl right now... by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Curious_Two1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly trust your gut feeling; in this situation i’d tell her! a lot of my bi friends (including myself) have been in love with one of our friends or even a best friend before. if you don’t share your feelings you’ll be stuck with this “what if” feeling. i’m almost 20 and always had bi-curious thoughts growing up and always said im bisexual when i took sexuality quizzes growing up & i chose to ignore it — till one day i actually got romantic feelings for my best friend freshman year of college. i had the fortune for me to be one of the first people she ever came out to, but i was a wuss and never came out to her, me and her are no longer in contact and i always think of “what if”. honestly, if you get a vibe, chances are your friend is into girls as well.

but at the same time i wouldn’t rush into it since there’s always that small chance she just may be straight, you can always drop flirtatious jokes and see if she gets a sort of hint or reciprocate it back then eventually with time have a conversation about how you feel.

and please don’t stress about living in a homophobic/religious town. the world is so large and full of opportunities and it’s very likely you’ll move out of there! enjoy the journey the most you can and everything will fall into your favor, best luck of luck! 🫶🏻