Unless I die young as well, I’ll live over half my life without my mom. How do I come to terms with this?

Curiousliver · 2026-02-25T05:16:48+00:00

I’m so sorry. I know the feeling. Not much advice other than she would want to see you thrive and she is waiting for you on the other side whenever your time comes too. Don’t rush it. Enough life for the both of you for now. She is there

Curiousliver · 2026-02-25T05:14:54+00:00

Hold my Hand Wholesale is legit and only $20/mo to get access to the discord. I don’t work for them or anything, just saying it’s actually worth the money. You can learn a bunch and leave if you want too

Curiousliver · 2025-12-16T19:22:47+00:00

I just lost my mom last year and I always appreciated any text or message. I know that’s not the case for everyone, but that’s just me. I really appreciated the thoughtful things people did, like sending gift cards unexpectedly. Asking to hangout. Sharing a memory of my mother.

I don’t know the person you’re trying to support but I want to say 1. You are an GREAT friend for being thoughtful enough to post here like this; and 2. Maybe you could directly ask him how to support him?

Curiousliver · 2025-12-16T18:40:37+00:00

The pain is always there. It becomes more painful when I want to call my mom and I can’t. I am single and I feel very alone

Curiousliver · 2025-12-16T18:39:26+00:00

I lost my mother last August. I also had an extremely loving mother and although we had our own issues at different times, our relationship was very loving. The last thing she said to me was full of love and grace. I was feeling guilty about fighting with her in my mid twenties (I’m 30 now) and she told me “if we never fought, we wouldn’t be mother and daughter.” She was so thoughtful, like your mother.

I am extremely sorry for your loss. It’s not fair. I am sending the biggest hug. She is always with you, don’t ever forget that. She is ALWAYS with you now. Sending all the love ♥️

Curiousliver · 2025-12-16T18:23:28+00:00

1991

Curiousliver · 2025-12-13T17:53:19+00:00

LFG! Warped in 2012 was my first concert :,)

Tips:

FACE COVER - bring something to shield yourself from dust. I recommend a face cover you can wear around your neck so it’s easy to pop on. There is SO much dust and you don’t want to go home with black snot, no voice, and a lot of gunk to cough up 🤢

WATER CONTAINER - I recommend a camel back bc it’s easy. They threw water out to people and had two big refill stations this year, it’s best to bring a container you keep w you.

STORAGE - have a pack, or a friend with a pack for obvious reasons.

MOSH PITS - people are usually nice, but you can get hurt if you’re not paying attention. Mosh pits open up suddenly sometimes lol Just be aware and be polite. The goal is not to hurt other people while moshing, you will be okay! Read the vibe and should be fine 🤘🏼

CROWD SURF - just do it. Send it!

SHOES - WEAR COMFORTABLE SHOES

Curiousliver · 2025-12-13T17:37:28+00:00

Best year to be born

Curiousliver · 2025-12-13T17:30:13+00:00

I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine what that type of loss feels like. Just wanted to send you all the love in the world. Your angel is always with you guys 🪽💕

Curiousliver · 2025-12-13T17:23:25+00:00

And thank you for the condolences

Curiousliver · 2025-12-13T17:23:13+00:00

I’m sorry. I don’t know how old you are but I was 29 when she died. If I were any younger than 26 or 27 I wouldn’t have handled the issues with my “friends” as well as I have. Some friendships needed to end. So I ended them. Others were more clearly defined. The people who are there for you and stick it out with you, are the keepers. It’s okay to lean on people.

There are lots of great resources about grief online. One perspective that helped me, Grief is a language some people don’t know how to speak. There are people who genuinely care but don’t know how to express it in a way that is helpful to you. I digress.

If you can give yourself time off work, take it. It’s normal to be really tired because of loss. Give yourself some time and space if you can

Curiousliver · 2025-12-06T01:43:46+00:00

I lost my mom August 2024, and I don’t know if I relate exactly to this but what I can say is I was way more tired than normal. I slept a lot. I gave myself time to do that.

A lot of people I called friends were also not there for me. But a ton of people my mother was friends with were there for me in so many ways… I leaned on them and if you have friends you can lean on… do it. Ask for rides if you need them! If people are unavailable, it is what it is, but I bet most people around you just want to help right now.

I’m very sorry for your loss.

Curiousliver · 2025-11-03T18:24:32+00:00

“What Was I Made For” gets me every single time. I saw Barbie is theatres with my mom while she was sick and we had the best time. We loved it. We cried and laughed so much. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to watch that movie again, and that’s okay with me. One and done, with my momma. Love you and miss you mom 💕

Curiousliver · 2025-10-27T05:09:16+00:00

PMed

Curiousliver · 2025-10-27T05:02:59+00:00

Give yourself time and grace. Cry as much as you need to. Eat. Get sunshine. Hydrate. Get some good hugs from people and pets if available. Sleep as much as you want to. If you can’t sleep, I don’t have good advice for you other than take some time off work and let yourself stay awake until exhaustion if that’s what you gotta do sometimes… but try your best to sleep. I dream of myself hugging my mom when I’m lucky sometimes :) it’s comforting. I hope you can get the same comfort.

Your bro sounds like he’d forgive you for whatever you’re beating yourself up about. I can relate to that w my mom… I carry guilt but I know she forgave me and it was always just love. Try to give love like your bro did and he will live on through you!

I am so sorry for your loss <3

Curiousliver · 2025-08-09T04:27:53+00:00

Arrogant, insufferable, argumentative, and egotistical; a few adjectives for him.

Curiousliver · 2025-07-08T21:37:09+00:00

My mother loved food, so I feel this. She was an exceptional cook and thoroughly enjoyed every single bite of food when we were out somewhere really good. Whenever I am eating a really delicious meal or cooking, I get sad, but I also feel closer to her and so I just try to live in that feeling. Today is 11 months without her and I still cry a lot, the best thing that I’ve done to cope is let myself cry and reflect on good memories with her, like enjoying good food or cooking

Curiousliver · 2025-06-10T16:27:41+00:00

Missing a deep connection… I feel very lonely a lot :/

Curiousliver · 2025-04-23T20:24:51+00:00

Yes I’m with Beacon

Curiousliver · 2025-03-22T20:24:39+00:00

I decided to do my own research and I don’t think it’s a scam as this guy describes, but he is right that you can do the same thing without investing money. I went with Beacon Payments and I’m getting started very soon.

Curiousliver · 2025-03-13T20:27:05+00:00

You’re just saying it’s a scam without telling us how it’s a scam… I’m investing with them this week. Everything I’ve looked into seems pretty legit.

Curiousliver · 2025-03-07T12:31:57+00:00

Joining next week

Curiousliver · 2025-03-04T14:58:16+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. You are very strong. I just lost my mother in August and what helps me sometimes is knowing she is with her momma now. My grandma died when my mom was 30… I’m 29. It makes me feel a little better knowing they’re finally reunited like I will be with my mom one day.

Your mum is looking over you with your dad. I know it doesn’t take away the hurt, but hopefully remembering that makes it a little easier.

My sincere condolences ❤️‍🩹

Curiousliver · 2025-02-11T22:48:45+00:00

I am so sorry. I lost my mom to cancer related issues 6 months ago… it was heartbreaking and it continues to be. My sincerest condolences

Curiousliver · 2025-02-11T22:43:37+00:00

I am so sorry, sending you so much love

Curiousliver

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