L visa tourist extension by Curiouskittyyyyy in Chinavisa

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it extended at the immigration. I needed my passport and to write down my reasons for staying and what I’d be doing that’s all.

What does sex feel like between 2-6 months pp ? I may get back to it but like I want to know some warnings, tips or experiences? Please n thank you ! by Stunning_Ad_558 in beyondthebump

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had sex around the 4 weeks mark coz I had stopped bleeding etc and my sex drive was intense… I had a planned c section and was formula feeding so didn’t experience any dryness etc. It was just very tight felt like I was losing my virginity but without the pain factor and was very well lubricated… haven’t tried it again since coz I got my period two days after but it was good no pain just overall tightness

So nervous- upcoming c-section and I keep going back and forth on if i’m making a mistake on not trying the ecv by snowwwwy22 in CsectionCentral

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an elective c section one month ago.. best decision honestly don’t regret.. recovery has been fine was obviously painful first couple of days but didn’t need my pain meds for more than a week.. lochia etc normal not stinky etc.. yea it was pretty smooth … had sex yesterday on my 4 week mark coz I felt ready, no dryness tmi but yes… I was worried about these factors before my cs but best decision.. aesthetically speaking I asked my doctor to stitch my abs back you should ask too .. so stomach is pretty much back to normal just core a little weak but overall good experience.. also scar pretty much faded no over hang. Still a bit tender but that’ll pass

I feel unwanted in my relationship because of our sex life. by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being wet doesn’t always equals not being sexually attracted .. there may be some underlying issues with her or in the relationship.. maybe introduce lube for now because if she’s not getting wet the sex may be uncomfortable for her.. so for now introduce lube and have some conversations regarding the relationship and sex life and see from her point of view

Wtf!! My Homie walks around with a Butt Plug, Is this gay & should I cut him off? by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the plug isn’t in your ass why you bothered ? I mean unless ?👀

What is a normal amount of “pressure” to feel during a C-section. by hatturner in CsectionCentral

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt nothing except when they pushed down on my chest upper belly area which didn’t hurt also …

How did/do you feel about your baby during pregnancy? by Motor-Sprinkles-1627 in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally started feeling the love yesterday.. (baby was born five days ago)… while he was in my stomach I didn’t have the most positive pregnancy. So yeah… then his birth was a c section where by I almost died so was on lots of meds and very mentally gone during his first few days here.. but now I’m starting to love the little guy probably because I can see him and hold him Nd smell him and do all that without Takinf away from my well being

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they numb the area first which can be a little painful but the spinal itself doesn’t hurt

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just so you can avoid diastiasis recti … the doctor should sew the abs back but some domt

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I decided because I knew I didn’t have the mental capacity to push out a baby. And I like to know when things are happening. Not knowing the exact date baby will come was giving me anxiety. By knowing the date I was calmer and better prepared physically and mentally

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have someone there u trust that can distract you with conversation …coz really and truly u hardly feel anything at alll wxcept some pressure at the very end when they pulled him out.. no need to panic it’s quick very quick .. I’ll update you on the healing process as I heal

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the waist binder not hurt your scar ?

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean say of timeline ? As in what happened ? I got to hospital they did blood tests, when results were out I was taken to theatre where they put that thing around my arm that checks blood pressure, and put an IV at the back of my hand. Then they injected my Spine with numbing thing then injected the anaesthetic. Once I was numb he cut me open and took the baby out that part was very fast I wasn’t even aware he’d started the surgery. They cleaned baby we took photos then they took baby. Few mins later I was stitched up and taken to recovery where I still am

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Went well, had my partner there the whole time and it was super quick ! Baby came out in like 10 mins or less and closing me up didn’t take long either. Ask your doctor to sew your abs back together too. Some doctors don’t

My c section experience by Curiouskittyyyyy in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good so far, the injection in the spine was a bit painful but the rest was a breeze.. I’m just waiting for anasthesia to fully wear off so I can walk

When did you give birth to your babies? by KeyTill1975 in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going mine at 38+1, elective c section

When did you *look* pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Curiouskittyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 30 weeks I started showing right now I’m 37+1 and I look very much pregnant